Dirty Little Secret:“Sugar Uncle or Financial Infidelity?

0:00Get it off your chest. We promise you'll feel better. Welcome to the 30 little secret. Mixed 102.9, bill of the kid Candice Lopez, producer Poo, a lot of controversy about this dirty little secret. Uh, you need to judge, though, because if you got one, eight, three, three, seven, eight, seven, a one, two, nine, bring it. Go ahead. All right. Um, I know, I already know how this is going to sound. Okay. Let me just say it up front. All right, right, right, right to begin it. I am not cheating. Uh, good. All right. We'll be the judge of that. What are you doing then? If you're not cheating, what do you, what do you even, you're running some kind of fine line? If you're telling, if you're saying that disclaimer, what's going on? Because I don't think it's something that my wife would would be too thrilled about. So I got this thing, you know, um, that I kind of never told her about. I kind of go to a couple of, uh, let's just call them the restaurants. Let's call them the restaurants. Yeah. I'm not maybe what you say, do you say breast runs?

1:02The restaurants. Oh my god. Like, like Twin Peaks. That is such an odd term. Hooters. Okay. Okay. I'll let you guys borrow. You can borrow. You can't have it. Okay. So you go to like, uh, Hooters, Twin Peaks. I don't know what, Rowdy Cowboy where the main one I go to is it's in great mind. I'll just say that. It's in great vine. Oh, that's Rowdy Cowboy. Yeah, that's definitely Rowdy Cowboy. Anyway, Rowdy Cowboy. Rowdy Cowboy. I don't, I don't know. I don't know. Okay. No, Rowdy Cowboy is a restaurant, but it's girls. It's basically like, um, yeah, a Hooters vibe. Yeah. But like country theme. But exactly butts. A lot of butts. Yeah. This is, uh, oh, backside focus. No, no, no, no, they're just wearing like little country girl outfits. Yeah. Okay. Like Dallas Cowboy cheerleader shorts. A little shorter. Either way, um, I, I'm not saying that's where you go, but I think I don't

2:03know if there's more in great vine. Either way, what are you doing? You go there? That's not cheating. Is it? No. I go in there pretty often. I start seeing like the same girls, we, we talk, um, you know, I get to know them a little and there's like, you know, there's a couple of them that I know. So they're just trying to, you know, get the college, you know, working doubles, stretching about bills. So you just hear all these stories like enough times. You kind of feel sorry for them. You know, you, you, you, you feel where they coming from. So yeah, um, you should see Candace's face. Candace's face like, should we feel sorry for him? Yeah. Okay. So go ahead. Yeah. And, and, and, you know, every now and then, or every once in a while, I, I help out, you know, nothing too crazy. But, you know, I'm not, I, I'm not, I hear funding someone's entire life or anything. But, you know, I might cover like a phone bill, uh, help with a little, a couple hundred here. Hold on. Hold on. Now it's getting interesting. Listen, that, that, that, that struggling, that, you know, you

3:05hear the just struggling and just, just to make a little, you know, just to make some things a little easier, I'll throw a little bit here and there. And just before you say it, because I know what you're thinking, there's nothing going on. There's no exchanging here. Okay. Uh, so like, like one of them, like, hold on, Candace, hold on. One of them, I don't think, I don't, I don't have a phone number. But, you know, we don't hang out outside the restaurant. So you don't, certain like that. So it's nothing, it's nothing like that. But you're giving them a couple hundred. But you're giving them money to pay bills. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, because I mean, you're going up for a while. You start talking to people and, you know, you're kind of seeing them as, you know, a really good associate or whatever. Like you get to know them, you get to know their life story, and you just want to help them out. Like, you know, if you, if you saw the same person all the time and they were struggling, you, you feel a little, you know, a little obligated to help out if you could. So sir, what you're saying is you're a humanitarian. Yeah. I mean, giving back to the people. Yeah. I have done this before. But, well, yeah. So I mean, a couple of years after

4:11Enzel was born, we had a waitress who was pregnant. Um, and so we just gave her a certain amount. No, not who there's not at a brosteron. Okay. Just a regular waitress that you know. Yeah. No, we didn't know her, but she was really like ready to pop. Yeah. And it was Eric's idea, like, what if we just gave her like a certain amount of money and we just did and we just said, like, we were new-ish parents, like, we get it. Good luck. Very sweet. I hope everything is well. Yeah. And we've done it a couple of times if we happen to have like a pregnant server. Okay. Well, I think that's sweet. That's nice. But we did it together. Together. The vibe is a little bit different in this situation because this is a restaurant. Maybe it's focused on more than chicken wings. Yeah. Right. And I'm not saying you're not a good guy, sir, but the optics don't look good. No. I hear you, but they see me as a big brother, kind of uncle figure. That's what I'm saying. It's not, it's nothing weird, like, like, what

5:12you guys are thinking. I mean, but I also know my wife, she knows she wouldn't see it that way. Like to her, it would be why are you giving the money to young hot waitresses? And that's it. Like, well, of course, I get it. It sounds bad. I get it. But in my head, it's just trying to do something nice for you know, people who are working hard and they're having a tough time. I, I personally don't think there's a problem with it. And you're not going to tell, you're not going to tell your wife. I'm, I'm definitely zero chance not telling her. I'm not telling her. No. Okay. So you're financially cheating. Candace, let me ask you this. Yes. Yes. If your husband was doing this and it was completely innocent, like, I'm telling you, no checks and no meeting up, nothing like that, would you still be mad? Yes. I am not telling her. Zero stop telling her. Let me, you know, I love my money scenarios. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Billy. Lots of cases where we want to help people out. What is fortunate?

6:13What if you happen to like, I don't know what the male equivalent of, I wish there was a male equivalent of a, of a rowdy cowboy or a breastron. Yeah. Right. Like, I want what they call that. I don't know. Never really thought about it. But there's not. Oh, there used to be. Yeah, there used to be. What was that place called? Telly Wackers. Telly Wackers. Telly Wackers. Yeah. How does Poo know this? I used to pass mine. And it was the equivalent, like, it was a guy. It was like the Hooters for dudes. No. Yeah. It was like dudes there and girls would go in there all the time. It was called one again. Telly Wackers. Now, our place needs to serve like green smoothies and matcha. First of all, I can, is it still there? No, it's not. How did Telly Wackers go on a business? How do they stay in business? All right. Let me ask you this, sir. Let's say you just happen to really like the wings at Telly Wackers. And you're like, you know what? I feel bad for

7:13this guy, Mr. Telly Wacker. He's struggling working doubles. I want to give him a few hundred bucks. Would you, what I'm saying is if this wasn't a hot young attractive woman, would you still be such a good humanitarian? I mean, I wouldn't, I wouldn't be in there in the first place, but that's not a question for me. That's a question for Candace. Okay. Candace would be going to Telly Wackers. Telly Wackers would not be my first choice for mine. I want to open up Telly Wackers. Why can't sustain? I want to re-open matcha and more. A munch and more and had what a bunch of dudes and thongs. Yeah. Would you go? Now you're just talking about your fantasies. No. Both pies and breads. Much of it. Both pies and breads. I'm going to ask the ladies out there if they consider this cheating and we'll see what happens.

8:14Okay. All right. Cool. All right, sir. Thank you. And thank you for your charity work. Thank you for your service.