Pivoting Beyond Your Dream Job (EP 1043)

Melanie Curtis joins me to talk about pivoting careers, building a coaching and speaking business, and choosing family, boundaries, and fun over the nonstop hustle grind.

We start with Melanie’s shift from investment banking into pro skydiving, then from skydiving into coaching, driven by a subtle realization that her “dream job” still wasn’t the whole story. She unpacks the decision to lean into life coaching when it wasn’t cool, how she navigated the fear of it being a scam, and what it took to trust that quiet sense of calling anyway.

From there, we get personal about missed flights to family events, the danger of filling your calendar with only client work, and the moment she decided she couldn’t outrun future regret. Melanie outlines how a coaching relationship starts with business problems and quickly hits deeper human patterns, why she pushes for year-long masterminds with real structure, and how she uses humor and her “comedy content creator” side to keep the pressure of entrepreneurship from boiling over. We close with her real-time experience of building a keynote speaking practice: long prospecting cycles, thousands of emails, warm intros that actually convert, and a clear stance on why discipline must sit alongside boundaries, rest, recovery, and connection if you want to stay in the game.

=== Chapters

• 00:24 Coaching Beyond Skydiving
• 06:32 Family Over Hustle
• 11:19 Coaching Deepens Personal
• 14:22 Commitment Behind Coaching
• 15:47 Peer Groups vs Masterminds
• 19:41 Fun Fuels Serious Work
• 24:48 Biggest Lesson in Pivoting
• 25:41 Speaking Becomes the Focus
• 31:02 Rejecting the Hustle Myth
• 33:06 Wrapping Up and Contacts

=== Guest: Melanie Curtis, Melanie Curtis Coaching / Speaking

• Website: https://melaniecurtis.com
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melaniecurtis11/

=== Companies / Vendors / Products / Books

• How to Fly Book: https://amzn.to/4vk3A9T
• How to Fly Challenge: https://go.melaniecurtis.com/howtoflychallenge
• Gratitude Challenge: https://go.melaniecurtis.com/gratitude-challenge
• Build or Rebuild Your Bucket List: https://go.melaniecurtis.com/build-your-bucket-list
• ACES Mastermind: https://acesmastermind.com/
• MelanieCurtis11 (Instagram handle): https://www.instagram.com/melaniecurtis11
• Spinal Tap (film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088258
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