Ready to Love Detroit's finale recap

0:00All right, guys, on this wintery day, actually right now we are under, we call it a winter situation here. It's pretty, oh God, hold on. It's pretty cold. It's pretty icy out here, so I want to go ahead and start talking about this recap. Before I even actually get into the recap, I wanted to really quick say something, and this is something that I didn't think I had to say, but it is what it is. I say it probably on every show that I talk about, or just the different junkies that I involved in, I always have to say this. And surprisingly, for this season of Ready to Love, I've kind of kept it up. I've been on low profile when it comes to this show, not really being as much as I usually are as far as involved in Ready to Love. And I have my reasons why, because I have other shows that I do have things going on.

1:02And so that's why I just, you know, but what I will say is this, when I do commentary about these different shows, it's not personal to me. I literally talk about what's in public, I talk about what is, you know, if it's sent to me or not, or whatever, I just talk about literally everything. If you don't vocalize anything to me, then it is what it is. You know, I just, I'm not going to be like trying to search through the woods and the jungle to find out what you're talking about. I'm not going to do that. So I just report, you know, with again, if it is public, I think that's told to me, would be behind the scenes or on my channel, you know, that's just what it is. So I just wanted to say that because I don't think people understand that when you have journalists and bloggers or just podcasts or just people who just talk about or fans, whatever they might look like, for me, in the beginning of my YouTube career was, I struggled to separate it because I was in the beginning of my career and I got close to a lot of cast

2:05members. Now I know how to do that. I really do. Okay. So with that being said, let's go ahead and get started. So with that being said, let me also say, when it comes to fans or cast, they get mad and follow, they don't want to talk, whatever, that's fine. After all these year people don't understand, I've been doing this since, I don't know how many years that nothing bothers me, like at all. Okay. All right. So the finale and I know Chale's supposed to be here, but you know, Chale's got, you know, wifey and the baby and with the winter storm that we're having at Dallas, it might be some internet issues because I was scared I wasn't going to be able to get on today. If you can hear it, it's literally misleading right now. Okay. And I'm trying to figure out if I'm going to be able to go to work tomorrow or not, depending on how to how I always look. My mom's saying no. Okay. So the finale, everyone getting together for food and you guys know how I feel about ready to love and food. I mean, you know what?

3:05It's a process. I do think it is a process in the beginning. And I'm not going to say they starved the people. I'm not going to say that. I don't think that they starved them, but one of the biggest things I see here about often was, oh, chances here. Hold on. My bad. Let me get my hip on though. Hold on, brother. Let me get my hips on. If I can hear you. Wait, is my hold on to my hips that turned on? Okay. What's going on, sir? Can you hear me? Jazz, can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you. I'm sorry. I had told them I said we're having this winter. I got quiet so they can hear it's literally still splitting outside. It's pretty bad. I hear in Texas. I'm not sure what's happening, but anyway, I'm loving it. Are you loving it? Well, I'm not sure if I'm going to work tomorrow. I would just tell them that I don't know if I'm going to be able to make it because it's

4:08just really bad. But I would risk it. Well, my mom told me just don't even because people were stuck on the highway if the exit I had to exit. So I'm just not going to worry about it. It's not that serious. Well, no, it's not when I came on here. I gave a little disclaimer, which I know you've heard me say more than once, even when you were on your season, I said that people are not going to be always happy with what I post and things that I say or if people in my panel, you know, they're not going to always be happy with it, which you've seen it many times. And for me, it's like, I want people to understand, especially as your first time being in a reality show, everybody going to have their opinions, people going to say what they want to say. You've got to roll with it or respond, however you do with it, that's, you know, that's up to that person. I would never tell somebody how to respond. You know what I'm saying? But I want people to also understand that for me, if I post thing, there's normally public or someone told it to me behind the scenes or y'all having to what? Y'all having to have a new worst and I'm confused on that one.

5:13Oh, I like that outfit, that's sure. So yeah. I would just pretty much, you know, let everybody know that, you know, come on, yeah, just give me, give me the grace and understand that in my younger days, maybe I'll be dragging everybody and dissecting every, I don't do all that anymore. I just talk about the show, I recap it, if there's some tea, I may talk about it, but because of my junk is that I do outside of this show, I do not want to be just like, you know, ride, ride, ride, every time, that's why I don't do all that. So that's why I gave a disclaimer saying, you don't like it, unfollow me, don't listen to me, I understand 100%. So anyway. What's the money I've said? No, I've said they just didn't agree with my posts. The one I said to you earlier, on Instagram, okay. So I want you to not say, this is what I said in the beginning, I'm talking about this. Now, RTL finale, everyone's getting together and I would be okay normally, but I retwist in my hair and they got clips in my hair, I look a mess, I'm maybe going to do it. So RTL, the finale, they were all going to get it for food and what I said was I put food

6:16in caps of my notes because in the earlier rates of love days, and again, I said, I don't think they starved them or whatever, but I will say that a lot of cast members in the past before Dallas, even, you know, they will tell me and I won't say the names. They said that, you know, there was a lot of food, but a lot of liquor. Now, with that being said, the past few seasons, they've been coming together with the food, cooking and all kind of things, even in this situation. So I'm like, you know, that's cute to me. So they had the little, they had the little, the last meal or whatever. So ladies, family, and everything else was going on today. Vince, question, Darius, and I feel like, and this, and I'd love to hear your opinion, I feel like Vince walked into that with Darius, his response, Darius was trying to be a gentleman, and even though I could tell he was a bit irritated, I'm gonna tell him this about talking again. I could tell you had it in your voice, but you still was kind of like, you know, I do it on a chill, chill, and Vince, I thought was poking the bear in my opinion.

7:17What is your thoughts about that? I thought it was unnecessary for him to like want Darius to go like to question Darius answer. That's his answer. His answer is answer. And I feel like Vince really should have just stayed in his lane. But was it a shanty that gave us the background on that? So basically Vince has, no, no, no, no, no, no, she, uh, wait, no, she didn't give us the back. Somebody, it was either Ashley or a shanty, right? Because they didn't tell us initially why they were going back and forth. But then she said at the end of that brown, you protected my honor. And that's just how editing can really mess up a conflict, right? Because the conflict wasn't necessarily around Vince questioning Darius that led to it, but the route of it was, I think was it a shanty that said he was, uh, Darius was protecting my honor? No, no, no, no, no, no. That was the question. What happened was I know that because I saw a clip even where Ashley was saying our rather not, rather not be called, uh, it was a clip on the nephew Tommy's, uh, Instagram.

8:18She's, what she said, I'd rather be called a foodie, not a booty, a foodie call, not a booty call where like you call somebody to eat. And I'm guessing this is what. I don't know if Darius had, the clip I saw all of them saying that Darius had said that, but the other thing was, remember how he's heard that Ashley was upset and she was, you know, crying to Vince. That was a previous episode. And so Vince is just like, I'm being an ear, but this is my thing about all this, right? Okay. And I don't, I'm obviously never been to show what you have. So I'm pretty sure relationships form, even though you're not dating a person, maybe it's a friendship. But I, I get it. I have no issue with that. But it's, it's giving me messy with Vince. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for a grown-ass and pan. It's giving me messy. I know it might seem like I'll come in the event because I've said some things about the height, whatever, but I'll just be transparent. It's giving me messy. This is the second time you involve and talk to adult women like you were a worthy woman. I'm sorry. Whoever gets offended. It is what the fuck it is.

9:18But you know that happens. We all know, we all want to find out what happened in the ladies lounge after the ladies lounge. Who was sent home? So everyone's talking to everybody. Okay. And I, I agree with that. I, obviously, nothing stays in, I told you this for years and you said it too. Nothing stays in the lounge. But this is, and I'm not editing also on this, well, all throughout the CV, can be trash. So I'm just saying, with this just happening the day before, or sorry, the episode before, why? I'm just saying, and to me, Vince, come on now, there's, I don't care how tall you are. You cannot take that fur on. So please, I'm sorry. I just don't, when I was talking with somebody who's like taller and bigger than me, I'm so sorry for whoever gets offended. That, that don't matter. Shit. That don't matter. I swear that don't matter. I can say for me, because I know how to fight. But I'm just saying. I'm really sorry. But when, when you fight, there's no rules, so like, sides don't matter.

10:19Well, no, when I'm saying, but that fight, I, and I'm not even saying that Vince was like loud talking, a deris or anything like that. But just because you're talking in a low volume, you could still be spitting out some stuff that can, you know, antagonize some person or get them pissed off. You know what I'm saying? I feel like. It was passive aggressive. Yeah, there we go. I could not find the terminology. Yes. That's exactly what that was. And, and I hate the deris got so, you know, like loud and everything, you know, because I mean, you know, we all get upset at whatever, but and I kind of feel like that deris just already pissed off at Vince because of the, the lounge and how they, you know, say what he said. And if you're pissed off already, you're not going to come in the light tone. It's going to be that, that, that, that, you know, I'm saying. So I really was, they would have talked about that maybe outside the camera, not necessarily, you know, on camera. But hey, for all I know, the production said, hey, don't, don't talk about this right now quietly. Let's do it on camera so we can get some drama on just, you know, we really had no drama. That happens. That actually happens. The production will tell you to save that tough, argumentative conversation for the cameras.

11:24And I only know about that because of not just because reds love, every reality cast and I won't say all their name because a lot of them, they've told me, they told me on the side, or whatever happened, whether it be a competition or a love show. So you know, I, I agree. Okay. So when he said to Vince to shut the, I was like, oh my god. I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, there's always talk to, you know, your baby, yo, you know, this, you know, this kind of, you know, I, I want to talk to you, baby, I'm not a man as I can't do it. But you know what I'm saying? And so when he got loud, like that was like, so did you, in your opinion, was there is wrong? I was, it was wrong or, okay, okay, okay. So like they didn't really show the guys getting into it on our season, but we had, we, all of us had a moment where we were about to like, go to blows. So they just didn't show ours. But now I thought it was like, it, it happens, I've seen it happen, it happened with me.

12:25And when, when those two got into it, I was like, okay, you know, they keep it real. Right. I thought it was fun. I didn't see anything wrong with their interactions, their answers. I think Vince was being antagonistic, he was being passive aggressive. He really should have minded his business. But hey, it was good for TV. Oh, you know what, okay, so now I did write it down. So yeah, the foodie call, booty call what it was, and Vince says it should be a safe space. And there is, you know, there's whole thing with, I'm just trying to keep saying, bellow, bellow, what you got, what you got, he was trying so hard to defer to come. He was trying to dismiss Vince, and Vince was like, you're not going to dismiss me. I'm still speaking. He was. They both, like they still don't business, both of them. They did. And I'm, you know, if I was in this position, I probably would have, you know, and I understood what Vince was saying to about the safe space, you know, with certain terminology, if a woman is coming to somebody, like if I come to you and say, hey, I don't feel comfortable with this, whatever, whatever, you know, I don't mind Vince being that safe space for Ashley.

13:27I think that if she feels comfortable with him to say, whatever that is, I don't see anything wrong with that. But I just, I'm just tired of hearing what stays in the lounge, it doesn't, please, I really wish they would stop saying that this never, ever happens. Please stop it. Okay. Okay. So, so Bella's, well, I'm, uh, because he did, he repeated, he said, he said, you repeated five times, Derek said, three women came to, wait a minute, didn't it Ashley, wait a minute, what? Okay. I don't know what that means. I have to go back and find out what that mean. I don't know. I said, he felt, oh, he said three women came to him about all of this. And he said, you know, he said it was a teammate and Ashley, I mean, Vince was fishing like Derek stood up, excuse me, excuse me, I was like, don't do all that stuff. I just, I really don't like that to be honest and I understand what you're saying. I'm not a man. And, you know, I have a really bad temper, so I'm saying this lightly. But I still, I don't know, I just hated that it happened.

14:28I guess because the whole season really, really hasn't been a whole lot of that. You know, like I said, do you really feel it was that bad? I don't feel like it was that bad. It was, no, no, no, no, I'm not going to say that bad. I just kind of hated to see Derek come out of this character because you saw Vince was chill the entire time. You understand what I'm saying? I don't think we know his character. Who? Darius. We don't know. I'm sorry. Let me phrase that. The character we've seen on TV. Maybe I should say it that way. What do we've seen so far? Of course, you know, you watch TV. We're not going to always see. To be honest, the TV can only hide so much. Mm-hmm. Jazz. I'm just being honest, okay? Well, okay. Right, go ahead. Also, it's the editing, right? So if they want to just show him, you know, relating with women and show like those conversations between him and the ladies, that's different. But obviously there is an issue with his communication because Ashante was like, no, did he bring you up with Ashante or Ashley? I'm getting them confused right now. Ashley is the one that was his number, number one member in jail.

15:33He decided they had gotten to like a little argument or whatever they, whatever the argument was horrible. But the argument that they had, he went over to Ashante. That's what, remember how you was saying that was a red flag for you because you was like, why is it that you are leaving the one you were looking at? Yeah, the whole entire time to go there's an issue with his communication. Okay. It, you know, the lady, it came up with when they met the family with the ladies and it came up with Vince. So I think this is showing us if we put it all together, he has an issue with his communication. Well, I didn't like the comment that he made to Ashley about the 40 year old. You know, to me, I, remember I told you, I said that did not make any, and I know how editing is, but still this happened outside of the cameras. And so he admitted that he said it. And I remember watching it saying I did not understand the correlation between her saying, you know, I'm not from the cooking clean or whatever, I just, because that's what they discussed. That's why she cited that. Yeah. And the other thing, we didn't talk about this last week, but he said he was going to summon

16:33her like, there's a lot of weird shit going on with this communication. So go ahead and talk about that because I'm trying to remember what, did I follow? Because you know, we both say, we missed that part. We both say, you say it more than I do, but tell me about this part to summon because I don't remember. He said it last week where he said he went on a date. I think he was with Ashley and he said, I summon, I summon Ashley, there's, there's something there. I don't know the guy. I never spoke to the guy, but there is definitely something there. The ladies are alluding to, there's something there. There's an ex who proved that there's something there. There's something there. You said the ex proved, are you not on what to do with stuff? So I'm not certain. Yeah. I mean, the first time she came for it, she didn't have no, you know, she, what, no evidence, but she came back with some evidence. I was like, oh snap. So yeah, there's something, there's something going on. Oh, well, well, I mean, I'm not going to get, I try not to do this, even with other seasons, I'm not going to say, because I don't, I don't, you know, I obviously don't, I don't

17:34know. So you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever happened, you know, as, I don't know, I just, and I don't, I don't care, right? But I'm simply, I really don't give it in, but I really want to be clear. Like we, editing is giving us what they want us to believe in this particular participant, right? Or character. But there are people coming forward saying there's so much more that you don't know about this person. And I don't think you can disregard that. Well, I understand that as well, what you're saying, you're, you're making a lot of sense, I'm not going to lie. You are, I mean, it is, it is what it is as far as this whole situation, because look at how they vilified you, right? I know, I have gotten to know you and you're not what everyone said. Like you remember, they just cleared you, I don't like chats and groups, and they'll come at you crazy over the role of a situation. They said I was lying to them. I'm like, who are you that I got to, my thing is this, I'm a strategic, when I'm going to lie strategically.

18:35So you got a matter to me, right? If you don't matter to me, I'm not going to lie to you like seriously. But I'm sorry, that was funny. Yes. I understand what you're saying. I'm also that person, I ain't going to say that a lot on camera, just see if they happen a legal. Yes. I'm very strategic in that regard. But with that being said, they said you were lying, but you literally have an entire family. So you weren't lying? Well, no. They said I was lying. They said I was broke. They said, they said so much about me, but I always tell people, you know, pick the room where you want to believe. And you don't know me, pick the room where you want to believe. The people that know me never once questioned me, they know me. You know, you're like, you've gotten to know me. Yes. Yes. But see, just like I told, even the people I talked to from the Detroit cast, I literally was like, look, we're all going to have our opinions and we're going to say these things, including the fans. But at the end of the day, myself, the fans included, we have not been in this experience,

19:38but you guys, we weren't in those rooms. So, you know, I just said, it's going to be difficult in Facebook groups and all these people. It's going to be difficult for you to tune it out. I don't know how that feels. Obviously, except for my platform, when they come at me, you know, but still on that grand scale of being on TV for everybody to see, no, I just don't know how that feels. But I just told them they opinions don't really mean shit because none of us have been there. We just given it. It doesn't. I mean, so I don't know how that feels, but for you being on the show, is it difficult just off the topic to tune that out? The negative. Yeah. It is difficult. Like, I was thinking about the cast because this was like the right people to finale. And I really hope they begin to focus on their healing because they have heard a lot. They see a lot. They see a lot of opinions. I've said, like, I may have said some things, but the thing is, when you put it all together and you're just being attacked, right? And you really went through an experience and the show does make you think you can find your love.

20:38But the collateral beauty of being on Ready to Love is, your love, your wife, your husband may not be on the show, but you may find them because of the show. I get surprised when I see previous contestants on dating apps, like, you had the biggest marketing, you're still marketable. Why are you on a dating app? But, you know what I'm saying? But I'm simply saying, like, you'll find that love. And this show does help you understand what you don't want. After I finished my season, I knew exactly the type of woman I did not want. I love that. And I needed that clarity. So it was easy for me to make my decision. But I think that when you're in the process, when they're saying it's a difficult decision, in the moment, it is a difficult decision. You're in the process. You're committed to a connection. You have to make a decision. And they're telling you, you've got to give the viewers what they want to see. It has to make sense to the viewers. So you have to stay in the process. That's why we saw that unnecessary scene. Exactly. And Bello and Darius, that's the same thing that happened with me, Patrice, it was unnecessary

21:41because we weren't going anywhere anyway, we knew that. But they made us do it because they told me it has to make sense for the series. So there's some things I can't really say right now because it is happening again. I'm just going to tell you that. And I get it. Like I said, other shows I have covered that's not on, you know, this network have told me behind the scenes, oh, I wanted to leave or quit the competition or whatever was going on. But the production told me something similar, this was competition shows, mind you. So you know, I'm saying it's not, it's not just this situation. I think all reality TV, they do this. And it's not the worst time it does it. Anyway, so to continue Dominique's parents, who, let me say it very quick, Dominique's parents, I don't know. I'd love to see that my parents was married. He passed away, but they was married up until the, you know, he left us.

22:42And so I love seeing Dom's parents. I did a video recently about Dom and Lauren, y'all should go check it out because the video I break things down because I'm not liking how people are separating the women, right? Regardless of 100 scenes, there's any mean girls, whatever is happening, I'm not there or whatever, but I'm saying, I don't like the team Dominique because you, when you talking, type in Dominique's name or it's love, it pops up. Team Dominique and team Lauren, why do y'all do that? Like to me, these are two different black, accomplished black women, beautiful women, right? And you can see it, Dom's parents, you come from good stock, her parents are gorgeous. You know, come on. And you can like them both. Right. Come on. Come on, cheers. For their own unique reasons. You don't have to pick a side. But that's what people are doing right now. They're splitting down the middle and that, to me, is insane. But anyway, so the one thing that the dad said, which my dad probably said the same is that thing, but he was like, what do you say?

23:42Oh, he didn't like the Muslim thing and, you know, he's really old school. He just says, for them, I don't like it. I was just like, you know, how do you react to something like that? You're trying to date somebody, but the day will keep it in real. That's why I liked her parents and the interaction. He was being honest. You know, because that's my son about to get married right now and as a parent, you do have to vocalize how you feel, which stuff like this is just a lot going on. What do you think about that heart? You know, you know, my parents were pastors too. So I understand his reservation and he was probably leaning more towards you, got to be equally yoked. But I liked Bellow's answer about religion is really just a guideline for how to live your life. Right. Right. So I'll be honest. I'm a non-denominational Christian. Okay. But when I did look into Islam, I feel like it's more Christian than Christianity. So I didn't like where he was holding that against him because at the end of the day, it's so hard to find love.

24:44And if they really had a connection, if they really had love, religion shouldn't be something that is highlighted. The love that they have should have been highlighted. Ooh. Yes. I did. And of course, you know, editing, we don't know, like we say it's all the time, people get mad when I say this. That's why I have said it the whole season. But you know, with editing, you, we don't know what was said, they're going to show the juiciest parts. I mean, they may have been like, oh, I, you know, it's okay or whatever. I don't know. But I did like his answer as well. And he even when, I think it was who was that? Who's friends? Was it Dom's friends? I don't know who it was that he went out with. And I think one of the things they questioned was, she's going to make you convert. And he said, no, I'm not going to do that. But you say you looked into it. I did a little bit too. And most men who are getting married to a woman and then he has a Muslim background, they made them convert. What do you think about that? Yeah. A lot of them do.

25:44And like, that's when was it, I can't get them, I don't know why I'm confusing Ashley in a shantay this week. But me either. I think, I think it was Ashley that said religion is used to control women. And a lot of people that are in Islam that I know do believe in having multiple wives. And that might be why that religion was of interest. I don't know. I'm just simply saying it does happen. But with that being said, yeah, I can see him trying to, like because you got to think about religion is manipulation. Your relationship with God isn't manipulation, but religion is manipulation. So if a guy wants you to convert, he may want you to convert so that you subscribe to him having multiple wives. Hmm. I ain't thinking about that either. But yet that's, that's very true. I think it was a shanty who said, I might say her name wrong or shantay is a shanty or shantay. I thought shantay. It worked. Yeah, they both were. But I think that she had mentioned she was cool with him being the Muslim thing because

26:45she said, she kind of, to your point about love is love. And she's like, I'm not going to really worry about it. I forgot what else she said, but she pointed, I can't do it verbatim. Because she pretty much was like, I don't believe, I'm not concerned about that part. So I don't know, some women probably look at like, if he's not going to maybe convert, I'm just going to, I don't want to fall in love, I'm not going to worry about it. And some women will fall in love and convert because they love that man. Right. Right? Because that's the head of the house. And some women will stay on the show and tolerate that topic to make it to the end. I'm not saying they did that. I'm not saying they did that, but I'm just simply saying we all tolerated stuff on our seasons to make it to the end. You know, Tia says a lot of Nigerians are Muslim and God knows her. And you know what, I didn't even know that that's something that I didn't know. That's interesting. I mean, you know, well, that's always a chance you're taking if you do decide to date, what gets African or anything like that. And I say all of them are, that's their religion, but a lot of them are Muslim.

27:46That's true. Not all, but I don't want one. But I'm like coming to me in my comments and my deans, please do not do that. I'm just, as I don't know. Anyway, so I want to talk about Darius and Ashley, apparently they made up, okay, they said, and oh, so you said they did, they wanted to stay to the end. Oh, my God. Yeah. Oh, Jesus. Oh, okay. Look, is there something wrong with wanting to make it to the end? Who wants to go home? Well, this is okay. Well, you opened the door, so I got to walk in that now. Okay. Let me just say this. I'm going to say this big brother challenge. These different shows that I also talk about outside of the romance, uh, Ralph TV. That is a strategic move to group up, to have alliances and stuff. I remember how I said this before that this is not that type of show, even though they try to bring the challenge, different, different things on the, this season, what that was

28:47weird. This is not a competition show is supposed to be about love. No, it is a competition show. No, no, I'm, I'm saying it's not supposed to be the show is, oh, oh, I'm sorry. The whole premise of this show is to find somebody to have a relation with engagement, whatever you're going to do with the end. But to me, the years I was so not even the beginning, now that I've been in so long, it does give competition show. And this is not that. Well, so the thing is this, if the show didn't want it to be a competition, they wouldn't send the people home that have connections. Oh, damn. That's it. No, I just, it is what it is, right? So when you're in an environment where you're like, okay, my love really isn't here. They're saying, look, this shit has to make sense for the viewers. And then they're telling you if you don't show up, you're going to violate your contract and they will sue you. You got to just like, yeah, I'm making it to the end. And for someone like a Dom and older mature woman, she's beautiful. That wouldn't really mean in these streets and her future dating if she was sent home.

29:49That's not a good, like, look, I think everybody's trying to make it to the end. I'm just going to be honest. Okay. Well, no one's going to actually, well, people who are going to admit it, they'll wait until the contract is over a year later and say, oh, yeah, did it, somebody don't give a crap. Like the Dallas cares. They gave no, they did not give a shit. So I'm just, they came out and said, it immediately has a last sip of soul. They could say what they want to say about Dallas on set when we were filming. They said we were the end of ready to love. We were the last season, but we were, we were so controversial, so entertaining. Look, it's back. So like, say what you want about Dallas for worth, we brought this show back. Come on. Look, the thing about it, Dallas did a lot and I don't care what nobody's saying. It was the most explosive. I thought Houston was Simone and everybody, Dallas was going on back in the day. I thought that was the most explosive. No, it was Dallas. Dallas takes that. I'm sorry. So period. Okay. So, let's see.

30:49You know what I thought was cute with Ashley and Darius, even though, you know, whatever, the way that she was eating the food and they're doing his couple stuff. Yeah. I was like, this is so cute to me. That's so cute to me. I thought that was so cute. And his answer was real, too, because like, one, okay, I have never shared my food. I'm going to be honest. I don't talk. I don't share my food. I don't share my food. I don't share my liquor. I don't share my food. I don't share my women. With that being said, when he said, you know, hey, you know, he was eating my food. I was like, that's a real last statement right there because that's how I feel. Only my wife can get you on my plate. And it doesn't bother me. And it doesn't bother me now. But all of these other girls, he said, he should drive me crazy. Don't touch my food. One of your own food, order whatever the hell you want. Don't touch my food. Oh my God. And that's a real stuff right there. You stupid talk about what you always talk about, you know, three brothers.

31:52Don't touch my food. Oh, got you. Got you. Okay. So for me, I just said, well, now that I eat healthy, it's different. But I did not plan to carry my food. You cannot be over my food. I can lift my dad. I did literally you walk by his food, like walk by it. I was literally seeing Thornton trash. I got that from him. You couldn't even breathe over my food. I didn't play with my food. I didn't really. I'm like, oh, OCD, you know, things. I just don't play with that. And so, yeah, I'm with you. I'm with you. That may be a Louisiana thing. I've seen my dad throw away hopefully food. I'm like, my dad, you know, like, what is happening? But I got that from him now. Like, you want my food? I just want to go into a food store one day. I'm telling you, I got some stuff that will take you. We got to do that. Um, Ash, okay, so that's what they were cute. And so, you know, but I'm so now, uh, she was meeting with what? Who she, who was she meeting with? That was, um, oh, hold on. Before we continue, I didn't, I've got to say this part. Dominic's mom said at the end of the day, she has to live with the decision, not us.

32:55I did like the mom said that, you know what I'm saying? She was keeping it real like, you know, at the end of the day, regardless of how we feel about it, um, she says Simone is my attorney. She's a good one too. Um, she is. She says she's captivating. If you meet Simone, Simone is everything. I mean, I mean, yes, she is with her everything. She's Simone is like, I've met her parents. I'm telling you, her mother is gorgeous. Like, Simone is just like, I mean, I've been to the house. I've got all about that. I've been, I've been a goat and a lot of y'all lives. I'm sort of a god, but yes, I've met to her, um, her, you know, her parents, I'm telling you, her mom is just so gorgeous. She's so sweet. Oh, I like her mom a lot. And watch my channel. I had no idea. Um, let's see, Ashley, I'm sorry, uh, Donna, I want to, but who did Ashley, who did they, was it her family? Cause it was the women's family. Who was there with the areas? Wasn't it the brother? But with his hair slicked back, that's the brother, right?

33:56No, that was the, I was not trying to be funny. I swear, I, I'm trying to, cause you know, I'm confusing Ashley and the shouncy. So I'm trying to, I'm trying to keep straight. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, because I know you missed it. Like, and then I know what it was like. Okay. So I can't remember God have me. I watched it a little bit too. See, Donna, brother was a Donna's brother and cousin was there. Okay. So, um, she could say this, um, what did I say? It was a, it was, maybe I think that was her brother. They had both started seeing Vince's point of view. Like in his, what he meant by the whole timeline, the whole timeline. Um, first of all, it's about basketball. I thought it was cute because you know, I played basketball in my youth. It's, I thought I liked that as well. But, um, she, they did was on her, on his side about that. The timeline, I was like, is it a crazy time? I don't know. What do you think about it? I'm, I go, I'm going back and forth. Is it crazy or is it not? You do get to a certain age.

34:56I was like, I know what I want in my life because I was, the cousin said, I think the cousin was like, Hey, I get it. But so I said, I'm sorry. Anyway, the cousin said, I get it. But at the same time, I'm sorry, he got what Vince was saying. But he was like, understanding her point of view of her age and where she is in her life as a woman. She knows what she wants. How do you feel about that? I'm going to remove the age and, and woman and timeline, like, biological, fox, I'm going to move out the conversation. Because at the root of the issue, you have to find someone that wants the same thing as you. Okay. And the same season issue, right? And if he wants to move at his own pace, Donna, I, I commend you for like going after your connection. I really think I'll have a cute couple. But if that timeline is, is getting too unreasonable, go get your life back.

35:57No, because no leather jats, somebody said the timeline means he doesn't want to go ahead. It may not, it could be, he's scared. He already has kids. Why is he in a hurry to have more kids, right? Okay. So she, they have different motivations is what I'm saying. But Donna absolutely deserves to have the life in the timeline. If she feels that that's right now, she deserves to have it right now. And if that man or any other man won't give it to you right now, go find a man that will, because there is a man that will give it to you right now. That's actually a true statement. Also, I don't think that her man is there because of her timeline. And I'm not saying her timeline is bad. I'm not going to say that. I think every woman or male, whoever they want in their future spouse or future, whatever they're going to do with the life, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever, fiancee, all the things you should get what you want to a point. But I think that her timeline is fine. I just don't think the man, I think the man is not there. Cause for one thing, we've already talked about this. How this is like speed dating accelerated.

36:58So to me, this helmet is as if it's regards of a man may feel that way. That would be really hard for me to say, okay, in a year, we're going to go ahead and get married. Like we just met and we've been dating. How long are they dating on this show? When you go to the show, how long are you guys actually? It's only five weeks and three days. Seriously, I can show, I can prove it. It's five weeks and three days. That's it. It's not enough time for anybody in my, I never thought about it until you say that just now, that's not enough time at all for anybody to make decisions that heavy. It's just not, I don't know, they should do it longer. Like you know how loves the blind does it? They, they even though love the blind, it still fails every season. But the way little blind does it, but it's like married at first sight, right? No, no, no, no, it's like married at first sight. These people are saying they're ready to get married now, right? So they're in alignment with, they want it now. That's what I'm saying about Donna. That's what I'm saying about Donna events. He doesn't want it right now. And that doesn't mean she needs to put it on the background or forget about it or make

38:01it wait. That means she needs to go find the person that God has intended for her to make it happen right now because God is a now God. True statement. And especially praying for it, but, but what I'm, what I'm saying is that with love's blind, they break them down to, okay, you guys are going to get engaged. Then they had them live with each other for, I forgot how long gone. No, I think they go on vacation first. Then they have to live with each other, meet the families. And then they decide to go down the aisle. Now mine just not an ideal situation is still quick, whatever. The thing I like about how love blind breaks that down is, you know, you get them to live in situations to see, can I live with you? Meet my family. My family's like, you know, me, don't forget this going on a trip together. Cause you will find out if you really F went your partner on a trip. Oh, nothing will bring, nothing will test that relationship like going on a trip. But do you see what I'm saying to do to that? These routes shows and ready to love you're literally, yeah. I mean, I know wrestler not saying we're going to get married at the end,

39:03but you're just dating other people, you know what I'm saying? And making that decision to date or be together or whatever. It's after five weeks and her timeline does not match the smoke of this show. It's all I'm trying to say pretty much. I'm sad. Well, in her defense and I'm sure she can prove this with the emails and the text messages that they send you saying, are you ready to find your wife? Are you ready to find your husband? Your husband is here. We all have the text messages. This is what the producers are sending us, right? So for her to believe that she could find it right now, I think is reasonable. Because that's reinforced by them on the behind the cameras, producing the episodes and the dates, like, that's how they speak to you. Woo. I didn't even think I didn't know that. So that's, that's like, that's crazy. I had no idea. So yeah, that if I'm going to sit and mesh was like that, I'm probably my timeline should be cool. So okay, that makes sense. Let's see. That's for experience.

40:03But I'll get into it. Okay. So wait a minute. Darius tells Ashley, I choose you. Okay. So let's talk about because I'm trying to see how I could say this. Darius and Ashley to me on a TV screen, they look really, really cute. But I do believe that the communication that you brought up earlier is not for Ashley. Just come to get, go ahead, go ahead, babe. And when she said that, I, I thought about why me and my wife work, right? So me and my wife work so well, because I don't try to change her. I don't, she likes, like, the stuff she likes to do, I let her do the stuff I like to do. She lets me do. And I think if he's trying to always school her, because that's kind of how I felt, okay, she was trying to describe that. Then he's not accepting her. And if he's not accepting you now in five, in five weeks and three days,

41:04don't do it. So you think that just, okay, if you don't think that Darius accepts Ashley for who she is, is the reason why they kind of be a little combative there or whatever. Right. And also think about the last conversation with where she said, you know, people, men use religions to manipulate and control you. Okay. There's a woman's going to submit when she thinks you're trustworthy. You know what I'm saying? And I don't mean submit as in bow down, washing, clean, cooking, all that other shit. I'm just talking about she, she'll take your advice. She'll meet, she may try your way. That to me is submission, but that goes both ways. Man, I'm happy you said that. Yeah, but I don't feel like they were led to submit the way that I'm describing it. Based off of things that checks in their spirit. She said she's done the spiritual warfare. That's a powerful statement. It is it was like she did the work. If she's speaking like that, she did the work. She knows when to bind, she knows when to review.

42:04She knows when to pray, she knows when to pray. No, don't submit to that. Listen to your spirit and go. God was getting her. Look, people, sometimes people say they fumble me. No, God, they didn't fumble you. God moves them. God moves you. That's not a fumble. Okay. Okay. And see, she does give power for statement, the statements that she was making was like, because when you said someone said I did the work on myself, that is powerful. Because doing the work on yourself without anybody involved or some of them feel like I have to have a man to do this. And so for a woman to say, I did my own work on myself, it is powerful. And it's also commendable, you know, and I respect it 100%. So it also wants to say before we move on to the decisions, Vince and Donna, to me, it seems very organic. I just really feel like the timeline is throwing Vince off. But I don't know why I feel like Vince and Donna would be just really, of course, we don't know everything. Obviously, but I thought they was really organic.

43:05They went through a lot coming together, dating other people. That's to me a couple that I feel like that really to get vantage of the process and still came back together. That's my way. We got to go back to there is because there he said he would never date 10 women again. I don't think people understand that is a very mentally stressful process. And I felt the same way on my season. I will, I'm glad I don't ever have to do it again, but I would never want to do it again because it's just hard. It doesn't seem like it would be an easy thing. And I'm very happy that you have everything that you want. And see, I loved even I pay. Okay. So yeah, I don't know. I can't play because it's a network. But I actually seen him chat as a clip of his reunion episode where everybody was coming to him. So crazy. And he was standing 10 toes down and like, okay, well, I'm engaged to somebody I talked to before the process. She wanted me to go through it. And I saw everybody reaction.

44:06Now, if you wouldn't have said she wanted me to go through it. She knows going on or whatever, then I can understand people getting upset. But I've respected you more with them like, okay, and her because she's like, look, you know, we're doing what we're doing. But go ahead and go through this process. And then you even said, I literally knew, boom, I don't want this. I want her. I don't understand why no one mentioned it. They just kept saying was only been a few weeks. You was like, Oh, okay. I knew her before this process. And let me, let me just speak to that really quickly because remember earlier, I said, I don't try to change her. She, she doesn't try to change me. Okay. Yes, she knew I was going on a show. We were not together at the time, but we had an interest in each other, right? But she's like, go through your process, go through your show. That's pretty cool. That's a great opportunity. She absolutely supported me. But I think what she knew that I didn't know was when I meet these other women, they won't be able to hold the candle to her. I saw that after the, well, during the process and like towards the end, I didn't give a fuck.

45:08But I knew it and I saw her then and I apologize for even like doing that. But I'm thankful she let me go through this whole experience, right? That's not a point of resentment. That's clarity. So that's why I love my wife. You know, she didn't stop anything from materializing in my life. She stood on faith. She stood on God. She knew God told her I was her husband. And in the midst of me going on a little TV experience, I did exactly what God told her I would do. Came back to her because at the end of the day, you know, when people say, if it really is meant to be, they'll come back to you. They always say that. I mean, that's the different thing. It's not a lot. Hold on. So Tia in the chat says, that's why it was sad that Ashley chose him. She's going backwards. She saw the red flags. I agree with that. And she also talked to you. She says, first you put a fire and then she put another.

46:11That's right, brother. I love that. I'm happy you said it here. Oh, thank you, brother T. So I'm sorry to hear and see because the thing about it when I watched that clip, I thought about it. I said, everyone coming to chat. So crazy. But he literally told you what he was doing on the reunion and y'all still came for him and yet none of y'all are married. And also remember me in Alexis, right? Alexis, like, I don't know if I'm ready to have a kid or you know, or Vanessa said she wasn't sure she's ready to get remarried. And that's what I'm taught. That's why I'm speaking directly to Donna because when Vanessa said that I already knew she didn't like my dog. She, we're not on the same timeline. I went to the woman that wanted the same thing as me and the same seasons mean, right? So all of that, I was honest throughout my entire process. I've been consistent. I said that consistently throughout the process. And when you realize your woman is not there, she's just got to cut your losses. But again, you got to fulfill your contract too. So Chad, be transparent because yeah, I don't know behind the scenes. What's Chad trusted me and knew, you know, who I was and everything else.

47:13I knew a lot of it, not everything. But I knew a lot of this stuff and just didn't say anything because out of respect, I do this for cast all the time. And see, I want you to be honest and let them know you literally knew it really early. Even before the result, so I knew it so damn early. And you can ask the other guys talk to Laurent. A lot of dates, Laurent went on was because I refused to go on the date. That is hilarious. I quit the process. I quit the show three times, right? And then like they kept coming back forceful with I signed a contract. They're going to sue me. You're going to hold you to it. Like, you know, I have text messages, you're in breach of contract. Like just crazy shit. So, um, yeah, but I knew and I had to go through the process. So what y'all saw was it had to make sense for the viewers. So when I showed up to portrays, it had to make sense for the viewers. Vanessa had to make sense for the baby. I wasn't taking Vanessa. Like, it was just, it was just crazy stuff. And there's things about these people and because you think they went through a background check.

48:13You think they went through a criminal check? You think they're like stand up people, but then you find out, well, this person has a criminal background. I would never in my life outside of a show deal with a woman that had some of the legal issues that that woman had. Laura, Jesus. Wait a minute. Hold on. I got to tell you outside it. Who's in my, um, I don't want to say. Okay. So I had to, I had to sue that other lady for making stuff up. So I know the law. I don't lie before I know the definition. I mean, I want to say, but I'll tell you, I'll tell you later. But the thing about it is, I'm covering some, um, people who've been a jail around the TV. Nexus. Yeah. Maybe I should love on top of that list. I had when you find out they're a real history. When you, and you got to think about it, somebody's people are really good in front of the camera. They know how to perform in front of the camera. And if you think we're all not performing, you're not paying attention.

49:17That's the thing about it. I don't, I don't think that anybody thinks about that. They think everything is on TV is legit, you know, real or whatever. I just, we got Lauren in the chat. Lauren knows I ain't lying. Wait, she says background check, Mike. I'm telling you, so many people, I know for a fact, filled their psychological tests. They felt their criminal background check. When I found out this person was locked up for what she was locked up for. Okay. For three weeks. Y'all know I reported, and I'm going to do a video going to drop later on tomorrow, maybe. So, Y'all know I actually recorded, I'm sorry. Y'all know that I actually posted a cast member who was still mad at me to this day for driving and a person's on the hood of their car, trying to,

50:18and I found this out, because I'm just trying to check them out. So, I'm just being real a child, like, I'm sorry, like to try to check them out. And they're going to probably be mad, I've mentioned it again, because I fun do my new video and they're going to get mad. It is what it is. I'm sorry. Back then, I was exposed to people like crazy. But yeah, it is what it is. The background check, I don't think they do it. There's no way they do that. If they say they do it, I don't believe it. I literally told, I went off on the producers and said, you guys lied to me. I had this criminal in my house. You lied to me. This is insane. Not the criminal in my house. Yes. I got nice shit in here. Yes, indeed. In my house. Oh, my God, Jesus, help me. All right, so, I'm sorry. That was so funny to me. You know, I keep it real. You know that. That's the thing. Shout out to Lauren, who's in my chair. Y'all know that. Is that Lauren?

51:19When I went to Detroit, Lauren and Shantae made my Detroit trip, like freaking everything, like the two of them. I was walking in right there. Okay, and Shanta Nicole for even telling me to come out there. I mean, I didn't get to see her. I hate that, but. So, there is Tuesday. I choose you to, you know, Ashley and the praying together. So, like, you know, and I understand all that. It's not a bad thing, but just like Tia said, I don't understand why you chose him. And yeah, I had a couple of situations, even her argument outside the camera. It's not even a couple of situations. Again, this is five weeks, three days. Consistent feedback about communication. Consistent feedback. Too many red flags. And I'm not trying to be negative. Right. And I will bet. I'll bet $5,000. They're not together at the reuse. Wait a minute. So, oh, so happy you came.

52:20She's so sweet. Yes, I really had that came to Detroit. To meet the ones that I met. Not sat in with me to about the elves, but the two party threw me off. And that's not tough. Not another day. So, in a way, yes, I understand what you said. You're not being negative. And again, it's what we see on TV. You know, it's a slammer for people who get upset in a feelings or whatever. This is what we see on TV. And there's no, I'll let them some there. And so, you know, I'm, it's just because I do, you know, rock with you or whatever. I'm going to still do my commentary and everybody knows it about me. And so, I didn't agree. I got it. I got it from you. You're like, we all go get it. But I just said, I did not agree with him saying some things. He said to Ashton. Of course, you know, I know editing. And I'm me and him. I'm going to talk again after this over with. And I'm pretty sure he's going to give this out to look forward to hearing. Because it's always two sides. Even though there's three, but he didn't admit it that he did say that about the cooking thing. And I didn't like that. I'm just going to be honest. So, I'm be happy when he does come here to give his side of the story. So, the whole situation with the choosing,

53:22you know, at the very end when they have to choose, go to the bridge or whatever, the road, what do you think about the final decisions that were made? I'm just curious. We just talked about the areas, not but the other ones as well. What do you think? I think the only one that may have a shot is Vince and Donna, like the others. I think they wanted to make it to the end. Dom was clearly looking for her Oscar moment, you know, like, but no, she was. She was so performative. I was like, okay, I was at Rob. Oh, girl, Bob. Bob, Bob, Bob, Bob. You know what I was saying? And then you see that Mean Girl did her Dom at the reunion. So, my whole thing is it was just very performative to me up, you know, and that's why we watch. We want to hear the romantic, this is why I choose you, this is why, you know, I'm ready to love. My man, my man, like, all this bullshit is, right? I cannot. I just be watching now.

54:22I'm laughing because I was like, yeah, I played my part too. You got to play your part. But, oh, God, I can't say. I swear to God, I can't. I don't know. I can't even battle. Wait, let me play it for a time. Do it. Is it still Vince? Yeah, it's a win time for me. I got to rest in the room. Sharp. Oh, my God, I'm sorry. I still think that's funny. I need, I need to go to work, say, Sharp. I'm sorry, Holo. Let me turn. Oh, sorry. Okay, okay, I'm done. I put it for longer. She was to here because Lord, I was so, you know what? She was like, why? I'm sorry. Oh, I'm crying. All right. Professional, professional. Okay, so you said, I was not expecting that. You said, Dom. Yes, with the my man. Okay, so Dom said, wait, wait, who on? These days, I've chose you since the beginning. Was that Bella, right?

55:23Dom, I told you since the beginning. Which, I'm going to say something. Yes, we all know that. Doesn't literally what Lauren was saying the entire, I mean, it's an entire time, but when she asked the question, which I fell off. Well, I still, shit. I still think that when Lauren asked that question, I don't think that was bad. If I'm going to engage, and I have children, see, this is, I mean, this is no shade, smells the woman on the show. Please don't take it that way. Ashanti and Lauren, you know, when you have, I don't know who else is with kids, I don't want to, whoever, I don't know. When you have children, especially young kids, you are very particular, well, you're supposed to be, because some women don't give a crap, but you're supposed to be very particular who you're bringing to your kids life. So I felt like that Lauren was standing in that, in that area. It was like, look, I don't, you know, I'm very particular. So I'm going to ask his question. And then to me, get that clarification in front of your, your potential, whatever was awesome. Didn't like Dom's response.

56:25And I didn't like Bella's response. Now, will I say it like I said in my video, Dom and Lauren, I'm not going to say they're both, I mean, I'm not going to say they were wrong. To me, who was wrong was Bella. You're not communicating. In my opinion, no, no, no, no, no, no, Lauren asking the question. No, Lauren, no, Lauren, that, that whole scene vindicated Lauren. And, and it vindicated Devon, right? Because they're literally saying from the day one, from my first song, I chose you. Lauren was literally trying to assess, hey, is there really a, you know, do we have a connection or do we not have a connection? Clearly, she was told either offline on private conversations she had a connection. Because she wouldn't have asked the devam question, right? So you were playing in her face. And that's what I mean when I'm telling everyone, the goal is to make it to the end. So he played in the face because he needed votes to make it to the end. And she was like, is this real? Or have you guys solidified?

57:26And all she wanted was the truth. And when someone makes the truth hard to obtain, pay attention. Well, there is a lot to say, Below is a lot of the blame. Because when you have, and I'm not going to say it was a triangle kind of, you know, but when you have like a man in the middle, most of the time, he's telling the women different things for them to form this in their head, this how he feels about me or whatever, right? And I feel like that his response was, oh, that's why you're here. Wait, wait, what? First of all, this makes absolutely no sense to me. That's not a response. I think that Dom, I think if she would have not have said anything, which I, to be honest, I think Dom, the very strategic is very smart. She knew jumping in and saying all of that, maybe Below just kind of shrank up a little bit. I'm not sure if you're scared for it to the moment. I don't know I'm just being honest. Let me tell you, I don't think she was strategic. A strategic woman would not have said answer my question. No, but Chaz, the reason why that's an insecure woman.

58:27No, but Chaz, the reason why I said strategic, strategic, she knew that barking that he was going to shrink up. But he did. If you see his body, he kind of shrank up his shoulders, his head went down. Your body language told me you didn't want to say anything. And you know, good or well, you felt more for her, but didn't want to say it in front of her. And I feel like Dom also just being transparent, whoever gets mad, it is what it is. I think that she knew that. That's also why, because she's going to be right at the same time. I think that's also why she said what she said. She wants to start the conversation. I know my man, my man, you know, that I think her man tell. Go back and look how she looks down. Look, look, maybe a week or a month later, when they feel in the reunion, look how she looks now. That's crazy. That's great. You look like a video vixen. That is just crazy. Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait. No, Chess, why?

59:28Why? No, that I'm serious. I'm serious. That's that's crazy work right there. Somebody said, yes, Chess, they embarrassed the torso back. So why are you saying that? Hey, it was. Because like you, how do you behave that way on on TV, right? You know the cameras are there. So you're doing it for the cameras too. And then at the reunion, you're telling all of us he was in your bed two days ago? Woo. You know what I'm saying? Like everybody was saying how classy you are and you're a woman and you're mature. If that's, that ain't maturity. That ain't a woman. That's not a woman I would want to deal with. So let me say, I have to say this, because this is something I don't think that you and I addressed, right? So, because people were saying, and you know, I saw a couple of Chess, people were saying, okay, you know, the whole thing was at the resort, the day we stood together and then you know when she came, when they asked her about it, she, you know, kind of pushed it away a little bit, but she was like, he said what he said. To me, it's like, I'm not trying to let y'all know anything.

1:00:29At all. I'm not even going to elude or. That was someone trying too hard. She was trying too hard. He said what he said. Like all of that and then, you're not going to handle it. Like telling the truth. Okay. I just laughed. I think that scene is going to be funny because you'd be hate like you, you stand it on business for a real, you know, this bellow, right? Making it seem like, yeah, it's my, my, my, my, my man. And then at the reunion is this, it's just like, it's crazy. This is just crazy work. And we all, I don't know why we all signed up for it, but we all signed up for the crazy work, but it was crazy work. That is, you know, yes, I, let's see. I love it. You said that y'all signed up for it. But what I was going to, well, I was also going to say my other part to that was if when you, oh, sorry, I don't know how early. And I don't want to, I'm being very careful from my words because I don't, I don't like to talk about, you know, women's little, the areas. I just, you know, I'm just, I do not know how early or was before that or not if they were intimate. But what I will say for a woman to be,

1:01:29because most women, they are intimate with a man. Let's say just, they don't care. They get crazy over, well, man, go ahead, Chad. There's a lot of intimacy and the five weeks and three days, I will say that. So I, I absolutely believe they, they certainly behave like. Yes, there are. To adults that did adult decisions and adult things. I absolutely believe that happened, like, because some of the, some of the behaviors is just, it's not making sense. Like she used to dealing with successful, highly successful men, right? And you behaving like this on TV, and you've been on TV before. I don't think it's the cooking. You know what? Well, and I don't, and I know people are going to probably send this to some, some people and take it. I'm not scared of anybody because I don't care. But what I'm saying is, and that's why I'm careful, only because if a woman is doing something, adult actions as you stated, I don't have no, I don't have a problem with that. You guys are grown people.

1:02:30It is your body. I don't have, I don't like the, when people are vilified women because she, you know, was intimate with a man. No, yeah, I wasn't doing it. I'm not saying you are. I'm saying, and I don't like that. So I'm not going to do that. But what I'm all I said is that if a woman is intimate, and it depends on a woman, but if she's intimate and as strong as she is, because her personality, baby, when she, when she gets upset, you see her. It's like she's just saying, I don't give it, you know, Joe Kepa came right there, which I respect at the same time, because I'm not there as well. But what I will say is I just think that when you get so into it, like you can't, my man, what you're doing, then you most likely have been intimate. Again, nothing is wrong with that. I will say it again. Let me know all about that. You're both adults. But, and she stood on Benavick in the bellow. It says what I'm saying by Dom, she stood on Benavick's entire time when it came to him. I think bellow was waffling between the fences, in my opinion, for whatever the reason. Maybe because what you said about to get into the end, I, you know, I don't know. So, actually, people are going to,

1:03:32they're going to come at her because she shows the areas, like people in my channel are even saying, they don't understand, and like you said, they don't understand that. Why'd you choose? But the people are going to say you just want to get to the end. I don't know. I don't know. Yeah. I'm to be honest. Actually, I don't know. I don't see actually just, I'm trying to get to the end. But again, I don't know those people, like, I don't know them. But I just, for some reason, with her, doing all the work that she did on herself, everything that she said, very intelligent. The women are here are very intelligent and very powerful. And I hate that a lot of stuff gets drowned out, like they're just a woman on the street in Dallas and Oakland for some. And only you and I know them, even I say these things. But I'm saying that it's not really fair that our dating show or love or romance will make a woman look crazy. That's all I'm saying. I don't know. And I just, I hate that for them. They're women of truth. So, do you think she's going to look crazy at the end of this? The reunion, yes. The clip that we saw is giving Rose. And if you, and you saw last season.

1:04:33I'm so disappointed in Rose. Shout out to you saying, if you saw Rose last season, baby, that was a hot mess. She was like, I said, for him, I don't care. I did this. I was like, girl, what is, you know, it was a lot happening. So, I'm really hoping that it was, and you might, you and I spent damn near hours talking about Rose. Rose probably hates me to this day, which is fine. Where you came on TV was a lot, mama, I'm sorry. And I, all I said was you are a hairdresser. I'm trying to understand why in the world did you, anyway, I'm sorry, I'm not going to do that. But it was a mess, because I'm going to say it was a mess. Somebody said, Heliwara says, she stood on business before a man who couldn't explain how he stands on business for his baby. The relationship was sexual and trauma bonded. Trauma bonded, that, I'm trying to understand the last part. Now, there were some things that he said about the baby that was kind of like, I remember he said one time, I had with my child, oh no. His brother was there.

1:05:34He was like, oh yeah, I haven't met the baby. I remember we didn't talk about, was that the same thing? Okay, so this, this really quick, I have three children. Okay, we know you got beautiful, beautiful prints over there. I don't understand how anybody can say. And again, I know you are a baby dad or a baby dad. You're not going to see your child every day. I understand that, because the mother probably have the child majority of the time. But I don't know how long, but for him to say, his brother had never met the baby. The baby is two years old. I'm like, I don't understand. I didn't really talk about it. What do you think about that? He goes back to what I said. There's a lot there with these guys. There's just a lot there that, I mean, because if you think about it, the mom was like, and you're ready for this process, that was it, you know, that's just, I don't know what's going on. I don't know, like I hope he does interviews. I hope he adds more color to that situation. But yeah, I mean, and then like both of them

1:06:34really faltered in front of the family and friends. Did you notice that? They see nervous, unsettled, unsure themselves. Who's the vanilla? Bello and Darius. Like Darius was repeating communication. Like he sounded like he was nervous. And if they're not there, I'm just making him a kid. You right. Yeah. And like if you guys, if you guys are this, showing up like this, like this nervous, unsettled because the mom and the mom, the brother, the dad are asking questions, like for either those interactions, that's very telling. Okay. If you're genuine, you're not going to be that nervous and the several answering questions from family, because you know, they're there because they love their family members. All right, of course, of course, that's anybody. The part that treated me out, and I forgot about them, have you brought that up. So the communicating piece to me was crazy. It's all like saying to myself, Bello, you couldn't even communicate a really good response to Lauren

1:07:35about if you guys are going to keep seeing each other. So I didn't understand, you know what I'm saying? Like you're saying communication, but you couldn't even communicate a response, besides what Lello said, you said, that's why you're here. Like to me, no, sir, something as deep as, hey, I just wanted to know if we are still going to continue, that should have been a different response than my opinion. I'm sorry, a longer response, something, even if you would have said, oh, that's right. He did pull out the asthma pump. Who did, Bello? Oh! Oh! Damn! I mean, what do you need to catch your breath for? I'm just, I mean, he was seated. Like, what did you need to catch your breath for? Like, I did if they was walking up the stairs or doing some jogging, like running to the door of the restaurant, he's seated. He's just, he's just, they're just asking questions. He's like, oh my God, bro. Like, what, I had no, because I paused it, I rewinded. I'm like, maybe he was running. I don't know.

1:08:36I'm dangerous, I'm just jazzed. You saw my, you stopped, you saw my, he was seated. He was seated, because I went back and watched it twice, because you know, sometimes I don't pay attention. But me too, just, wait a minute, because he is still. I can't, y'all got something to say, because they knew they weren't frontin' and knew they wouldn't repeat it. And that's why, who's here? Oh, Erica, you didn't budge a late ass. Bring her on, because Erica, look, Erica, tell the truth, Erica, you know, you know when men start lying and lose their breath, they lose their breath. When we lie, we be losing our breath. That's when he pulled out that pump. Oh, my God, Erica, Dan and Shay collabed and teased him. People, sorry. Teased said, Bill, I had to pull out the ass, my pump. Shay said, you were sitting down, what happened? Erica, I know you've been listening to the background, I'm assuming, that's why you get to click in. What do you guys think? No, I just, I just came out of a snow storm,

1:09:39so now what's going on? Oh, shit. Girl, we have a two-as-norm, it's nowhere bad, it takes us. Girl, so, okay, so she missed literally everything. We gotta get your opinion about a few things. First, let me go back to my notes in the beginning, because I don't remember in his craft. So, sorry, the whole thing with Vince, I gotta hear your opinion, please. Vince and Darry's getting to the beginning, go, please. If you remember, because I don't, I don't know if you saw the whole thing. No, I, okay, so. Nothing long breath before, the power of the thing. The problem is, I didn't like Darry is sort of enough, if you buck attitude, however, Vince has been messy boots from day one. What did I say, Jess? What did you say, Dad? Come on, Erica. No, you know what I mean? So, it's like, you know, I didn't think, I thought both of them were kind of like silly or whatever. I was like, what, wait, what are we really fighting for? Right. And I'm giving Ashley the side eye,

1:10:39because this is what impresses her about Darry's. So, now she's the last. That's a good boy. Oh, shit. Yeah. I was like, okay, girl, go back to therapy. You need to go back. Go back. Go back. Oh, my God. You need more work. It's this impresses you. Okay. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. So, yes, I do want to just try to see or whatever. And, you know, I'm not, I don't think he was really, I don't think he's jealous of Darry's or whatever. Right. Okay. But, that'd be sad. You know, if it's... If it's not a debate, then it will be bored. So, he, this is what he does. And this is a house moving. So, you know, that's, that's what he does. Well, what you're going to do. You know, when Bellow has to tell people to get it right. Problem. So, you already... Hey, I said it before you joined Erick, I said, I said is wrong is more Christianity than Christianity. So he's trying to be he's trying to be the peacemaker. You're good. Okay. Okay, so after the shut the

1:11:49part we talked about Ashley's or we talked about the whole thing with Ashley being called a foodie Call over a booty call Um, that was part of it too. We're just thinking about that because I saw this um on Instagram And so I put it in my notes. Did you see that clip or was it on the show? I don't know Yeah, it was on the show. Um, well, you know, I mean, she's she's there for the um, the furs and the crowns and the Come on red laughter. The extra rides with her cars in the shop, you know what I'm saying? Like if you're not going to take her out That's not bad. We treat her right then. You know, she's I don't know. I didn't think anything was wrong. I thought it was a funny statement. It was very fun and and it's true That's what dates are for like to get to know each other Overfood Netflix and adult activities. So I mean, there's nothing there's nothing wrong with that I don't think there's nothing wrong there either and also to me like she said and I go lie to you Um, woman would rather be called a foodie

1:12:50Called in a booty call. So you know, that means that Ashley's obviously Restraint of refraining from any adult activities Um Hold on who's next day. Oh, so we're meeting the different people. What are your thoughts about The timeline. Well, I'm sorry. Who's the first was who did I say first? It was oh, there is um meeting I'm sorry, don't I'm sorry. No, no, no, it's dumb. It's parents a meeting below And he said he was the happy about the religion the mom was like it in the days. He's on you mama What do you thoughts about that meet up Erica? Um, or meeting or whatever Okay, so my first thing was um, which I don't know. Was I here last week? I don't know, but my first thing was you are um Okay, so when you said Lord you told Lauren that your parents loved him And met him and stuff like I don't know it it might just be me But I feel like introducing somebody on FaceTime is not meeting. That's just like

1:13:54Ah Got about there. Clearly. They had never met him. So that was one thing That was her whole day. She came so far Oh, my friend my parents love him. They met him blah blah blah blah blah And then they're like then they get there. I was nice to see you in person. So they never met him Oh Girl, you know, I'm saying it and then you like they love him But you forgot to tell them he was Muslim like Okay, so that whole Earlier episode where she was front morning. All of that was clearly like made up in her mind Um, I think I mean, I think her parents were cool. I mean, I think they were I think her mom was like You know, her mom was writing hard for her like, okay. Yeah

1:14:56I think the father like You know was keeping in 100 like okay, no, it's gonna be a problem Which is what I said the first episode which made me think that they were always Playing in our faces the whole time because they never really discussed it So I They were playing in our faces with the whole religion thing from from the begin But um, but that being said though I don't know he don't move like I would think a traditional Muslim with moves So so maybe it's not that big of a deal to him because he you know, he I don't know. He's I'm not sure Okay, so what she said which was telling and I want to admit this She said uh chast You know, she made a big point to where she's kind of getting upset with Lauren about Bella And she said oh my parents love him And so Erica was like, hold up. What did you say Erica said? What was the only chance to hear what she said?

1:15:57My point is just because you let your parents say hi when you on FaceTime. That's not I agree Mad him because they were like oh, it's nice to see you in person. Yeah, I didn't think about that come on Good Erica going on clock it. She won't clock it. I did not look about that. Oh my god. I said Dom was very All that drama she did for Lauren was made up in her head because they're just now meeting him And that's why she's at the reunion saying he was in my bed two days ago I just know he's in that night though like is it is it a shanti? Who is it is it? Is it somebody that got eliminated the first night? Is it Nicole? Like who is it? I can't hear it. Nobody else Exactly it hurt and so the whole thing and now my point was you said your parents love him And all this other stuff to Lauren, but you forgot to tell them that he was Muslim

1:16:58So I don't think did we not talk about a shanti? I'm sorry. We didn't talk about shanti's mom Could then because she said something like 20 singles taking a leap of faith. I forgot all about that. So Before before do you remember the conversation but before I even get to that one I want to hear what you think about the timeline No, sorry, let me go back a little bit. Ashley was eating dairy as food me in him talks about this We thought I wasn't really I'm a really cute moment between you know a couple or whatever Even though they seem to have a cabana of situation through a whole season. What are your thoughts about that? Oh, you mean at the brunch or whatever Well, you know how she was kept when he was eating her But they're the brother the brother. Oh, where are the brother? Um It was cute, but I mean, I think the brother is like it's a no like he He's he never mean like I mean again to me Darius to the end gives out like pimp energy his lines always out like

1:18:00No, no, she's right Remember Darius said how's it? How's it going young man? Who the hell are you talking to? Right exactly Young man, I was like what Well, who did talk to you? Who did talk to that mother? The brother really That's our younger brother, right? So he's like young man, and I was like, oh really? This is what we're doing and then he said Communication 85 times and then I just felt like the lines he was giving a shot. He and her family and the lines he was giving Ashley's brother, you know, it sounds like he's giving lines like Lauren I think it was Lauren Lauren clocked him in the beginning and said you're giving fake And that's what he's been giving I feel like he got mad you got mad Okay, so What I am going to say about the young man comment and I do understand you guys are saying I've been saying that since forever even I was 20 and so I don't know because the fact he will raid by his mom sometimes when I'm sure how I'm trying to say this is me and very careful

1:19:02Some kids when they grew up with their parents are certain ages. They speak the way they did So I mean, I just think he does kind of give a little bit of a oh, so I've talked to him I disagree because when he says he's going to summon someone Yes, yes, yes, yes Jesus Christ, so what I'm saying was the young man comment that just says some people take on those personas But go ahead Chaz go ahead. I'm going to speak. I'm speaking from a man perspective So as a man to another man. I'm not going to say young man That was very I'm going to school you that's what she's been given feedback against she feels like he's schooling her is very It was a very arrogant statement Especially if you're if you care about this woman and you care about her family. That's her brother How's it going young man? And there's just too much there. I keep saying I look at the data. I collected There's a lot there with this communication style that he has Yeah, I definitely felt like it was his way to low-key politely punk him from the beginning and also

1:20:08Commission if that's how he spoke he didn't call nobody young man or old man on on all these episodes I No, no he did it as a way to be polite But to make it make to kind of take control of the conversation like you're not here to question me I'm the one in charge. I'm running this and Ended up stuttering. He ended up stuttering regardless. He tried the school room What do you get saying it's the communication? Yeah Oh, you know what no say to Cardi But yes, I'd be like look can somebody put up um Some kind of somebody need to translate because there's too much

1:21:12Just change the word here and there but you look Damn Cardi catchphrase even told me more Well Cardi Cardi shit catchphrase because when he said that whole foodie comment Let me tell you when a man is concerned about a woman that only wants to go out to eat He's concerned about his finances. Oh Yes, that's actually true. Sorry. If you yeah, that's true And you come on a dating show where you know you can go to take out multiple women. You should. Yeah, I agree Just say just say financially I can't Well, and we saw the ex Who pays for the dates I when I dated I pay for the dates. Mm-hmm, but I mean All men are different, but I'm just saying when I dated that was never something like if I'm gonna ask you on a date I'm not concerned about it. No, I think the question is or maybe I don't know if that's commissive question

1:22:15But my question is is are you paying for the dates or is owned paying for the day? Is definitely owned because I gave you feedback I told them I don't eat at restaurants like this And I don't like some of the places they had us eat the reason why I didn't eat no one else ate Was we wouldn't eat there generally So no own pays for the dates and when I asked to pay for my own dates at my own restaurants They were like no, we got a they we got to go through a vetting process They have to sign a filming at disclosure and all this other crap, but yeah own pays for that And remember he was and remember I that's Dallas so when they were going because I was like what the what did they go? I was like, you know what nevermind You should ask a local Dallas The cast member where to go eat so that actually explains a lot Chaz thank you for saying that so Erica We talked about a shanty now. I love a shanty. I I love her her mom I just I don't know man. Even I met her person. She's everything I met is who is on camera just like a lot

1:23:19Okay, so we're just thinking about that her mom and everything Erica Um, I liked her I liked her mom a lot. I like both, you know, I liked her her date with her family because I think It reminded me very much of like shanty like both of these brothers are a no and then I was so I had to laugh when we started going back and forth with bellow about the months Well, no, it's 14 months plus nine, but it's too new. I mean, it's like, okay, whatever bellow like just Just just stop because you look at crazy right now Oh, the baby right the baby. Is that what that was? Yeah, because the first The mother was like uh, she said something about the baby Oh, and you think it's time for you to get on this show and he was like oh, yeah, yeah Yeah, then then it was a long time and then when she asked my half and do you work see or then it was like was too new for me to know What did I just say you Chaz? Chaz what did I just say what did I say earlier to me? Okay, Erica you uh Jesus Jesus Jesus Jesus

1:24:24We are we are all her parents Erica and I said who The wonder brother was like I'm sorry. You have a scene my baby at all I was like that's giving weird. I have one sister and I'm telling you my children Is her kids and I love that for my sister, but I don't understand how anybody could be a sibling or listen People live in the Philippines or something like that. I don't understand. How is it you have nothing your needs on that view? I I don't understand there's there's something there. Well, I don't think bellow when it comes to the child I mean, I think the only thing that's pretty much Probably honest is that she's 14 months, but I think there's always a confusion about because yeah When when it was a date where his brother where they met his family He like oh, I've seen Lauren more than I've seen the baby So now all of a sudden he's like oh, we're working now then we're going, but you know, so I don't think

1:25:27I don't think he's you know, I think he saw the child one time. That's what got the test done And I'm not sure he'd been back Erica almost put up my figure and step the way from the camera You preach it right now Chaz this is what the statement out some I couldn't remember the statement But you said you saw a person you're dating on a relaxing show for how long you said five good three days You seen that person and I'm pretty sure you don't date Lauren the entire time obviously But for you to see her and say Literally, you see her more Oh, what the hell you may have dated Lauren maybe three or four times Oh, you didn't have my life And I was like I like him that ain't a father of the year statement. I don't know what is I got up. I am going to get oh my god

1:26:28Okay, so now all of a sudden would have shot you here and co-parenting now like I don't think I think all of that is a lie I think he he saw the child once he got blood tests That was like This baby don't look like me What I say my chief Oh, it's my that chance that if you was bad in the whole season And when somebody said he was proud of himself Y'all are eating him No, he was and then he started talking about I'm building homes and They're gonna go for a 1.5 and I want a fluent black people. I was like what the fuck We was just talking about the baby. You don't see Not you talking about the houses. You build them I think what was interesting that in three years, he don't see a shot He don't sing dumb. He don't see a wife. He don't see his baby. Oh my god. He's in his paper

1:27:39You like what are we talking about right the cameras are there the cameras are there We are performing for the cameras. Oh my god. He gave he gave the black answer Yeah, I want to see black people living in a fluent community. I'm building homes at one million 1.5 million They're gonna have three stories and two balconies and you're I know I just want to say is still this dumb introduces me to all of her network. I'm selling these homes Hi, I'm so you know, I'm so dead. Wait, wait and dumb the celebrity style is because I I caught it this episode And I was like what's what's celebrity now good normal collabing What's the celebrity are you styling my house? Oh my gosh, you can't the little red heart person. I was like Yes, no, I'm just trying to understand like when you tell me something, you know, I tried you know, I do this I just try to make It reminds me of somebody on the other was in Philadelphia where it was like they were they were a hairdresser

1:28:44But their hair was messed up the whole you see that was that No, I said that that was Rose and I said I don't understand how you are a stylist But you coming on here looking like you got up and get put dressed on and came straight to the reunion I can't believe it to understand that. So and like Cisco living You know, you were I want to go back to Cisco for a second. Remember when Cisco went on TV and say He went on the podcast and said I'm a play-thon And all of you guys are garden stakes and I didn't think about it at the time But he doesn't even know biology right because a play-thon is a solitary creature Even in a room in house sharing the toilet with the garden snakes the garden snakes do live in hibernate together as a fact I thought it doesn't live with other snakes. So like just ready to look it gives you delusion It gives

1:29:44Well, he moved in with his his his wife bought a house and he said they bought a house, but Oh, he'll have waters wait a minute This is not a flight to Miami, but you'll be able to do more time million dollar condos dirty What I see why his hair line is shady. You know what I can't I'm I cannot with this chat Jesus What to say I'm just don't Wait a minute. Listen that rose was never bad. I don't know. It was never bad. She's just well no You said rose hair never bad. She is natural hold on First of all, I'm never anti-black. My hair is super nice welcome. I can't run out. You go see him do it. Sorry. My locks First of all, I am never there. I'm so much for promote a black person black woman black hair We never heard all the things period. That's and I don't do the I don't talk about people weeks Except for one person, but I'm but other than that. I'm not gonna do that But I'm gonna tell you something her hair was cute the season

1:30:48But baby, I don't know what happened at the reunion. It was a mess And you guys know I interview who said yes, I'm turned on turned up Commission is here now. So when she I did the interview Literally, but we said she was not sober and I will leave it at that Remember go watch the interview. So let's not do that. Thank you so much. Yeah, she was on she was under influence. Yes, she was and maybe she forgot to call my hair I don't know, but her hair was cute the entire season With the braze and all the stuff, but I don't know what happened to reunions. So do I say oh, hey, it was a complete mess. Sorry Okay, so Erica she told my you don't bother that Erica because it's about her hair too. She said anti-black. I mean I'm not anti-black my hair is natural or whatever all I'm saying my hair is natural They say get about my hair too Yeah, all I'm saying is to me The point really was about Dom so I don't want to go down or really a rose

1:31:52Whatever hole, but I'm just saying and honestly There've been a lot of hair and makeup Mistakes over the seasons. Yeah, so no I can't remember any any um any season where it wasn't somebody looking crazy So nothing against Rose It's just that if you say that like you're a hairstylist or you say that you Style people's clothes or your fashion designer or whatever then we have a level of expectation or if you if you say you're a luxury car rental company Then I expect that you bought the luxury cars for the company Mm-hmm You when you partner with a woman To achieve your goal. I can't clap as hard It's all I'm saying you're talking about um bellow nobody. I know not bellow bellow is not in the car business but whoever was in the car business And she came forward and was like I fronted this I paid for this. I know what you're saying. Chaz oh my god

1:32:57I'm just keeping it real. I just can't Mm-hmm. I'll leave it at that. Mm-hmm, but I'm I give what you say a monster shade I can see through the trees But what I'm what I'm what I'm saying is that I thought you're trying to say bellow and dumb because I think about to Erica Pointed it both of y'all actually pointed out Because she says well you said celebrity because of his profession all of it If they're meeting up the minds because the fact we both have these things outside the show You know, I mean I think I think the dumb thinks it's a meeting of a lot of the minds Bellow thinks it's networking is a different thing like I don't think they both because I felt like Dom was like Oh, he really gets me and I'm like girl. He's trying to sell you. He gets a percentage like what is you? You know, which is and it's not really I'm not really necessarily saying that it's wrong I'm just saying that I have thought they had an agreement from the beginning. I was never really You know, I never really found their attachment to be all that authentic

1:34:01And then even when he was talking to his friends He's still talking about lust versus chemistry. He didn't talk anything about her personality her heart her mind None of the stuff that he even talked about with Ashanti and she was named his number one person So I feel like, you know, he I don't know like I don't think he I think she might have really liked him or she probably really likes him But I don't think he was authentic or I think he was trying to move and play and well I think I think we got to start being honest about how we show up right and And I think like I always wanted to see a woman play her natural state because how you really like I want to see how you're gonna Look when I wake up with you, right? I don't want to see all the aesthetics, but I think when people overly focus on Like sprays and holding sprays and you know, just no, I'm just saying you you are trying to project a false Persona false image of yourself

1:35:04And I think you got it back to that end to what you're saying Erica I'm sorry because jazz knows I know he's up here throwing some of shade Yep, no, no, no look. I'm not throwing shade. I'm simply saying like when you're doing all the coloring and stuff People That's not shade Look, I have tags that's coloring right? I'm just simply saying like if you're doing it every day before that like you sit down for your confessional Like that's a lot of work Okay, that's a lot of work. That's a lot like women generally go through so much effort Like and I'm not I'm not I don't have guys in my life that I associate with that putting that much effort aesthetically But the coloring and all that like the lining, you know Okay, it's a lot jazz Okay, I mean look I had a few dreams, but jazz that is okay one more time for people to back That is a lot of shade you talking about spraying the face. Oh my god help me. They was like the eyebrows were sprayed too Like it was a lot

1:36:06Okay, I didn't look either. I just feel like I Mean if I'm gonna get the hey, let me just like I'll get it the fuck Oh my god Jesus. I want to know your thoughts about this and Donna Um, who I think is maybe the most organic couple What do you think about the timeline situation the cousin and the brother one agree one different? What did your thoughts lower head? That's a spray of the face Okay, so here's what I think I think um Donna he really likes you, but he's not gonna marry you Um, I think that I get what he's saying in terms of you want a relationship to grow organically I think that that is a valid point However, you should be able to say organically In less than five years, you know, I'm saying so the fact what she did No, no, no, the fact that vents won't say less than anything

1:37:08Means that it's gonna probably never happen because I'm like why is he and she is older she was she 37 or 38 or whatever So she doesn't have like infinity. She doesn't have 18 years for you to make a decision Infinity Exactly, so I think that it's someplace in the middle and the fact that he still is like right or die I'm not gonna give you a date is trives like like you know, I'm saying because to me I feel like if you're an adult and you live in the same city It shouldn't take you longer than really three years like he could have gave I mean first of all it's a mythical number because it's like you know I mean like you all could break up tomorrow like what difference doesn't make you just do it to pacify the person But the fact that he's like you're not gonna catch me on camera giving you a date Means that he's Okay, okay, you know what but you know where Erica to For vents I can understand that I would not give a date

1:38:12You know like kind of a child was saying too earlier that That's not her man and I want me like the bad way. I'm saying that her timeline is fine for her But I said there's nobody there This you know once that same timeline that her man is not there But like I love a chat said go find that man that is cool with the timeline I just said there's nobody there for that. I'm sorry Um, let's get to the because the people in the chat are going in and just they said the Beijing life Well, and that's gotta like increase your risk of cancers, right because Those are chemicals No seriously seriously like when you I don't think anyone needs to do all of that to yourself Like just be yourself It just man comes on camera and shows you guys here to be here. I'm so done If someone says gonna purchase a Michael send these people. All right, look America The choosing your thoughts please and I just just go ahead Okay, so I Appreciate that production

1:39:15Um gave Ashanti the go ahead to choose herself Um, they should have gave her that go ahead about three weeks ago, but better late than never Um, so I appreciate that because I was like, you know, we all know Neither one of those men were going to choose you and you should have self eliminated at least last week when Lauren went home but um, so I like the way they kind of gave her the chance to Kind of save face and kind of have that moment or whatever. She's a really cool girl. Yeah, she is woman or whatever so she seems real cool and down earth So I appreciate that they allowed her to Um, to do that instead of like giving us a whole fake Obsessed scene when they didn't choose her, you know, I mean two men got to come and say no, I didn't you like So I'm glad we did not have to sit through that. So I pray in the reason she gave us valid Yeah, I mean, it was very much like Shannon like you were everybody's number two. So yeah My god

1:40:16Why is there no thing about some of these couples are here. I'm thinking about the song the boy is mine I don't know why cuz you got me thinking about these different middle and brandy and I'm sorry team brandy and team I'm sorry, but so I wanted to ask you a quick question about that Because that guess statement is perfect. I I loved it that she said, you know, I'm gonna choose myself I really love that whole scene. I didn't You said production. I don't know Chad real quick. You said you tried to sell good. What's all right over now? You tried seven lemonade correct I self-eliminated Twice and the the third time I was like, well, I'm at the end so effort, but yeah twice. I did I'm gonna say I was allowed to come back. I was allowed to come back. So I don't I mean hey, you know, are you actually left? I left. Oh wow. Yeah, I was done. I sent text message. Hey, I'm done Interesting Okay, so Erica so the Vince And her did you like them as far as we all knew they were gonna choose or whatever did you

1:41:20Like that or what how do you feel about them? Um Yeah, I mean, you know, I'm giving Donna the side. I grow. He's not gonna. Oh, no, he's not gonna You know, but it you know go go kick it for a few more weeks or whatever and have some fun, you know, but don't argue Right exactly. That's two things one thing. I think Vince's mouth like on the day to day I don't I'm not sure she's gonna really be able to swing with that but realistically like She can say whatever, but it's like if you plan to have children He ain't the one because he's not gonna figure it out and in the time frame that you would need For it to really be reasonable, affordable, healthy, whatever. So, you know Can I add to that Erica? You can't fight With your partner your woman and Bill so she's really gonna have to pick and I'm gonna keep fighting with Vince on every little thing Or do I need to find a man that I can build with Because her goals are building goals, right exactly exactly and he's like

1:42:23Is argumentative and and really see the thing is Vince is not a builder He's like, let's just go kick it Right, and you know, so yeah, go have a fun date where you're little shorts and have some fun But don't expect this to take you nowhere Don't expect this to be like, oh, you know, you're gonna meet his kids and now y'all gonna build a you know a cold mingle family And blah blah like that. He's not really, you know Perhaps he will change later, but he hasn't shown that on the show Like you know what we've seen like and you and I actually think he really likes her But he's like yeah, you know, we'll see what happens. Let me go with the flow. I think he really likes her But he wants to be he doesn't want to change for her And I think that's that's the big problem. He has to change in a relationship You can't be in a relationship and you expect the other person to adjust and adapt and change and you don't change That's not a healthy relationship Well, one of points I wanted to bring up is that who was that vince's ex literally said

1:43:26She broke up with him because of his mouth and they argued all the time So to me, it's like if you're being told that this is why we broke up So to your point both of y'all point literally they're probably gonna argue every day or well She'll have to flex. She has to finish herself because he only got something to say about every little thing And I've said he's very combative. I stand on that you have from the beginning So to me he's for his girlfriend. I'm sorry. Ask her for to say. This is why we broke up. He's a good guy but That's To get into an argument over it. So Now you're gonna be weird to But he's like, but you know what? I mean he's fun, you know I think he's the jokes or whatever and he doesn't back down But he doesn't he doesn't really pick his battles. So every little thing is the issue every little thing is sort of a drama And I think you know, it might be okay Every now and then but day-to-day that would hit it You said he doesn't back down You cannot be with someone who doesn't know when to back down if they won't give you an off ramp in an argument

1:44:32They don't want peace So that's very telling that you caught that I didn't catch that but you're right. He doesn't back down Hey, I told you that he's very I'm sorry. I stand in this 100% I say he's very very combative. It's like everything is a freaking battle this man got mad because he was told he was not a six foot And I I mean, I'm sorry I was questioned about his height and there's a very light conversation And he made it get so heavy like bro, you don't look six foot and I'm still gonna stand on that. I'm sorry He's about five seven five six At the Decision day he wore pants like they were above the ankles So I think he tries to make himself look taller I'm not a head on heels. Oh, no, he didn't have on heels, but like the the pants were above the ankles So like they were shorter than the ankles. So I think he wants to appear taller Well, then there's the Lauren that's gonna be okay to be honest the next the Lauren not be a drama Anyway, and then the whole argument with Darius over something that Cardi said like who cares? Like it would be yeah

1:45:37Cardi and and also How are you talking about people speaking out of turn when you betrayed Ashley's trust last one? You know I'm saying so you're not any less messy. So it was you know, so I think he but I think he didn't want He got upset when Darius was like let's move on. Yes Yeah, like he just wasn't You record I'm telling y'all that I feel like he likes to are you all from the debate team using high school I don't know what it is the sky blue no the sky is red you are just like every time something is said You know what you want to I don't know what there's about him anyway So he's not gonna ever just let anything Like And that yeah that part I would find eventually it's gonna be I think it's gonna be

1:46:41The third day. I'm sorry. It's not you Okay, but you know it'd be that whole dear John letter. I can't so I want to talk to you We're supposed to be about the bello and dom. He said I've chosen to the beginning Obviously come on with I know you got some air comes waiting Yeah, we know you chose because you all had an agreement from the day one Come on So you know Yeah, exactly you all had an alliance you all agreed up until I guess the reunion, you know, we'll fake it till we make it um So I wasn't you know, I don't really have too much to say about them. I mean, I think it's interesting You know the main thing is gonna be the reunion Um and see what happens there, but I think in this one um Yeah, I mean, I think from the beginning Lauren clocked it Dom was the main person and he acted like everybody else was a side chick and he acted like that the whole season

1:47:43So to me the fact that Devon and Steve all these people got eliminated because they had too many connections And he's down to the last week With two people It's like you know, so you knew he was moving a certain way now. I'm not sure if that's the Muslim way when he was moving What the hell I feel like you know for him to be like oh, I missed your religious or whatever, but you're out here You know one night stands wrong. You know, he just don't Jesus Christ. I mean, how do you think he had a baby? I mean, I'm just asking I said and he has a baby. So obviously He doesn't see maybe a writ So he doesn't like a one hand. He's trying to This religious Businessman, but he's not but he's moving like a player like a dog or whatever. So to me

1:48:44So I want to because a storm of getting crazy my thank you. Okay, so I want to say Vince and his brother It's in the chat. He knew why I said this is brother behavior was diabolical So this is something I don't know what dress there now. I think we did I did not like how he was talking to Lauren it was so messed up. I was like They tag teamed her they did and it's like someone to say look let's mess this up So I can just have Donna as the one that I want it gave that to me that holds And I tell the truth go ahead go ahead I so when my That was my best friend that came to my decision. I mean my date with that person on the on the show And I told them I needed to get out of this situation And I don't put it past Vince that he told his brother. He needed to get out of this situation with Lauren Okay, and I think that's why they tags him lore That was so just that was so rude. I'm sorry. It was very rude. Yeah Yeah, it very much gave this is how you act with somebody you don't really like like you don't really care So you know, and that's how it seemed like he just let his brother say whatever

1:49:45And um, and we know we discussed this last week and then really I mean lore. I mean Donna kind of cleaned it up, but they gave the same answer But all of a sudden Donna is so enlightened and touched and whatever But Lauren is just respectful. So it's like okay. No, so it was it was very obvious They wanted Lauren to look bad right from that directly No, you could tell because even some of my chat or to the comments they made a statement saying they gave the same answer So I don't understand what's the difference. So Eric has a good point Um Vince. I'm sorry. Somebody that says oh Chad this day you need to be back on TV in comments I got I got this huge tech project. I'm working on um, and hopefully after this I won't have to work or do anything again So I need to get you you need to get yourself on that little deal. Okay, so it says Vince is one of those guys who will argue to death She on the other hand is too much for her to change. I'm sorry to change or make corrections for him

1:50:46Um will be too much for him and then she also said This is gonna mess up her yoga's in. I do agree with you healing I do believe that she'll be going to yoga a whole lot dealing with Vince and he's gonna take her out her zen Complex because she seems very very chill. Okay, so who is that everybody? Do we talk about everybody? Who who's you all talk about um Ashley having to break down, but then say oh yeah, I choose you though. Okay, go ahead go ahead I know you want to talk about that. There's Ashley. I mean, I was like girl go with your first mind and run, but you know So to be interesting to see You know, I mean, I think she's excited about the The you know the head and the paws around her neck or whatever. I don't know But she's okay with that crazy first stuff. So I'm not sure, but she seemed like she was really like Not crazy for her. She was so close to really being like no, and I was like go with the girl I thought it was me. I thought she was going to say no. I swear to God. It looks like she's about to say I choose myself

1:51:50I don't know if people in the background saying No, say you choose him. You know, like at least at least don't break up with him to the reunion. I don't know But she really seemed conflicted and I was like you did girl because he's a pimp just let him go. Oh my god Just let him go not pimp see so Wait, his name is I'm sorry pimp me. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry pimp deep and army. I'm not doing that. I like there's okay Healing water says online the rumor is bellow is married, but he could be married like Camille and Cornie is well first of all they're not Anymore, right? That's what she's saying like he could be Could be very like I'm very like you know to me. He that's for too. That's true because we talked about this earlier Erick at that, you know when she has the reunion He got someone to flex for the show that sees it, but he literally said

1:52:52On the reunion. Hey, you know, I'm with I'm engaged and he's now he's what a lot about it He's now Mary has a beautiful child and so and they all look at him crazy So that does actually happen. So it could be possible that he married the person or whoever maybe the baby I don't know um and is married now so because the show wraps you have to understand it be like a whole year You guys be a whole year and then the show comes out. So a lot of things can happen in a year. He may have had this You know, this thought in his mind like Charles like you know what I don't want anything like that But then again, she did start the reunion. He was in my bed two days ago So I don't know and then you know like Cisco marry somebody else. So like you know people's lives Well, he wanted he was tired of living with folks I mean it gets old after a while like when I was 17 when I you know live with my aunt It just I I got tired. She got tired. We got tired. You're not going to

1:53:55No, when I was 17, I didn't live with Okay, Chaz you're about to get a weapon. You just said 17, which is like under 21 Just go is six. What is he 18? What was he 19? He's young too. I think Or he married it She said no more no more like Dean is no more efficiency. I got a three-bed She's like I ain't sure I'm totally no more I have a car have all the things. Oh We're not sharing about them anymore You know Somebody taking his socks somebody sleeping in his bed

1:54:57Something Hey, but I have a he came up happy for him happy for him. Oh my gosh. What more is in trouble? Oh my god Okay, so he really want to say how scary wait. Oh my god. How scary was there her therapist probably calling her right? After Okay She was like I'm gonna get no more clients, but you behave in like this saying what you say On camera, please don't say my name. I want my referrals do not say my name. I can't Like Woo all right is it all the couples cuz that's the worst this is been a demolishing

1:56:03Detroit episode. I'm sorry. This is I haven't done one of these in a long time. I did good though I I saved it to the end, you know, I did good. I think I did good too Just wait a minute. He let water said bellow is not chance. Well, you know what? I look I'm just cuz he come on camera nobody saying thing by there was nadea or nothing Lauren girl you missed Lauren you got to go back and watch I need somebody to okay, so Lauren you miss when they said to bellow Wait, wait, go back to the asthma pump. Erica, please I think Lauren to hear this please just who's the asthma pump? Oh no, that was in the chat. Oh, is that y'all I didn't say that That's why you ran away with his ass. So chess said What he was doing with the asthma pump and he was sitting down Oh

1:57:03Oh my god, what's something he's hurting so bad right now my face is You Because we were talking about well what I said was this About the bellow situation. I said that I didn't like how they Split the women down the middle and talking all this mess What I actually said was that bellow should be the one to respond better by saying this sentence That's why you're here. I said that I think he was scared of dumb because the way he crowns up his whole body Like he'd like shivered up his head. It was down like you know how The people on the plantation But he like you know mr. So we can't go over there. That's kind of how I felt when she started going off And I also said Lauren that the reason why she would opt when she did is When she did is because She knew he had more films for you than what he led on for whatever or whatever the reason

1:58:04She chose to go off like that. Oh Lord my stomach is hurting so bad. I cannot my face is killing me But go ahead Erica. I think I don't I don't know so much that I think that she was I think she was Definitely because I think we talked about this last week too. I think she was definitely intimidated by Lauren So and then I made the point you know as well that she made it seem like her family loved him There we go come on, but you know loved him and all they met him and stuff And I was like no, they didn't meet him. You let them talk to him on FaceTime or whatever and they They didn't even know he was Muslim. So basically she did all that to front For Lauren, but I think I have more to do with I think I have more to do with her being intimidated by Lauren Whether she really thought I think it was more sort of the competition with Lauren than it was really anything to do a below to be honest I think it's just love Erica get get somebody please help me, but Wait, but I had to go to urgent care. I was like I need an asthma pump to to do this

1:59:08Well, I repeated so I wanted Lauren to hear what I said I thought Bella was scared and I said like Somebody on the plantation, you know Mr. So we can't go around the Because I don't like the way he was acting when she started going off and did Lauren the chat said very scared Wait a minute. She said When she will come around he was all whispering Was he weaving was he weaving or was he whispering She said the editing The editing was crazy I'm just so done. I'm just saying you Lauren. Please will rewind because I can't recap the shenanigans that has gone on in the hour and a half that we build this lab. Okay, so My final thoughts about the season

2:00:09To be honest, I love Detroit, you know, I felt last season was a miss. I'm sorry. It really was But I love me some coley and who sang period, but no, but it was it it was Called my girl. It was a miss for a lot of different reasons, but um And y'all could not compete with that because that's brought it No Lauren said we's an ad of what's for Connection Communication communication communication I'm sorry The word today was communication Okay Wait a minute. Oh you missed it. Okay, so okay Lauren I don't even repeat this this man said The dying okay, I don't even the dying of the beard. I don't know. I'm not a man. I don't know anything about this

2:01:16You started about like he was basing the hair in his face Because you start believing it you start spray painting your face and you start thinking like it's really this fool and his thing You know Yeah, basing affects your mind Oh, no, no, also to learn uh why you hear erica, please repeat I don't know the man basing his beard. I don't know that man that might be actually his beard I know the basing is a thing for some men, but but Laura. I'm sorry um Ericka repeat the parents They I just want her to hear that and they won't know yeah, no, I saw I said it. I said that um she made it see Don made it seem like My parents love him and They met him and they love him and stuff, but they did not meet him They talked to him over FaceTime maybe But you know, I'm saying if she get you know, but they did not meet him because when they met him They said did you see you for the first time in person or whatever? So they had never met him

2:02:18They didn't know he was Muslim. So she didn't so when she acted like they really liked him That was just her fronting or whatever or was in and they were they were standoffish Did you notice that like they look Disinterested they did they did they did the mama tried to try to bring it through like yeah You you can do it She dropped the drink the coke like she was trying to like let me just Drink this drink, but they look disinterested the father was like that's a hard no for me That's what the fat that was the pastor was saying, which is what I said from the beginning. I'm like girl You're not only are you religious your father leads a whole church? So why do you think he was gonna think this was like such a great idea? That's actually true That's actually very you know what they and then she was like I'm gonna do what I want to do because it's my life Okay, they'll lie. What's oh my god Which is right? What's it true you should do what you want to do But she invited her parents there keep that in mind They're there because she said can you be here and tell me what you think exactly and do what you want to do

2:03:21And then that's why we're gonna see you at the reunion boo So that's fine and he was in your bed two days two days prior Somebody sleep. Oh, what does it say? Oh, so Lord said at one point she said and her parents were going We're fine with his religion. We found out that was a lie And front of him that day was all lies all of it was lies. Like she Oh, yeah, they love him. They made him like all the whole thing like she thought she thought that she was his man I mean she was his woman like she's just been delusional Yeah, so so the dumb dad knows he was delusional. She was delusional. Well, okay again and and I'll make the statement. I said that women who in a and again, I wasn't there But uh lost big let you went online Because of the comment they were made about the you know the resort or whatever the cabin in the woods freaking Jason Scary looking cabin looking ass anyway when she when it was talking about the fact that they was in the same room together

2:04:26People online were saying were they intimate the whole time now what I said was sometimes when women get so strong Feel so strongly about their the guy they're messing with especially their intimate They go extra hard and so I'm not laughing at them left with Lauren said but when I'm saying it and again I'm not judging any woman To do whatever they want to do with their body. They're everybody in the dough here I don't ever judge a woman for you know being intimate with a man. I don't like that. Slush Jamie. I can't find the words but Women do get extra strong when they are now and I want to ask you that Erica. How'd you feel about that because you weren't here with me and chess spoke about that Um, I agree because I think there was um, what's it Philly? There are other seasons like to me I always get someone the side I When they share a room with somebody like because it's like okay really, you know, and I and it's like okay They are stated claim or whatever and they're kind of making it obvious to the whole world

2:05:26So yeah, I agree and you are going to be um Rose but then also remember the girl who was with the guy with the with the funky braids and who wore the cargo pants All the way to the end. Yeah, you know, yeah, yeah, they they um you Philly come on Philly, right? Yeah, yeah, and Philly um The one who had the scraggly braids I forgot his name He he didn't like going on can't want to take her on a date remember at at the end of the process because the show wasn't paying for the dates anymore So he didn't want to go on dates right exactly exactly so she she was riding pretty hard and I and they also share the room So, you know, which and to me obviously women are gonna get attached when usually yes, yes, you have a physical, you know, entanglements. So Um, so that's understable I know right that's understandable However The thing I would say about Dom that I would pull to the side is that It's one thing to ride hard. It's another thing to be like a straight-mean girl

2:06:29Because there were times like I guess I get it with bellow, but she was coming for Lauren When they man man, like randomly, and it's like okay, you know I was talking about I think she was talking about vents and Donald's like I didn't know y'all had a connection I just saw it together. It's like why are you again? Why are you speaking? Why are you talking right right? She wanted moments. Yeah, she had a tendency to I didn't like that either Almost be very mean girly like for no reason really um well Chaz mentioned like intimidation or whatever like she clearly I think I thought she was very confident and I really like that for me. I said the same thing And then in the end when she started kind of getting mean. It's like okay She's just looking insecure, you know, I'm saying she wasn't looking as calm that that was her main like her superpower Was that she was so confident self-assured and wasn't letting anything kind of shake her oh And she let it all go

2:07:30Well, Lauren says she endured it the entire season So to me I I even said it too when she mentioned it to Tommy about hey, this is my interaction with whatever whatever She just starts going off and I'm like girl. She is literally telling her how she felt with the cat woman situation Grimm at the chat and he said she pulled a thigh up and she ain't no bad woman She's more like baps from Oh my god Howie Berry baps I know is that could would you okay? It's so when when Lauren was just trying to tell Tommy How she felt about this situation and she was coming at her and long responded Very much like a lady like I don't I'm just gonna keep going like I don't understand why you're asking me this This has nothing to do with you and that's the part that it does give a mean girl Because it doesn't make any sense why she was responding and I noticed that every time Lauren says something She'll look at her or you see the the comments here behind the scenes you're gonna play my face I'm just like why is it such a aggressive energy

2:08:32Because Just keep your mind queen like that this should have been week four right so she has all this aggressive energy four weeks in Yeah She did it. She did impression the baps in the chat. So I'm laughing. I'm sorry Go ahead go ahead chat. I'm sorry. Go ahead. No, I was just simply saying like that she had all this attitude four weeks in Yeah, I didn't understand how you look stupid at the reunion. Oh Jesus Well, I just didn't understand what Lauren had because Lauren hadn't done anything on the camera at all to show the audience Where the smoke was coming from I know I get you got Lauren as it like I said and naturally beautiful woman Who doesn't have to try as hard? So I think Dom was was very intimidated by Lauren and other women And that insecurity came out the way it came out and now she's after reunion Looking foolish She says since day one Damn and and I don't like this is one thing I will say I do not like that if I'm going for somebody

2:09:39We're competing and I'm a very competitive girl You think if I want to hear I've gone back and forth of bloggers back and forth all of them literally. I can literally say that right I don't care if they have more numbers than me. I don't care but none of that I will get on my platform and I will drag them and the chat and everybody until I take their soul Don't give a shit You don't sound to be honest, and so for me. I'm gonna go for my goal So for me is a competitive person that I am you're never gonna make me feel less then where I have to come out of You know what I mean moving first is because I have come on my credit before but what I'm saying is if I'm competing With somebody Will be for man or whatever it might be You're never gonna make me do all that if I have to walk away because I know he ain't for me I'm gonna walk away. I'm not gonna do all the extra stuff just so I can say he's my man. I'm not gonna do that Right, but I mean she's shoulder is it was just Another woman right now I must say if you get into we got beef. It's whatever

2:10:43But for me, I'm not going to downgrade another woman Because we're competing about something. I don't care if it's job money. I don't care what it is I'm not if I can't get it my with my credentials or who I am it wasn't for me Not every man or everything is for everybody You know to do all the extra. That's all I'm saying. She says she snatched bellow From talking to me day one. Jesus Christ. She was intimidated like that's the that's the thing right I I never wanted this is gonna sell in shallow. So I apologize before hand I didn't want to be with a woman that another man didn't find interesting. Oh, well look at and vice versa my wife Lights that women look at me. So I don't know why Dom had to serve ignorant That another woman was interested in the man she had a connection with and she behaved the way she behaved Interesting. Yeah, but I would say this though for some reason. I don't know if it was editing or whatever But she didn't come at a shiny crazy

2:11:44No, because she's got a mouth like No, but she yeah, but she didn't come in a shiny crazy. So I don't think it was just About bellow. I think it was a deeper insecurity. You know, I'm saying yeah, I agree with that because to me I feel like As I've said they had an alliance. So bellow wasn't go sway from that alliance and to me And I said this too last week was that like it was great of her I'm saying that When you walk into room he was acting like that person was a side chick Then that's it. That's for you to take notice that come on now acting like you number run But he's still engaging with these other women and no, no, no, no, no, no, but you said it's perfect Not even that Engaging with me. She's trying to tell you in a woman's way in a very ladylike manner You say you number. I mean you number one for him But what you don't know is that last night who on the phone he made me say number one

2:12:45She just said it in a classy exactly exactly and instead of Dom just listening it and watching bellow, which is what you're supposed to do with the information She's so busy trying to chuck Lauren and try to do this and that and it's like And so she has some really deep-seated insecurities That I think Lauren triggered because she wasn't triggered by a shanty Even though to me when he talked about his connection with a shanty That was the realest thing he said really on the show about they at least they reading the same book Yes, so that was a plus But he you know, he seemed like he talked with things with a shanty that were That didn't have that weren't physical in nature or whatever So she wasn't intimidated by that Look, I think it's something you know, so I think that she was definitely triggered by Lauren for sure So I don't think she's all there though Well, the chat. I'm sorry. Uh, check hold your second Lauren said Asked me to come see him right after the brother date

2:13:46Come on now. What did I what did what did mean Erica just literally say? I think Dom I'm sorry. I think that Lauren was trying to give her her heads up And she didn't even wait a minute. Did he cry? She says she said he cried to me saying he did too much Too soon Go ahead, jazz because I really want you to respond Well, I don't know where I don't even know where to begin with that Lauren. I hope you can jump on I was gonna talk about Dom saying God told her from day one That was who she was gonna be with with people I read in that bother me because I think we gotta stop lying on God We gotta stop saying God is telling you stuff And when you're telling yourself something because she's been delusional this entire season and the thing about it is And I'm just gonna go back to the Bible Jesus was here That was God's son only begotten son And the Bible only records God spoke to Jesus three times now. He told you bellows your man And I want to know the God tell you to wear that dress with your text with your husband's name tattoo

2:14:50Yeah, like God Yeah, stop lying on God just stop it And then the wind was blowing the truth in our face and I was like hahaha God God God ain't got nothing in this. This is not God. This is not Jesus I'm just praying for some straight there So you see where she also a Lauren the chat also said are you know over a Mary man is crazy So I that might be confirmation. Yeah, I mean God may have told her to argue she says God speaks to her so You know what stop it so Dominic is a hustler that's the one quality. I like about her She's going to try to capitalize good or bad with every interaction I'm not gonna lie to you. I also agree with that statement. I so loves That she's a hustler now healing waters. Let me tell you this is what we're gonna say earlier. I'm happy you're reminding me This is okay. Dominic reads the room. She knows if she tells a shot tea

2:15:54Anything baby let me tell you something she gives baby. It's not gonna. No ma'am. I just tell you I'm trying to be as careful as I can but I'm gonna say Planning your face would be the least of your worries. So I'm trying to say and Lauren to me Because I think Lauren could get that as well But some people just you know, that's not I'm trying to see how to say this Like for me people know for me if you come to me I'll be in my life and push your ass out, right? There are some bloggers that probably have some coming to them bad negative. It won't see anything You know It just depends on the person now if you they get pushed too hard They probably will and Lauren Vagross of how sweet and kind she is I do believe she had to the truck will come out But I'm just telling you when you meet I'm as a shot. She gives if you come in me I'm coming to your behind immediately and you're not gonna like what I'm gonna say So to me dumb knew what she was doing and to me Lauren not responding to where she did

2:16:55It it gave I'm not for the engagement all that she could have been gay Crazy and up in the lounge. She could have she chose not to is your decisions of what you want to say and how you want to act Go ahead. She she remained in her Independent Womanhood and that's why she did but she gave that woman no energy. I'm not here to answer any questions from you. You're irrelevant And now since that's a reunion you was in my band two days ago And I can't wait to see next week. I cannot wait I can't eat I can't lie to you Lauren said okay, so She said I've been it's been almost made. I'm sorry I've been nice, but it's almost that time while they are lying on me I'm about to tell the truth and I can't wait for you to be on my channel If you want to hit the link you can you want to tell any of you I'm cool with that too Um, Hillary water said you helped bail will become a real bald face. I'm so done Thanks for helping me with addressing the higher line. Oh my god

2:17:56Jesus No, Hillary waters is giving no, I think God. I think God. I have my hair. I think God that My son is probably gonna have my hair like it's just I just praise him He has pretty here and he sees his baby every day anyway. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That was a lot my bad so So The reunion clip Erica, please give me your comments about that because that one clip was a lot. What are your thoughts? This can be a I think I mean finally The debacle of the Alliance and I am here for it Lauren. Oh my god There's gonna be save that here off. What here is what I would I mean Lauren. Lauren. Thank you. Thank you for thank you for keeping it real and telling the truth Yes brother shave it off just embrace what is so that what can be will be Hmm Well, we'll say the reunion, but you know, and I'm pretty sure

2:18:57Dom is for the give bellow the business and he would not be able to handle it. I'm sorry Like I don't know if it's a shanty because they asked a shanty something about does she hook up with someone something? And so Bellow hooked up with somebody else on the show No, no, I think he asked the question. Is there anybody else you're interested in or you or something like that Something to that effect like did you talk to somebody else outside of wants to show stuff filming Right exactly exactly. So I don't know if it's bellow or not. But I feel like bellow probably I think it's somebody on the show You know, I'm saying because I mean, you know Cuz you know how what a lot of red flags on this show there's a lot of red flags Yeah, there's a lot going on and I just I don't want to be another reunion where it's gonna be like Rose saying I slept like you know with you get a card you the card Rose was like I was posing you I was posing you I don't I mean not standing cuz it was good TV. But I suck you in Oh my god, I'm gonna be on to get together baby that first. What did we say chat? Why would you use that word?

2:20:02I don't know that that's a lot going on It was weird. So like why would you use that adjective to describe the plans? I mean, that's another topic, but there was just a there was a lot of things that happened in this season I Ericka in my wrong. It was just I was so not understanding Some of these things that happened. So Lauren Was so good. I mean, I am never gonna get over The head and the paws on the fur like I mean, there's so many things in this season This was really a good season like I mean, I'm not saying you know I'm not saying I'm really finding any true love matches. I won't say that but you all were I think everybody was authentic in their own way not everybody except for Jerry's I mean, there's a couple people that were that were fake I think overall the season had a refreshing realness. We didn't have no long-ass gaps. So that was nice

2:21:03I actually, you know, I think there was something I kind of enjoyed I didn't have any episode where I was just straight snoozing I mean, honestly, we've been on this life for a long time, but this was the most boring episode. I think the whole To be honest, I was like, okay, I was I was the stars. We lost Lauren. We lost Shannon We were just stuck with what's left Yeah, so I mean, this was kind of and yeah, this is definitely a dry episode, but it was it's still brought something So I think this was a good season It's interesting. I think because I was discussing this with a friend about how Detroit in terms of and maybe it's the way Carlos is filming it or whatever, but Detroit in terms of Wait, who's saying Carlos and yeah, Carlos can't write so His show was a bail collective. It's not

2:22:04Carlos England to do it. Well, he has that love and merit stuff, right, but Even those guys don't wear the fur is I didn't see the fur is all the hairspray on the few episodes They're very sort of religious Focus, you know what I'm saying like I think in this season like I don't remember any other seasons where there were so many couples who were like Faith could make or break the couple So I think that it's an interesting dynamic when they show Detroit and sort of how important religion is Detroit Yeah, it is more or or you know or people are Acting as it is. So it's interesting to see Well Detroit is known for that and so long you didn't miss the part where we talked about I think Erica Well, I mentioned it to Chaz and then I couldn't remember what the phrase was or the statement was But Erica reminded me when he said he saw you more time for his own child And so I just that doesn't even could

2:23:04That doesn't even bow to war with me at all like I don't understand like you probably saw him a handful of times And you telling me that You haven't seen your child your brother hasn't met your baby And you you've seen him more on the five week and as Chaz stated five weeks and three days They didn't show like I don't understand it. I'm sorry. So somebody chat as Lauren Did she ask him to go visit his baby too? I mean, I hope he went and saw the baby Oh, well, too, this is Christ. The baby mom was got paid do not get on live or nobody's internet And you did not say anything No, that just means the baby's bomb is not white. That's some of that me Okay, cuz I'm so surprised that she hadn't come on and said uh he is a whore or dad He only pays child support It's in the baby one time away Erica said that the only time he's seen the baby even the blood test came back that he was a father

2:24:05That shit got me still Erica. Oh my god. Yeah, so But now I agree with Michelle as well Um, I think yeah, you know, I mean, I think he likes, you know, whatever He might what I think he definitely is looking at her contact like what celebrities are you styling and I said that real estate I said looking for property. So I definitely That's why I was saying collab with a collab in the gather for a business like it's a power couple You know, I'm saying like you have the the places for the black people to move in and I had this celebrity Let's combine and this makes some money. I don't know So the reuse go be a mess. I'm hoping that gonna be a rose part two. We'll see We will be back to talk about it. I don't know what day, but we will be talking about it. Okay, um, I will be interviewing um Lauren and a shot tea and um Darius it's probably gonna be I know for sure after this live that's gonna be I don't want to hear I don't want to hear that one, but Lauren

2:25:07Want to hear your side. I hope you get Shannon too. I would love to hear more from Shannon more from Ashley I would just love to get the truth out there And Darius I will say this. I know we've been hard on you and I'll just say my one. I've been real with you What one of my favorite crocs. Oh wow Pimping ain't dead these holes just scared. So it's fine It's fine Darius, you know, we all do what we got to do out here And I know everybody call and I'm just this is me talking and I know everybody's the pimp situation to me. I never looked at it Uh Like that is as far as like a pamper whatever and there's why I didn't look at it like that because I just I saw Detroit for myself in person and Detroit just when they call it just a lot going on as far as their outfits everything else I was recording people that wasn't even prone to show because the outfits was just like I saw this older lady and I don't want to you know, she look good. I don't know. She was 65 years old Maybe but she came in that party I'm I just can't explain the outfit y'all have a video to see it. They just out they dress, you know

2:26:10Just different and that's why I said to me. I don't think it's like a pimp thing. I just really think that It's important to anybody wears to coordinate and do things, but she due to his uh with his mother total and everything else So to me, I just it doesn't give because the people such a crazy Word to attach to a man and it's true although he did have a long-term relationship with this stripper Well, and also when you say new summoner people like you when you talk like a pimp and you act like a pimp And you styrole like a pimp what I can see why people think pimp Right, it's not even just the it's not just the head in the pause commission. It's not just the head tonight It's the 2015 Bentley like it's a lot of Pimp-like evidence And for a long time or for several episodes He was just giving those pimp lines The only time he was actually real in the beginning was like in his confessionals I was like, well, why don't you talk like this the whole episode like he who just was

2:27:14I mean a lot of his things sounded like lines that he googled on YouTube or something It sounded very cliche very like oh, I must you know like Exactly Now I'll say this. I don't know any pimp personally. Just how they're portrayed on you And that's how they portrayed in TV and in film and that's very much what he was giving so you know, but You know what we've never met him so I can't say that for sure, but A lot of it for a lot of the episodes seemed very fake sort of rehearsed sort of like I come up with these little lines Oh, it's your heart. It's you know, just it's like uh, it just it was not authentic. It was very fake Some some men have you know stocks annuities, you know, principles interests and some guys have been Okay, well, so I I can't say that about the women and I said about him meeting him in person Big personality all of that. I mean, I watched the cast

2:28:17Well the ones that were at the party being entire night and the way they are on TV and what I meant in person it matched So you know, I'm just I'm gonna send it for my experience Very very much a gentleman very very much. Yes, you know fun loud and after all the things so and again I can't think about pimp stuff because I don't know about that myself, okay But I'm I'm just gonna leave it there because y'all I'm just Just over it not over I'm just like it's whatever so somebody in the chat was like saying you mean the child mother is not black It's definitely giving Darius ex-wife vibes. He's hiding that I You're ex-wife like I You have a senior child. You I mean I'm sorry. I'm just I'm I'm dead. I'm about to go into a different I don't want to go down the rabbit hole. I don't know where you see it. I'm pretty sure it's my city Clifty He's probably gonna come out and show a picture of him and baby together at somewhere I say my baby and my brother has seen a baby

2:29:20We're gonna be having the update very very soon But the the thing about it was all these people that are on the show and I feel like we kind of What most of you too when a little hard today, but like I'd like Shad said we've been pretty chill This whole entire season like you know and then my chat also went a little hard So I'm for sure as people can probably be offended by some things that were said here and I do understand You sure personal rights to feel the way you feel this pray for us But when you go when you go on TV And I've said there's a hundred thousand times When you go on TV And you you know, I'm saying Put yourself out there. This is what happens Exactly when you wear other people's pets around your neck. I mean, what do you expect we're gonna comment That's all I'm saying. Yeah, that's it And I know people probably gonna be like I don't give a shit whatever, but I'm just I'm just telling you That's what happened when you go on TV and people are gonna say Stuff about you, you know, you put yourself out there whether you close your hair or whatever

2:30:21It doesn't matter. You think I don't get I've gotten a lot over the year being just owner It's a youtuber. I can't imagine going on a whole TV show. You know, I'm saying I just I can't imagine Anyway, y'all I don't have anything else To add to this um, please go check out the video. I posted talking about Dominique And Lauren is on my channel right now. Please go watch it It was a I mean, I took my time talking about it. I wanted to break down That whole scenario the whole boy is my situation, which I didn't like and so please go check it out, okay All right, any final thoughts miss Eric. Hey, where you got going on your channel? Um, I will be doing I will be dropping a love during a lackup review and um, I think we'll see I might even do something on the quarry Hoke um situation. So what's that situation? I am. I'm gonna cover that. Wait hold on. What else happened? Hold on hold on What happened that missed up there? I have a comedy channel, too. So you know, I I mean nothing major

2:31:21I mean, you know, the stuff that uh You know, this video has leaked recently of you know, when he hit that woman in the face like I don't know Can't you send me that because I covered that because you know, I had the comedy channel because I you know Um, I Want to say I think maybe TMZ dropped it now Oh my god dropping now and you know this whole thing with Anton Dan So it's gone back and forth like a couple of times. Okay, the latest thing is You know the TMZ actually a video of when he hit her and so and and people are saying it doesn't match what he said Okay, I'm not sure if it matches or not, but yeah, so anyway, but you know So I might go down that rabbit hole, but those are the things I'll be doing so come on down So I'm gonna talk about that. It's gonna be on my comedy channel because you know that you know I interviewed his best friend Dawn Nail Rollins. I interviewed extra comedians. I also interviewed Damien Williams the one that just her layers was who forgot about him like yeah, I don't know my pool

2:32:21You don't understand I'll be ready to live over here, but it's my pool reaches out so far And so I'm gonna cover because I know that him and Tasha K had a situation and I believe she's interviewing the woman That got whatever Yeah, but I feel like It's interesting that's coming up now because it came up before so I'm like, you know So it's interesting that because of the viralness of Anton Daniels now all of a sudden this whole situation is being revived because No, it's the week of the video was settled or you know, it wasn't settled It was what I heard it wasn't settled and that he was what he kept on saying wait for the video to come out And I knew gonna be a while, but I gotta go back and get into that because I got covered there Yeah, okay, thank you tell me that girl. I gotta look at that. I don't know what you guys are talking about It's a lot going on I have a I have a video that almost went viral on my channel because I'm on my comedy channel Y'all can find me on commission reviews. It's kind of got the name of thing, but I have somebody Shandles and shit, but I have a comedy channel where I talk about

2:33:24comedians and I interview comedians and it's on that channel, but I put the interviews on this channel too I'll check it out, but The thing about it out legit and if you do comedians who's gotten to it with him like down there Rollins and I he talked about Cory Hogan's And indirectly he did talking about him on my channel, but he didn't say his name It was just he talked about pd2 the lot, but anyway, yes, I'm sorry. So y'all go follow Erica She's on YouTube as well. Please go follow her chaz has something coming up. He's mentioned it earlier But it has not happened yet, but you should be on somebody TV screen because he's crazy And they go right I'm right. Yalle with that being says commission reviews. No outro no intro today I'm just gonna get out of here. I love y'all down, let's commission reviews of community reality TV of all Reality, TV including ready to load point play period bye