Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture

What is the difference between outgrowing porn and purity culture? In this replay from The Porn Free Man Conference, you'll experience dramatic examples of what these two approaches look like, sound like, and feel like when you are...

1. Reaching out to a friend after watching porn (failure vs. feedback)
2. Sharing vulnerable parts of your story (harsh and critical vs. gentle and kind)
3. Checking in with your small group (lots of accountability vs. lots of attunement)
4. Feeling the urge to watch porn (battle our sexuality vs. befriend our sexuality)
5. Being sexually attracted to someone (fear and shame vs. curiosity and compassion)
6. Celebrating 6 months without porn (behavior modification vs. becoming mature)

Drew Boa, Doug Carpenter, Henry Brown, and Jordan Castille are all members of the Husband Material Leadership Team.

Related episodes:

• How To Outgrow Porn (Intro To HMA)
• Experience Healing Through Psychodrama
• How To Reframe A Porn Relapse

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