
Is Being Too Nice Costing You Dates? (Ep #23)
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This week, Gracie and Tracy respond to two submissions that hit on a common frustration: putting in effort and still not getting the outcome you want.
They talk about what to do when you keep hearing you're “too sweet” or “a great guy” but still get rejected—and how to handle it when every conversation with a woman feels like a dead end.
They also break down this week’s polls:
🔸 What it really means when a girl says “I’m bad at texting”
🔸 Whether guys still want to meet someone through apps, friends, or a random real-life moment
If you’re tired of wasting your energy on women who aren’t putting in effort—or sick of being the nice guy who never gets the girl—this one’s for you.
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