
About this episode
How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner?
Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more on todays episode.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to get out of your own head and finally let go for a better orgasm
Why pleasure is a right, not a reward
Practical tips for tackling delayed orgasms and performance pressure
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