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If You’re Still Talking About It… It’s a Hobby
About this episode
This episode is personal.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.This episode is personal.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
- One that helped me understand the value of my time
- And another that forced me to make a decision
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
- Knowing when you’re wasting time vs. building toward something real
- The difference between support and motivation
- Why unclear expectations can cost you years
- And how the right voices in your life can push you to act
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.This episode is personal.
I take you back to a defining moment in my career—when I thought I was on track to become a partner after years of dedication… only to be told it wasn’t enough.
What followed were two conversations that changed everything:
- One that helped me understand the value of my time
- And another that forced me to make a decision
A close friend told me something I’ll never forget:
If we’re still having this conversation months from now… it’s a hobby.
And my wife gave me the clarity I didn’t know I needed:
Pick a lane.
This episode is about:
- Knowing when you’re wasting time vs. building toward something real
- The difference between support and motivation
- Why unclear expectations can cost you years
- And how the right voices in your life can push you to act
If you’re at a crossroads—career, business, or life—this one is for you.
🎯 Key takeaway: You can get money back. You can get opportunities again. You cannot get your time back.
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-the-know-with-tony-reeves--5596987/support.
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