How to Top as a Submissive (Without Topping from the Bottom)

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Submission isn’t weakness. It’s power offered—not power lost.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.

This isn’t about topping from the bottom. It’s about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.

We’ll explore:
 🖤 How powerful submissives shape the rhythm of a scene
 🫧 Using breath, body language & sound to guide without leading
 🕯️ The difference between topping from the bottom vs. intentional submission
 🫦 Why great Doms listen to their subs — and follow their cues
🖤 How to turn surrender into the sexiest power you hold

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