
REPLAY: How Attachment Changes
About this episode
Part 6 of 6 in the June series on attachment!
The part you've probably been waiting for: how does attachment change?
If you haven't caught the previous five episodes in this series on attachment, be sure to check them out.
In this episode, we look at
- How important it is to recognize insecure attachment as protective, trusting in the truth that things only change once we stop trying to make them change
- What was needed at the time- but not received- for each stream of insecure attachment
- How to meet that need now, creating a possible experience for that experience in attachment to shift toward security
- The power of rupture and repair in shift toward secure attachment
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