Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person — And How to Finally Break the Pattern

You are smart. You are self-aware. You have done enough reflection to know exactly what you do not want. And you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship anyway. That is not bad luck. It is an unconscious pattern — in who you are drawn to, what you overlook early on, and how you show up in the beginning before needs get communicated and reality sets in. Sandra Myers is the founder of Select Date Society and has spent her career working specifically with high-achieving people who are excellent at almost everything and somehow still stuck in the same relational loop. What she shares about why attraction and compatibility are not the same thing, what to observe on early dates that actually predicts long-term fit, and the small authentic shifts that lead to real connection will give you a completely different lens for every date you go on from this point forward. The right person exists. This episode helps you stop walking past them. You’ll learn 👇 🧲 Why you keep attracting the wrong type (and how to change it) 🧠 How to stop dating like a “project” and build real connection 💬 What to communicate early so needs don’t stay unspoken 👀 What to observe on dates that predicts long-term fit 🛡️ How to date discreetly and sustainably as a high-profile person Ready to stop guessing and start dating with real clarity? 💛 Connect with Sandra Myers and learn more about Select Date Society: 🌐 Website: https://selectdatesociety.com 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandra-boccia-myers/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/selectdatesociety 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/selectdatesociety/channel/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices