
How to Ask For What You Want Without Seeming Pushy
About this episode
On today’s episode of The Being Human Podcast we’re taking one step closer to getting what we want.
Sometimes we don’t get what we want because we simply don’t ask for it. It happens way too often (especially for women) for many fear-based reasons, like seeming too pushy.
But we can’t not ask for what we want.
It’s how we get our needs met - but when we feel like speaking up is being “pushy” we run away or hide at the possibility of being uncomfortable. This is a big issue, y’all, and I can’t stress enough how important it is to learn how to ask for what you want, which is exactly what I’m going to show you in this episode.
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Key moments to tune in for:
- [2:15] The age-old story that keeps us stuck
- [7:25] A few questions to ask yourself about how you get your needs met
- [13:05] Stop being afraid of being perceived the wrong way
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Vasavi Kumar leads the coaching industry with 10 years of experience and has helped thousands of women overcome major life obstacles to create new heights of success. Her work is known internationally from speaking engagements in India and across the USA. Vasavi is recognized for getting to the bottom of the intersection of self and business roadblocks and her methods teach clients how to master the art of getting what you want, by mastering their mind.
Vasavi holds dual Masters degrees in Special Education from Hofstra University and Social Work from Columbia University. She’s the host of the Being Human with Vasavi Podcast and Former Co-Host of Studio 512, a lifestyle and entertainment morning show in Austin, TX. She's been featured in The Wall Street Journal, FOX, VH1, and was a regular on NBC’s Kansas City Live as the “Keepin’ It Real Guru.” She believes that when you cultivate a solid relationship with yourself, you can be, do, and create anything you want.
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