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Freight Rail does more than move goods. It drives America's economy. Every dollar invested generates another $2.50 in economic activity, spurring growth from farms to factories. And here's the best part. Freight Railroads fund their own infrastructure, saving taxpayers' billions while powering the economy forward, from reducing highway congestion to delivering goods safely and efficiently. Freight Rail keeps America moving. Learn more at AARC.org slash America's engine. Truthfully, a man I believe is being able to do the things that are hard or do things you don't

want to do because you're supposed to do them. I think that's what a man's always been. A man is supposed to be strong. He needs to be strong, so he has to become strong. That's his job. A man is supposed to be brave. It's not that you can't feel fear. It's that you have to be brave. Oh, an attacker's here. I'm afraid, but I'm a man. So I will go and engage the attacker. It is my job. And now we're teaching men, you don't have to do what you don't feel like doing. You can do what you do feel like doing. The thing that people struggle with most, especially men, is that we only learn lessons to hard way. That's the problem. You want to be good at learning lessons to easy way, which is really paying attention and making sure the feedback you're receiving. You need to be perceptive to it so that it doesn't have to be so hard hitting. You need to be the kind of person who goes out for a drive and his wheels slide a bit and he slows down. But what people typically do is they go out for a drive. They're wheels slide a little bit. They continue and then they crash. And then they realize I should have slowed down once they hit a tree. They only learn the hard way.

But when they got the easy little bits of feedback, they didn't want to pay attention to them because it was easy and they thought they'd go all the way with it. And it's the same with a relationship and the same with everything else. There's little bits of feedback. You go, ah, okay, this is going to be a problem later on if I continue. But they ignore that part. They wait for all to blow up and go wrong. And then they learn. So men only learn the hard way. And the reason they're sitting at home, even if they don't admit to these ailments, wondering why they're all so unhappy all the time is because you're fighting an internal battle. Your monologue is different in your mind from what your spirit truly wants. You want to be respected. You want to be strong. You want to stand up for what you know is right. You want to be a man and you're just too afraid to engage the enemy. So you're going to self-destruct. You're going to turn on yourself. There's a fire inside of you. There's a fire inside of absolutely every man. You need to direct it at your enemy into your very best to destroy him or it's going to burn inside of you and eat you alive. You have to make a choice. The cowardice that you feel that prevents you from engaging the enemy is your biggest, is the biggest betrayal because now you're just engaging yourself. The battle's certain either way. So I strongly recommend you find who the enemy is and direct your efforts towards their destruction

as opposed to sitting there allowing yourself to self-immolate. Your future is the result of your daily actions. You're defined by what you do today. Lazy now, lose or later, get to work. Now, what have you done today? Which is going to positively affect the outcome of your future. When have you sat and imagined your dream life? When have you self-analysed and self-reflected and tried to work out where you've gone wrong to end up such a mediocre specimen of man? Why can't you go down and buy? Why can't you go down to the dealer and buy a brand new Lamborghini right now? Why not? Is it a lack of money? Is it a lack of what is it? Is it only money? Are you afraid if you buy when you get robbed? What is stopping you? Have you even thought about any of these things? Has it even crossed your mind? It's extremely important, gentlemen, that you understand the chess board and understand exactly where you are as you can make changes. As a man, you need to have

struggle in your life. You know, want you guys to actually sit and think, what struggle are you going through daily? What struggle are you undertaking? What struggle are you trying to overcome? Because you should make a list of them. I can know for myself every single day I wake up and I train physically. Every single day I have to go through X amount of physical pain when my day begins. That is a struggle that must be completed. That I must try and keep my massive empire online. See my children, take care of everybody. They're struggle involved. My life is difficult. Difficult lives are fulfilling because we used to have to hunt and fish and go out there and go through difficulty to survive. And when I look at men who are physical specimens, I think everyone naturally does this, but I'm going to openly say it. I respect them differently than I look at men who aren't. I have a different level of respect for them because they show me they have discipline. They show me they have motivation. They show me they're capable of doing difficult and hard things. Those are the kind of people I trust. They're not afraid of struggle. They're problem solvers. People who train are problem solvers and you need to become one and you need to become very, very adept at solving problems pretty quickly. Do not understand how intimidating that is when they look at a group of people and they all look like superheroes and they can tell

they're all disciplined, all hardworking, all dedicated, all physically strong. The struggle is what's beautiful about it. That's the most important thing. That's what you have to understand. First, you want to become as strong as physically possible. So it would be as strong as physically possible. Next, you want to try and make as much money as possible. Not even necessarily for the money, although money is extremely important because that allows you to take care of yourself. We talked about this before, but there's the challenge involved and solving that challenge is going to make you feel more satisfied as a human. Happiness comes from success and making money as success. You should try and make people around you smile and be happy. You should try and encourage positivity around you. You should be the kind of person that no one can really complain about their struggles around because they know that you're the person who's going to be like, why are you complaining when you could just simply fix it? You and your friends need to have friendly competition all times. Now, you need to meet your friends and you need to have banter and competition around things that matter. Who's got the most money? Who's worked hardest? Who's discovered XYZ? Crypto? Stock? New way of generating income? Who's trained that day?

Who has the most children? Put some actual competitions together that matter and start competing and being around people because you are the sum of the five people you spend the most time with. Everybody knows this. So why do you get some genuine metrics that will improve your life? You won't have time to stand around cooking meals if your friends with somebody who works out for three hours a day. For example, because you're going to need to find three hours a day to train to beat him, which means you're going to have to just eat that rotisserie chicken as you do squats like a man should. Live with men you're in competition with. This is ultra important because you can measure yourself against your circle. Get your act together, get some genuine metrics, things that matter, and once they're all put together, you're going to live in a naturally competitive environment, which is going to increase your testosterone level. This can prevent you from doing a lot of dumb shit. And the competition one's great, you know, because you can apply it to everything. I think that getting rich when you're young as a man is probably one of the worst things I can have. You don't want to get rich to your late 20s. You want to spend all your 20s broke. Broken grinding. Broke, grinding, training. If I had money at 1819, I would have skipped so many

experiences and so many hard lessons. I'd be a fraction of the man I am today. So I don't like the idea of kids just gambling and getting lucky. Now that's the worst thing that can happen to a young man. He's skipping all the struggle. All the pain and suffering. He's going to attempt to skip with money. He's going to end up suffering more in the end, but he's going to just lose, lose, lose. I often see that when I speak to people who are too comfortable, they end up being unhappy. Yeah. You can't entertain yourself to happiness. You must earn happiness. You must climb them out when you must struggle yourself to happiness. That's extremely important. There must be physical, mental, social, creative, some kind of spiritual struggle. And those things being satisfied is what's going to satisfy you. It's like Bitcoin. Bitcoin is a mathematical equation. You solve the equation you get at Bitcoin. Life is very much the same. There are struggles, there's difficulties. Would you have undertaken? Would you have adopted to try and complete? And when you finish those things, then you get satisfaction as a reward. That's the Bitcoin. The only other alternative to that to feel good is hedonism. And that's not going to satisfy you for very long. It's also going to destroy

your life. So it's extremely important. Masculine competition is fun. I think what's fun as a man is being the best at anything, right? So I live in a very masculine environment because masculine competition drives you forward. We all work together. We're all working side of the company and we're very successful. But yeah, I don't I don't really know what's fun anymore. I feel like I just feel like nothing's really fun anymore besides working hard. Or you didn't activity, which is so adrenaline-filled that it distracts you, which is why I love driving fast cars and fighting because the only time I'm not thinking about work. Yeah, so I'm happy just to get my work done and maybe I'm starting to get old after all. I'm 37. I'm getting old. I see my kids. I do my emails. I train hard. Maybe go for a drive for the car. Maybe get a coffee. That's it. Oh, he doesn't go to the gym because of XYZ or he feels down. That's fine, but he needs to go to the gym. So we can talk about all the reasons he doesn't go for the work forever. That's a very long life,

long conversation, but he needs to go. So we've removed the needs and we've removed the hard facts of the duty and the honor and the commitment and we've replaced all with this subjectiveness and there's nothing more subjective than feelings. How I feel inside on a day I say I'm happy might be the exact same way someone feels inside on the day they say they're sad because their expectation might be higher for happy because they only think they're happy when they're running around laughing like a child. I don't really give a shit how the men I know feel because they have things they need to do and as long as they're going to do them like they're supposed to do them I don't really care that much and if they were to come to me and say they feel down about something and they had a good reason I wouldn't be insensitive that's fine but we're talking about a death of a family member or something and we're talking about one or two days until you just get back to life you have things to do if you're injecting struggle and that struggle solving those problems lead to a positive place once you become addicted to it you're going to become a machine of monumental achievement there are some very simple basic things you can do weight training chess having debates trying your very best

to take care of your mother retire her make sure that you're people who you love are taking care of you need goals and resistance and something to fight against to live well because the distance between pain and joy is what we experience if you only have joy all of the time and no pain you are not going to be happy you don't need fun fun is the vector from which Satan operates every time you look at something which is fun it's all just hedonistic there's no money to be made you don't retire your mother you don't help the world you don't give to chair you don't become stronger freight rail does more than move goods it drives America's economy every dollar invested generates another two dollars and fifty cents in economic activity spurring growth from farms to factories and here's the best part freight railroads fund their own infrastructure saving taxpayers billions while powering the economy forward from reducing highway congestion to delivering goods safely and efficiently freight rail keeps America moving learn more at ar.org

slash America's engine life with kids is nonstop snacks on the counter fingerprints everywhere toys you swear you just clean that's why lice all is a go-to proven disinfection that kills 99.9 percent of viruses and bacteria on surfaces and now a clean that smells great like lavender lice all disinfectant wipes handle everyday services the all-purpose cleaner tackles kitchens and bathrooms and the power toilet bowl cleaner disinfects the brush and bowl for two and one disinfection because when you're juggling everything cleaning has to keep up don't just clean lice all clean you don't become wires or you don't learn anything experiences are unique jayle was a unique experience bunch of fun unique life's not about fun as a man life is about doing the right thing because it must be done now there are some things that are fun which can be earned and there are some things which are fun that you could do which perhaps involve skill driving a supercar around a racetrack is fun it involves skill you have to be good at what you do cool but a lot of this fun that is easily accessible to everyone because not everybody can get a Ferrari on a closed racetrack i can you can't because you're poor you do not need fun until you've already reached

the highest possible echelon so this whole idea that you need fun in your life you don't what you need is purpose you need discipline you need hard work you need things to do which are going to benefit you and others around you you need duty you need obligations and you need performance metrics you need people around you who are going to hold you accountable you're nobody's you're not important nobody knows who you are you're not physically strong you're not financially wealthy you have bigger concerns your obsession with fun is holding you back these things you think are fun aren't fun action solves all things time solves all things god solves all things and to sit around and be obsessed with feelings is highly feminine i don't like that energy around me i feel sad i don't cry just get on with life this is this is the adult mentality so i'm not sure this feelings don't cross my mind if that makes sense they don't cross my mind because they don't affect my day so it doesn't change anything so i have other things to think about people are afraid of accepting there's a problem because then they know they have a

responsibility and they don't want to do anything one because they're lazy and two because they're afraid they might lose so they'd rather pretend there's no problem at all and i think i often say to people in a lot of my videos about a lot of other subjects that it's not always winning in the losing it's it's defying in the first place and there's plenty of men in history you remember who ended up losing in the end Napoleon for example who still fought which is why they mattered is not if you're only gonna fight when you're guaranteed to win the no bravery is required and you have to fight so that you can look back on your life and feel happy that you tried to do something when you knew it was going on before it was too late forget about the winning and losing for now focus on the fight you must wait for the moment when the opponents mind is scattered and striked without hesitation if you do not overcome your tendency to give up so easily your life will lead to nothing objectify your demons you control them instead of them controlling you fear is a reaction courage is a decision you have to train your mind to be stronger than your emotions especially your impulses or else you're going to lose yourself you will only be found by

the devil once you are lost and he will lead you to hell most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by men who kept fighting when there seemed to be no hope at all that's a good slogan for life you should wake up look in the mirror and say suddenly the champion returns with initiative and vengeance as a man there is no easy life your life is not about being easy your life is not about being happy their life is always going to be difficult all of the pain you feel all of the sadness you feel you're supposed to feel as a man and you have two effective binary choices you either go through the suffering and go through the trauma and go through the hardship it takes to be a man of value or you suffer eternity as a nobody there's two ways to suffer you either suffer coming somebody or you suffer as a perpetual and forever nobody i think if you take these approaches if you take the approach of manifesting what you want so you're constantly motivated and understanding all the bad things that happened to you were just a lesson in one day you're going to get over it it's pretty easy to be a happy contented balanced person i don't think there's any serious magic to happiness i think it's a choice and it's pretty easy to do but i think the

unhappiest people in the world don't have any struggle at all you often find that people who are struggling but know exactly what they're supposed to do if they're getting up every day and they're grinding and they're working hard and they don't have what they want yet but they believe they're going to get it and they're trying their very best they're dedicating themselves they're very happy perhaps the people who are born with a trust fund and unlimited money and have no struggles in their life and they have no objectives to try and conquer are truly the miserable ones perhaps were built for struggle perhaps the human mind and soul and spirit is built to struggle perhaps were built to suffer i don't mean as a man i'm happiest when i suffer why did the emperor as we discuss earlier on constantly trying to expand their empires because they want to struggle they want a difficulty would you play a video game if it was easy if you could never die i mean cheats get boring pretty quick you play it because it's hard that's the whole point of it you're supposed to struggle with it you're supposed to suffer with it so i think that a lot of people confuse these things and they sit and say ah this is merely making me unhappy or you know if i didn't have any if i woke up and everything was just perfect that'd be great for a few weeks but if you just wake up and nothing ever goes wrong i think that'd be quite depressing in its own way

that's the beauty of life is up in the down because there's no light without art this is actually why people are addicted to video games young men are addicted to video games because they mimics virtually what they ought to be doing in the real world yeah effort and to upgrade their character to become a better version of themselves so they can do better things and they can previously do and explore new areas of the map you understand this in video games and you do it in video games because it's very interesting to do however you don't want to do it in the real world but in the real world it's so much more rewarding and i actually going to argue that we're living in one of the final periods where that's true i'd say in a few generations who you are and who your physical body is may not matter nearly as much no but it does matter today a lot exactly so that's why you should enjoy it while you can i believe you live stretch move improve your body try and train MMA learn how to fight get stronger get bigger muscles it's a fast track to self-discipline which will carry over into all other endeavors and i would argue that is nearly impossible in fact how many people can say the gym save their life how many people do you know where depressed start

training gone fantastic shape and weren't depressed anymore it is very easy to low hanging fruit is your body and upgrading your body that is the easiest struggle which is never going to back fire on you and never going to be a negative towards any other facet of your life if i say something i stick to it i believe that your word is your bond and you should stick to everything you say so for me the simplest life hack is to make sure i never see myself as a liar by say something i'm going to do it so if i say i'm going to run a marathon i now have the energy to run marathon because i don't want to bring my word to myself which the hack that is i don't need the energy to run the marathon i need the energy to sail run a marathon which is a lot less but once i've said it i have to do it so if i look at something i don't want to do it i think that looks too hard to do i'll tell Tristan or i'll tell someone close to me i'm going to do it so now i have to do it just be brutally honest with yourself all the time otherwise you're not able to make the correct move on the chessboard if you think you're better than you are or worse than you are you're going to make mistakes you need to know exactly where you are most of you

are not actively building a future you're not actively trying to build the dream life that you want to have and then you expect it to just appear do you know why because when you were born in the middle your parents put food in the fridge it just appeared the heating was just on because it was cold outside we knew you never had that problem that's why people at the bottom we understand intricately we understand this viscerally we understand that nothing is going to come to us unless we go out there and get it ourselves and once you have that you have endless motivation for all things that is extremely important you have to train a fire a boxer do you want somebody who has poor nutrition and poor sleep but endless fire inside of them someone poor to turn them into Muhammad Ali or do you want somebody with a good bed and good food but lacks fire which one do things to become a champion which boxers have become champion historically across time were they rich men were they from middle class incomes or were they from the ghetto were they

from the bottom it is all a test it's all a test you watch me because I perform flawlessly and I'm not afraid to pay the price you'd be up here with me if you were brave when I say brave and this is a genuine question when is the last time you made a brave decision when's the last time you took a brave route and did a brave thing and I want you to actually take a few seconds and ask yourself that question and answer it bravery is a muscle like every other one that must be flexed and used to grow bravery is extremely important and Bitcoin is a super easy answer what's the worst that can happen you lose your money do you think people like us were afraid to buy crypto once we worked it out once we were told about Bitcoin at eight hundred dollars do you think we were afraid to buy it because we might lose money do you not understand people like us don't give a fuck that's how we end up here oh you're lacking hunger you're scared to be brave you're lazy I don't want to put my six thousand dollars into Bitcoin I might lose it because you lack bravery

so if you've done nothing brave that you can mention instantly off the top of your head then what you need to do is something brave quickly I'm not quitting that's called handing the price to somebody else there are certain and there are a certain number of prizes in the universe there are stars that exist they're just out there there's prizes so the people at the bottom have something that you don't have it's hunger you need to now this is the actionable guys you need to cultivate a lifestyle which is going to endlessly give you fire inside of your heart so that you never struggle with motivation ever again you need to cultivate that with your social circle so you need to be around motivated hungry men you need to cultivate it with the decisions you make the reason you lose is because you've been programmed to lose by all of your experiences throughout life winners of program loses a program I was programmed to be a winner in any scenario because I was raised in a very specific way you were not so we're going to start at the

absolute beginning of why you've ended up a loop freight rail does more than move goods it drives America's economy every dollar invested generates another two dollars and fifty cents in economic activity spurring growth from farms to factories and here's the best part freight railroads fund their own infrastructure saving taxpayers billions while powering the economy forward from reducing highway congestion to delivering goods safely and efficiently freight rail keeps America moving learn more at ar.org slash America's engine you know what I could really go for right now literally anything that comes in a McDonald's carton rapper or bag or a McDonald's cup yes any of those items you do it we've got your cravings covered now stop in for the flaky filet of fish the crispy snack wrap or a large fries for just $2.99 limited time only price and participation may vary cannot be combined with any other offer because most of you never

self reflect your dummies who never look in the mirror and say how did I end up where I am why am I the person I am why do I believe the things I believe you don't self analyze so you don't understand how your own mind works which means you don't understand why you are where you are because before you make a move on the chess board you need to analyze your position by analyzing the board the smartest thing you can do is to try and take your strengths and play them off against your weaknesses so if you're poor you have hunger and motivation what you have to do is fix the things you don't have you need to get around rich people you need to get a good network of people you can trust to have a lot of money you need to find a teacher who's prepared to teach you how money really works it's the first thing the second thing and your biggest problem to fix is your monumental laziness and you have to understand that you innately are lazy you innately lack hunger and fire you're innately afraid you're a coward you lack the balls it takes in many scenarios to get rich or die try it that's the truth people in the ghetto already have the fire those

poor those brothers already have fire they're already prepared to do anything it takes you need to ignite the fire inside of you you need to make sure there's something inside of you is going to get you motivated like a poor person's hunger because you've never felt it before because the poor don't need motivation the poor understand what it's like to be taken advantage of and the poor understand what happens when you have no money and no food you don't you're not poor you have food in your fridge so how do you find happiness happiness is in struggle the struggle and the size of the struggle you're facing along with how important it is and how important you feel it is deep in your heart is directly correlated to how successful and how happy you're going to feel all of the time struggle is extremely important for a man you should be looking to inject struggle into your life permanently for a man your contentment will come from your purpose and it will come from your competence and it will come from succeeding objectives it will come from completing difficult things that other people cannot complete it will never come from the easily accessible

hedonism which you have confused for fun if everybody can do it you shouldn't want to do it if everybody can go to that concert you shouldn't want to go if everybody can go to that club you shouldn't want to go but you should only want to do things others can't do the only fun I have is doing things I know you're not allowed to do so you need to sit there and go all right I'm being asked to do something fun who else can do this and if the answer is everybody stop I clear my emails I've trained hard that day I made a couple million dollars and that's why you've actually had a very bad start in life you need and this is very important they normally do you lack fire you lack imagination because when you're poor let me tell you something poor people do all the time you imagine my brother and I used to sit around and talk about what could be if only we managed to get it out how it would feel to have this car how it would feel to be in this place how it would feel to be famous and internationally renowned how it would feel to go to Santa

Pay and live on a yacht how it would feel to be able to fly on private planes how it would feel to not have to worry about food anymore my brother and I used to imagine for hours we used to talk about it we believed in this version of reality where we somehow made it not only do you lack motivation you lack imagination and that's why it's very important you need to start believing you are the man even if you're not yet before I was World Champion I knew I was going to be World Champion you have to believe these things we had imagination and we had hunger and fire you don't have those things that's why you're do not understand it doesn't matter how tired I get when I fight I never I'm never actually tired because I am so desperate to hurt my opponent I am more desperate to hurt him than I am tired in all realms forever that is the hunger and motivation that's why boxers start poor that's why fighters are poor there's a different mentality they're

born with they imagine being champion there are prepared to do anything it takes they have hunger and fire inside of them there's no middle class champions not so it's extremely important you develop your imagination as well as your fire and I'm saying this to you because there's a whole bunch of you who don't realize how badly you've failed you need to start imagining what actual freedom is you need to start seeing beyond the confines of your comfort you need to start developing the hunger it's going to take for you to elevate to the highest possible echelons and stopping enslaved by your comfort because that's what you're enslaved by it's extremely important I've checked on all the people I love all the people I care about I've donated some money to charity my children are fed their mothers are taking care of everything is in order everything is in its proper place that is fun if you say to me Andrew skip a portion of that skip a portion of that organization and professionalism so that we can go and do something that everyone else can do my answer will be no that does not sound fun to me and the fact that you think that's fun shows that you have a severe mental deficiency stay away from it you're only going to find actual fun

through purpose you're only going to find purpose to exceptionalism so you need to become the best possible version of yourself in all realms that's extremely important the reason you are so unhappy is because you were trying to have fun you're unhappy because you're trying to have fun instead of trying to become important they are very different things and you're never going to feel satisfied in your heart unless you become important please imagine and I don't state this with arrogance please imagine for a second you're the most googled man on the planet and you're a kickboxing world champion you have hundreds of millions of dollars in your build like a tank imagine how you feel when you look in the mirror nothing can match that nothing can beat that manifestation is real but not because your mind manages to magically attract the things you want I think it just reminds you of what you really want and it allows you to find energy all the time if you manifest yourself having a perfect physique you're going to be a lot more motivated in the gym it's not the thought that makes the physique it's the gym that makes the physique however the manifestation makes you want to go to the gym so I do believe that if you understood the power of your thoughts you never think negatively ever again but I think manifestation works in another way

I also think that once you understand all of the bad things and good things that come into your life are a perfect plan from God himself you're going to be a lot less affected by the bad things if something bad happens to you as part of God's plan he knows what he's doing in the end you're going to be happy it happened I often ask people is there anything bad that's happened to you in the past at the time you were distraught about that you now wish didn't even happen so if you understand you're always going to get there eventually why be upset about it now right if you know in a year from now you'll be glad it happened why be upset about it happening now you have to be cerebral enough about things I think that as a man your happiness comes from feeling respected over feeling loved and the reason perhaps you're happy now is because you have more respect for yourself because of the decisions you're making and have self-respect yeah and I think that a lot of men even if they have self-respect if nobody else respects them they're struggling I have no interest in me happy I wake up and say how can I be proud of myself what can I achieve that makes

me proud of myself how can I do things that make other people respect me and are proud of me how do I have a day which I complete when I come home the woman who's in my house says wow there's no man like you how do I live a life so my children look at me and go dad's a superhero how do I make my mother call me and say I'm never I couldn't possibly be more I live I have to live the exact same life regardless of how I feel so meet for me happiness is not a good indicator on how life should be lived but you need to sit down and look at your life and say what's going to make me as motivated as possible is it developing an imagination to imagine my dream life I'm sure it is is it having a social circle of people who are always trying to elevate I'm sure it is you need to then sit there look at every facet of your life analyze it one by one and develop a lifestyle which is going to give you endless fire because without it you are going to lose you are broken inside you are lacking a fire inside of you because once you get that fire you become invincible

the fire inside of your heart makes you hard to kill truthfully is the fire inside of your heart that makes you uncrushable the kind of cockroach which survives a nuclear explosion it is extremely important that you are never in a position where you lack motivation ever again it is extremely important that you never up an opportunity that is handed to you ever again and these things are conscious choices you make by changing your lifestyle there's nothing stopping you from winning besides yourself I have now given you an actionable the actionable is for you to design your life around getting an endless motivation and fire in all ways everything you do needs to be deliberately geared and designed towards giving you motivation and making you feel hunger inside of yourself then you must take all of that fire turn into positive energy and exude it out into the universe if you want it to rain and you don't know what to do do a rain dance perhaps the rain dance will not make the cloud seed however God will be happy that you're taking action as opposed to just sitting still quietly waiting for rain to appear while being submissive and subservient no you have to go out there and do things God wants to see you take care of what he has given you nobody continues to give

gifts to the ungrateful this is absolutely true about life it's extremely important that you show God that you deserve it your discipline will shape your destiny but it is extremely easy to be disciplined if all you've ever known is struggle guys you as a man should be offended by the fact that my brother and I started miles below you and I've surpassed you in every single human metric that should bother you but you should also sit there and go why are they beating me they started below me they started the race way back there and I was so lazy and so stupid and I took life for granted and I expected everything to be given to me that these guys have managed to lap me and surpass me based purely on hunger and grit alone they had no advantages all they had was this innate desire to do anything it took now is the time every single day you need to wake up take action and get things done the happiness to me is a super interesting concept because when people come to me and say I'm not happy I say why should you be happy but like what do you mean it's like

who told you you should be happy all the time without working for it happiness or is at the top of a mountain somewhere you ain't been anywhere you haven't even climbed it I think everybody on the planet has something to prove if you walk through life and feel like you have nothing to prove than your loser if you wake up each day and go I don't owe anybody anything I don't have to prove anything to anybody then you are a loser because you are absolutely not the incorrect you must prove yourself to other people you must prove yourself to your bloodline as we just as we just discussed you must prove yourself to God God hates the lazy he can't stand them if he gives you all these genetic dispositions and these natural God giving gifts if you have two arms and two legs and you could think and you're not trying your absolute best that's the reason you're not lucky he doesn't like you he likes the people would show him the beauty of his own creation he likes to give somebody building blocks and them to build something amazing it's the best thing about being a man you have to build who you are God loves to see that those people for some reason seem to be enormously lucky right the person who goes I don't have to prove anything to God I don't owe all of my

ancestors any effort you know for five thousand years people were dodging saber suit tooth tigers and catching the plague and running from Genghis Khan I don't owe them anything don't owe them a thing because I want to play video games these people are losers I wake up every day with something to prove I have hundreds of millions of dollars I'm a fantastic shape four times world champion fighting the matrix out here by myself more I will have to be braver I must try harder like all I do is prove myself so when I hear people go I don't want to have nothing to prove then your loser peasants have never felt like they needed to prove anything but kings felt like they needed to go and conquer land isn't that coincidental that the king who already had it all felt like he needed to go to some far-flung land and conquer it and take it and prove he's the king but the peasants I don't have to prove nothing nobody you're a loser then you're a dummy I absolutely and utterly completely have everything to prove to everybody all of the time that's who I am I will prove anything to anybody if I sit and say X I will prove it nobody cares about men being happy

we talk about women being happy we want children to be happy if you look at a folk-owned man on Christmas morning he's smiling because his wife is smiling he's smiling because his children are smiling nobody even buys him anything what are they buy the dad socks nobody cares about then being happy so why do you and man care about you being happy that's how you're going to fall into these traps I'm a very I'm a very content person I live a fantastic life I'm not miserable or depressed I'm not sad ever but I don't wake up and go I want to be happy today no sir I wake up and say okay things must be done and those things will be complete it regardless of how I feel regardless of how I feel you can lock me in a dungeon for unknown amount of time in a remain in Romania and I will still complete as many pushups as I can possibly do in the dark by myself what else am I going to do sit there and be sad happy or sad the pushups must be done it's called duty it's called honor it's called pride so I'm asking you why you don't have them you could be a genuine force for good in the world and know what's funny the funniest thing the most ironic thing about all of this is that if you don't prioritize happiness and you prioritize

feeling proud of yourself you end up happy by extension and I don't want a woman to ever go through anything bad in her life I think a man should go through it for her and protect her because I think that's how she's her best self as a woman but I think to be your best self as a man is the absolute opposite when someone emails me and says this has happened to me I'm like good no we mean good it's terrible how else are you going to become important how else are you going to find endless fire to get up and struggle in the face of the competition that's out here how else are you ever you're going to do all that with a nice christy life if any man's honest with himself think about the biggest transformative stages in your life think about the times you've got the most work done it was a bad part of your life you were heartbroken or you know you'd lost a house or broke or whatever that's when you did shit when everything was fine the the mortgage is paid dinners on time it's kind of dupe dupe dupe dupe little by little doing a little bit of work to a little bit of relax but the big events come from trauma this is it

so it's a cheat code it's a cheat code to climb the mountain so when I get a message from whoever because my wife left me on devastating side I understand I completely understand how hard it can be to lose a woman that you've given your entire life to if you never make a mark on the world then you effectively never existed and when you're gone nobody will care and that's very important because you have a due to your ancestors and you have a due to gods you must make a choice and this is genuine choice to you people at home do you want to live an obscurity forever and be invisible and not matter and have an easier life I would argue that it's not easier because in your heart and in your soul you're going to feel guilty knowing you could have been something or not or do you want to try your absolute best and struggle and suffer every day of your life paying the rent for all of the amazing things around you we pay endless rent we pay rent for our bodies we pay rent for our relationships we pay rent to keep our kids we pay rent to keep our business we pay rent to keep our freedom every single day is work to pay the rent it's absolutely never ending and you have to make that choice so we have a pen and paper in front of you you need to decide do you

want to be invisible with a lower rent bill or do you want to be important and work hard and suffer to make sure that the rent is paid as a choice you must make and binary and you must be extremely dedicated towards the decision you finally make you shouldn't wake up and say how happy am I today how does that affect how I act that's not how I operate I wake up and say what must be done what will allow me to be proud of myself what will allow me to achieve and those things will be done regardless of how I feel and those are how that's how the most successful people on earth all operate the most successful people on earth don't only do things because they feel happy about doing I refuse to accept that there are people out there who cannot become happy contented individuals I refuse to accept we live in a world where God has created people who no matter how hard they work and how good their life becomes you can't be happy I don't accept that I accept that the universe is a very giving place and that God loves all of us and if you try your best and you work hard you can become a better person the beauty of life is a man is to be great so you have to sit here and ask yourself do you want to be a happy loser that's insignificant nobody knows you exist women don't respect you men don't respect you nobody cares if you live or die but you

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