How to Stop Fighting Your Body After 40 and Start Working With It

💪🏿 “Strength, health, and self-respect are achieved not for anyone else’s approval, but for the fulfillment of living authentically in your own body.”

In this inspiring episode of The Forties Formula podcast, hosts Jasmin Dhillon and Amanda Lim sit down with comedian MELISSA SARAH WEE, founder of Guilty Pleasure by M.S.W, lifestyle and fitness enthusiast, and experienced personal trainer. Melissa shares her powerful journey of body transformation, from battling eating disorders and societal pressures to becoming a competitive bodybuilder and embracing motherhood.

We explore the complexities of body image, the pressures women face around perfection and muscle, and the messy, yet empowering road to self-acceptance. Melissa opens up about pregnancy, fitness over 40, meal planning, and how building muscle isn’t just about appearance but about longevity, strength, and confidence.

Tune in to hear practical advice, candid reflections, and encouragement for anyone who’s ever felt at war with their body. This episode is a celebration of strength, self-love, and reclaiming your relationship with your own skin.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 – Episode Snippet

01:29 – Sarah’s early struggles with eating disorders

04:31 – Parallels between bodybuilding and eating disorders

06:28 – Emotional triggers behind eating habits

08:47 – Learning to value strength over just being thin

10:04 – Pregnancy fitness routine and adjustments

12:00 – How is it going to be after your pregnancy?

14:45 – Fuel Your Forties: Planning meals and eating enough protein

18:07 – Cultural pressure on Asian women’s body image

21:02 – Societal pressures on women’s appearances

22:06 – Muscle growth and self-perception

24:13 – Common mistakes in muscle building

27:04 – Sustainable diet vs. strict bodybuilding diet

31:02 – Self-acceptance over external validation in relationships

32:04 – Hot or Hype

36:06 – Take the first step

38:17 – Accountability is showing up even when motivation is low

40:21 – The Forties Formula: Everything is temporary, stay present

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