Purity Culture... Again (Because it's that bad!)

We’re back with Jessica Brazzeal of The Haven Wellness Center for her third visit! We heard from so many of you after our episode on purity culture we knew had to expand the conversation! If you missed our previous episode on purity culture start here.

We discuss how purity culture affected us individually and collectively, the orgasm gap that exists in the evangelical world, resources and more. We also dive into the etymology of the word pastor. What is at the root of the word and how we can tell the difference between someone whose words and behaviors are actually pastoral versus a bully with a pulpit.  We expand more on Josh Howerton (of Lakepointe Church in Rockwall, TX) and male pastors like him who use fear, shame, and blame to control. If you’ve been affected by purity culture and want to connect, find us on Instagram. 
Resources

• Sex with Emily 
• Erica Smith Sex Ed 
• Come as You Are by: Emily Nagoski
• Esther perel - where should we begin
• Dr. laura anderson

00:00 Introduction
00:43 The Impact of Purity Culture
04:00 Personal Experiences with Purity Culture
09:47 The Role of Pastors in Purity Culture
12:31 The Etymology of 'Pastor'
16:08 Platforming Abusive Leaders
21:09 Patriarchal Norms in Religion
24:01 Challenging Patriarchal Structures
24:32 Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations
31:47 Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity
39:31 The Power of Authentic Friendships