Overcoming Perfectionism and People-Pleasing | Maggie Maris

In this episode, Maggie Maris, a mental wellness and positivity expert, discusses her transformational journey from grappling with learning difficulties, self-doubt, and perfectionism to ultimately finding her path to happiness. Maggie shares her personal experiences that shaped her life, offering insights that are both heartfelt and inspirational. Major Takeaways: Learning Difficulties and the Pitfalls of Perfectionism: Maggie talks about her struggles in school due to undiagnosed dyslexia and ADHD, which led to feelings of inadequacy. This resulted in a harmful pattern of perfectionism and people-pleasing as she constantly sought external validation. The Descent into Depression: A combination of personal struggles, challenging childbirth, the death of her father, and the pressures of planning a perfect wedding led Maggie into a severe depression. She discusses the impact of suppressing her feelings and the significance of sharing her experiences. The Journey to Self-Discovery and Recovery: Maggie shares her brave decision to stop her medication, marking a turning point in her life. Despite the struggles, her journey is a testament to resilience, growth, and the pursuit of happiness. Meet Maggie Maris – a mental wellness and positivity expert in the Netherlands. After years of battling depression and burnout, she embarked on a transformative journey that led her to the realization that our thoughts dictate our emotions. She shares her inspiration and practical tools in her book, MY JOURNAL: By Finding Yourself, You Find Your Happiness. https://en.maggiesway.nl/links Resources: To listen in on more conversations about pivotal moments that changed lives forever, subscribe to "The Life Shift" on Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate the show 5 stars and leave a review! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Access ad-free episodes released two days early: https://patreon.com/thelifeshiftpodcast Subscribe to The Life Shift Newsletter: https://www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com/newsletter/ The Life Shift was just named one of the top 60 life-changing podcasts by FeedSpot: https://podcast.feedspot.com/life_changing_podcasts/ Connect with me: Instagram: www.instagram.com/thelifeshiftpodcast Facebook: www.facebook.com/thelifeshiftpodcast YouTube: https://bit.ly/thelifeshift_youtube Twitter: www.twitter.com/thelifeshiftpod LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thelifeshiftpodcast Website: www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com Mentioned in this episode: Thank you to Ear Worthy - Ear Worthy Independent Podcast Awards https://podnews.net/press-release/ear-worthy-awards-2024 This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices