Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It

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He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open.

Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on.

In this episode:

• What pegging is — and what it isn't
• Why wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexuality
• The prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing out
• What women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, erotically
• How to have the conversation with your partner without killing the mood
• A step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to do
• Why men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers

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