Naomi’s Counsel

“Wash therefore and anoint yourself, and put on your cloak and go down to the threshing floor… When he lies down… go and uncover his feet and lie down, and he will tell you what to do.” Ruth 3:2-4

Ruth 3:2-4

Naomi tells her daughter-in-law to make herself as attractive as possible, to sneak up on a man in the middle of the night, and to lie down at his feet.

It’s not surprising that Naomi has received harsh criticism for her plan. Is she suggesting that Ruth should seduce Boaz? Did she not realise the danger she was putting Ruth in? Is she guilty of trying to nudge the hand of God?

If you’ve ever watched one of those television shows where they attempt crazy stunts, you might recall hearing the public service announcement: “Don’t try this at home!” That warning should be attached to any study of Ruth. Not many men would have the self-control that Boaz showed.

Still, Naomi’s counsel is a beautiful expression of faith, hope, and love. Boaz had clearly shown interest in Ruth, but he had done nothing to move the relationship forward. His words may hint at the reason why: “May you be blessed by the LORD, my daughter” (3:10). This suggests a substantial age difference, and Boaz may have put thoughts of romance out of his mind.

We know how the story should end. But time has passed, and nothing has happened… until Naomi comes to the rescue!

Do you believe that Naomi was nudging God’s hand or expressing faith in His provision?