Kristen & Harvey - He Ghosted Her… But Someone Else Picked Up The Phone

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2:12I mean, it's probably because he sort of stole somebody's cat. What? He stole somebody's cat? Why? What do you think? Yeah, no, let me explain. So I mean, after the date, there was a stray cat in the parking lot and I was really worried about it. So I just put him in my car and I told Harvey I was going to take the cat home to keep it safe. You know, it's got to stop for whatever, maybe I don't know. So yeah, we kissed by my car and then we went our separate ways. And then when I got home with cat, I saw a text message from him and it just had a picture of a missing cat sign.

3:18Oh, no. And like, it looked like the cat I took home and I numbered a call. Okay, and he said that to you. Yeah, but it's folks. Like I texted back jokingly. I'm like, too bad. This huge is mine now. And the pathetic text said like, JK, I'm calling him now to return it. Thank you. Yeah. Only text that went through was too bad. The cat is mine now. Oh, I didn't know it was the other text had an error and it never sent. Oh, wow. So he thinks you legit stole somebody's cat after finding out that it was. Two days later, I noticed that the text didn't go through and I texted. I was like, yeah, hey, I returned the cat. Like, I, um, but I haven't heard anything back from him. So I probably think some like a terrible person. I think that's why I mean, we had a really good time. But there was like a cat misunderstanding. That's a big misunderstanding. Well, let's see if that is the reason. If you think so, you're a cat thief. We'll play a song. Come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date, okay?

4:18All right, yeah, let's, let's try. All right, we'll get your first date follow up next. It's a dual show. Right in the middle of your first date, follow up if you're just joining us. Kristen is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Harvey. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But real quick, Kristen, why don't you refresh our memory again? And on why you think you're getting ghosted? Yeah, I mean, we had a really good date, but then there was this cat and I took the cat home and I just had a misunderstanding. Like I text him, I was joking, I'm like, I'm keeping this cat, but really I wasn't keeping the cat, but he didn't get my text message saying that I was returning him to his owner. I think he thinks I'm a cat thief. Well, all right, well, we'll find out if he does think you're a cat thief. And that's why he's ghosting you. Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah, let's figure this out. Okay, here we go. Hello.

5:19Hi, can I speak to Harvey, please? Harvey, I'm sorry. Harvey likes to cheat on his girlfriend. So Harvey doesn't have a phone right now and I'm screening all of his calls. Wait, if you'll just let me know who you are and why you're calling, I might be able to let you speak to him. So who are you? Who am I? Yeah. I'm his girlfriend. Yeah. I'm Katie. Okay. Okay. Hi. Hi, Katie. How are you? This is a radio show. It's called a jubal show. Hi, Katie. I'm Nina. Hi, Victoria. And my name is jubal and we were looking for Harvey because we do a segment on our show, called the first day follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting me. Yeah, I know. I know this show. Oh. Okay. So you're doing you're doing a follow up with my boyfriend. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. She did it again. Oh my god. He did it again. He did it again.

6:19Okay. So am I on the radio right now? Yeah. Okay. So okay. So we're going to put him on blast. So Harvey, my boyfriend, one time boyfriend, I have found out that he has been cheating on me and he cheated three times. Oh, it's three times. I'm sorry. He should be in the box. I have been out of town for work. I just get home and now I'm getting he's getting calls from a radio station because he what? He ghosted some girl. Yeah, yeah. But you have his phone? Yes. I'm screening his whole thing. I'm not letting I'm not tolerating this. And he did it again anyway. But if you have his phone, then are you staying with him and letting this happen? Or not that you're letting it happen? I'm really sorry it's happening that sucks. No, no, no, no, no. This is not letting anything happen. That's the whole point. No, he and I are in a long-term committed relationship. I think he tends to lose sight of that fact.

7:21So, uh, okay. So no, I'm so I'm going to tell you all right now. I'm not putting him on this phone. Okay. We're not going to get to speak to him. And I hate to break it to whoever this girl is. It's got you doing this. No, absolutely not. Her name is Kristen. She's actually on the phone right now. If you want to talk to her. It's your poll. Kristen. Really? I don't know if you all want to do this on the radio. But sure, I'll talk to Kristen. Oh, no, if we do either. Better on. Kristen. Okay, I'm I had no idea. Like I didn't know I had no idea. Like I don't want somebody else's by it. I that's not what I'm about. Like I am. No, you don't. You don't want someone else's guy. Kristen. You don't. No, I'm telling you. I'm really sorry. Like I didn't know. You should be. No, like I don't. You don't you don't know how you're supposed to know. Grow. It's called Google search. It's called a background search. What? Look up in socials. Socials. I just met the guy on the couch. You seem like a good idea.

8:22It's fine. Like it's like, oh my god. Kristen. How did I not know that you're the one that stole that cat? Aren't you? Oh, I mean, I don't know. I guess you're this. Oh, no. I believe you are into stealing people's men. You are into stealing people's pets. Oh, okay. Okay. She said she didn't know. So Kristen, here's the deal. You are never to call this number again. You are never going to talk to Harvey again. You are nothing, but a dirty low down cat thief. Oh, I am done. Don't talk to don't call this number. We're not talking to you anymore. Okay. Oh. Oh, okay. I'm sorry. That was psycho. Like, I don't know. First of all, I didn't know it a girlfriend. I'm not a cat thief. Like, I don't need to put myself through this. Yeah. What is happening right now? It sounds like the cat was your angel. It's like, the cat helps you from dealing with that. Wow.

9:23Well, we know why you're getting ghosted at least. Yeah. Yeah. I'm sorry. Oh, my God. I thought it was like a fun thing. I had no idea. Like, you didn't see him sketch at all. Like, he really, there was nothing about him that was like, this is a guy with a girlfriend and he's hiding something. Like, it just was like normal for the record. And then I thought I was the one that had the problem because of the cat that they're paying. But no, like, there's a lot of problem. Well, at least for the record, you got it out there. You didn't, didn't still a cat. We all know you're not a cat. Yes. That was very important. Thank you. Yeah. The cat is returned. Oh, my God. Good job. I think I might get off the dating apps for a while and actually get a cat. Oh, my God. That's a great idea. Jubles first day follow up. On the Serving Pancakes podcast, conversations about volleyball go beyond the court. Today, we have a little best friend compatibility test. Okay. How long have we been best friends? It's just a day we met. As the league won volleyball season heads towards its final stretch, there's no better time to tune in. You'll hear unfiltered analysis behind the scene stories and conversations with leaders making an impact across the sport.

10:25Whether you're following the final push of love season or just love the game, Serving Pancakes brings you closer to the action and the people shaping the future of volleyball. Open your free iHeart Radio app, search Serving Pancakes and listen now. Presented by Capital One, Founding Partner of iHeart Women's Sports. Ready for a different take on Formula One? Look no further than no grip, a new podcast tackling the culture of Motor Racing's most coveted series. Join me, Lily Herman, as we dive into the under-explored pockets of F1, including the story of the woman who last participated in a Formula One race weekend, the recent uptick in F1 romance novels, and plenty of mishap scandals and sagas that have made Formula One a delightful, decadent dumpster fire for more than 75 years. Listen to no grip on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, I'm Jay Shetty, host of the on-purpose podcast. My latest episode is with Noah Kahn, the singer-songwriter behind the multi-platinum global hit Stick Season. I'm one of the biggest voices in music today. Talking about the mental illness stuff, it used to be the thing that I was ashamed of.

11:27Getting to talk about this is not common for me. Right now, I need it more than ever. Listen to on-purpose with Jay Shetty on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, it's Nora Jones, and my podcast playing along is back with more of my favorite musicians. Check out my newest episode with Josh Groban. You even lied to the Phantom at that point. Yeah, I would definitely like the Phantom in that. That's so funny. Listen to Nora Jones's playing along on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an iHeart Podcast. Guaranteed Human.