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The Roles You're Attached To Are Burning You Out — Here's How to Let Go Without Losing Love
About this episode
You have built your identity around being a certain kind of parent. A certain kind of partner. A certain kind of professional. And the gap between who you are supposed to be and who you actually are on any given day is exhausting you in ways you cannot fully explain to anyone. That exhaustion is not about effort. It is about attachment — the unhealthy kind that turns roles into rigid identities and turns any deviation from them into failure. Mike Wood left a career as a CFO to become an emotional healing coach specifically because he lived that rigidity and found his way out of it — and what he shares about the difference between healthy passion and unhealthy attachment, the simple out-loud practice that begins releasing painful roles in real time, and how letting go of the perfect parent or perfect partner identity can actually deepen love rather than diminish it will change how you hold every role in your life. You can love deeply without gripping tightly. This episode shows you the difference.
You’ll learn:
✨ What attachments really are and how they hijack your emotions and relationships
💛 The difference between healthy passion and unhealthy attachment (and how to spot it in your life)
🧠 A simple out-loud practice to start releasing painful attachments in real time
🏡 How letting go of identities like “perfect parent” or “perfect partner” can actually deepen love
🏢 How Mike used detachment to become a calmer, more emotionally intelligent leader
🪴 How tools like plant medicine, somatic work, and mindset shifts can support deeper healing
CONNECT WITH MIKE WOOD
👉 Learn more about Mike’s program: learntolovebeingyou.com 🌐 Follow Mike: Facebook | Instagram
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