
Neurodivergent, Kinky & Divine: Bella Kitsune on Conscious Domination
About this episode
In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with Bella Kitsune — a professional dominatrix, somatic therapist, conscious kink practitioner, and neurodivergent healer — to unpack the deep intersections of sex work, trauma healing, archetypes, somatics, and BDSM.
💋 Topics we explore:
The healing potential of the mommy dom and soft dom archetypes
ADHD, autism, and dopamine-driven sexuality
How trauma shapes desire and kink
Sexual shame, body disconnect, and the somatic path back to pleasure
Archetypal embodiment and channeling energies like Aphrodite or Lilith in domination work
The dark side of forced feminization and unintegrated misogyny in clients
👀 Whether you're a curious kinkster, a fellow dom(me), or doing your own shadow work — this convo is 🔥, funny, and full of truth.
👉 Connect with Bella [https://linktr.ee/bellakitsune]
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About Jaclyn Proper: Jaclyn is a Jungian Coach & Underworld Priestess dedicated to helping you explore the depths of your psyche, embrace your true desires, and transform your life through conscious exploration and self-awareness. Join her as she breaks down barriers and opens up conversations about sexuality, creativity, and the journey towards wholeness.
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