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You Know How to Survive Stress — But Do You Know How to Actually Be Well?
About this episode
You have gotten good at pushing through. Powering past the hard days, white-knuckling the stressful weeks, finding ways to keep functioning no matter what. What you have not been taught is how to actually be well — not just surviving the chaos but living in a state of genuine calm and flexibility most of the time. MJ Murray Vachon has spent 40 years and over 50,000 therapy sessions studying exactly that distinction, and the river metaphor she uses — your mind drifting into either chaos or rigidity instead of staying in calm clear flow — makes the difference between coping and wellness instantly understandable. What she shares about her five-tool framework, how to recognize which direction your mind has drifted, and the concrete daily actions that reduce burnout and let you define wellness on your own terms will give you something most stress management advice never offers. Surviving was never the goal. This episode shows you what actually is.
Connect with MJ Murray Vachon, LCSW
🌐 Website: https://mjmurrayvachon.com/
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vachonmjmurray
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/m-j-murray-vachon-lcsw-184252289
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