
societySep 7, 202515:17pending
ON HEARTBREAK... With Alain de Botton and Jay Shetty
About this episode
Welcome to this brand-new concept for How to Fail – where I dive into the back catalogue of the How to Fail archives, highlighting specific themes each week to bring you bitesize takeaways! Hopefully these episodes can bring some clarity on similar issues you’re facing or great stories that you might find comfort from.
This week we’re looking at heartbreak. You’ll hear a highlight from my conversation with philosopher Alain de Botton, originally released in October 2019, who shares wise and insightful advice on how to process and understand heartbreak.
Secondly, we hear from Jay Shetty, whose episode originally broadcast in May 2023, and gives incredibly validating advice and support for anyone who might have experienced heartbreak of any kind. I hope that this episode will be a beacon of light to anyone who has been or is currently going through this!
Listen to Alain de Botton’s full episode of How to Fail here: https://link.chtbl.com/RBaS4VUy
Listen to Jay Shetty’s full episode of How to Fail here: https://link.chtbl.com/-nR18lfT
🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS:
Jay Shetty’s book – 8 Rules of Love www.8rulesoflove.com
Elizabeth’s upcoming one-off show at Cadogan Hall on 21 Sep for her new novel One of Us: https://www.fane.co.uk/elizabeth-day
Elizabeth’s Substack: https://theelizabethday.substack.com/
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