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1:27Hello everyone and welcome, episode 476 of the True Crime All the Time podcast. I'm Mike Ferguson and with me as always is my partner in True Crime, Mike Gibson. Give me how are you? I am doing good about you. Doing very well. That's good. We're just talking about all the stuff we have coming up. Lots out there. We do. We have CrimeCon coming up and then about a week after that, my daughter's getting married, so we're trying to figure out how to get ahead with all these episodes. Let's go ahead and give our Patreon shout outs. We had Steve Wilmer jump out at our highest level. Hey, Wilmer. Bianca, I can boom. Awesome. I can boom. Angela Gillum. Hey, thanks, Gillum. Madison Poston. Poston. Sarah Wheeling. Hi, Sarah. Nikki Weaver. What's going on, Nikki? And last but not least, Brett Stewart. Oh, thank you so much. Stewart.

2:31Yeah, we appreciate the new support and then if we go back into the vault, this week, we selected Shannon Barber. Thanks, Shannon. So we appreciate that long-term support very much. We love it. So we have an episode out right now, a new one on True Crime All the Time where we're talking about Marilyn McCown. She was known as Nikki and she disappeared just a few weeks before her wedding while she was doing laundry on a Sunday afternoon. So there's a lot of mystery to this one. If you haven't listened, make sure you check it out. Even like, why are you doing laundry? Do you do laundry? Do I? Yeah. Sometimes when my wife asked me to. Okay. I'm just checking. But people have to do laundry. Do they have to? Well, not everybody can send all their stuff to the dry cleaners like you do. Jeans, t-shirts, underwear, things like that. And we also have a new episode coming out Thursday that's on

3:34Connie and Larry Van Ooston. And this is a story that goes back to 2017, fascinating. It is a home abduction of these two people and then they're made to go to the bank to try to get out some money and then they're held in kind of a makeshift dungeon. I kind of built a little dungeon in my basement. Yeah, I don't know if that's something that you should be disclosing. Do you be honest with it? Too soon. Probably. I mean, ever. I don't know if there's ever a time to disclose that. I'll hold things like that back from now on. Okay. All right, buddy. You ready to get into the episode of True Crime all the time. I'm ready. We're talking about Grady Styles Jr. Grady Franklin Styles Jr. was a carnival performer who had the genetic condition ectrodactyl. And because of this, styles performed under the stage name lobster board. Okay. Fascinating. Yeah. I mean, this is a fascinating case on its own. But he was not a good guy.

4:41And we're going to get into all the details. And there were quite a few twists and turns in this case. Grady Styles Jr. was born on June 26, 1937. And I mentioned it, right? He was born with this condition called ectrodactyl. Hopefully I'm saying that somewhat correctly. It's also known as split-hand foot malformation or cleft hand. And it's a very rare genetic condition in which one or more of the middle fingers or toes are missing or malformed. I just find it fascinating. I can't imagine growing up with something like that because at least when I was young, growing up, other kids would have just picked you apart. Oh, I mean, they picked us apart for things that were normal, that everybody had or did or whatever. So yeah, something like this, unfortunately, people are going to be mean about.

5:45Right. I wish it wasn't that way, but we all know it is. The condition leaves a V-shaped space or indentation that may give the hand a claw-like appearance according to the Cleveland clinic. Styles was the fourth child of Edna and Grady Styles Sr., who also had ectrodactyl. Styles's family had a long history of this dating back all the way to 1840. Styles Jr. was the fourth generation with this condition. It's really interesting though that it goes back so many generations. I mean, I guess the good thing about that is that you have people in your family that have had to deal with this and can maybe help you along, right? They know what you're you're going through medically, but also more importantly socially. Yeah, and obviously it's hereditary. There's no doubt about that. Grady Styles Sr. worked as a side show attraction

6:45in a traveling carnival when Styles Jr. turned seven. His father brought him into the act. And then for almost 50 years, Grady Styles Jr. traveled around the country on the carnival circuit. He advertised himself as the lobster boy. He would tell audiences part of his acts, per the LA times, good evening ladies and gentlemen. I am the lobster boy. This condition is not caused by drugs or diseases. It runs in the family. And let's be honest, he wasn't lying about that part. Barbara Schaefer, who managed food concessions on Styles' circuit, told the Tampa Bay Times, I've seen pictures of him when he was little and on display, it's all he's ever known. There was no opportunity for the disabled in those times. He used to say, Barbara, I just want to get off that stand. And I think for me, there's some real sadness there. And it sounds sad when

7:50you hear what he said. Yeah, I mean, you can imagine him being seven years old and his father just kind of thrusting him on stage. And then basically what it sounds like is that remaining a performer was all he knew and the only way that he thought he would be able to make money and survive. Styles married twice and had three children. His first wife, Mary Teresa, grew up in rural Vermont. She ran away from an abusive home at the age of 19 to join the carnival. She took tickets and worked a sword box on a platform in front of a side show according to the Tampa Bay Times. I think of the stories that you could probably hear from people at or carnies and do these type of shows. I would think it would be pretty interesting. Yeah, I mean, the shows themselves are the entertainment what they are, but just imagine the

8:54kind of after the show. What are they doing when they hang out? What are they talking about? I remember watching Steve Martin in the jerk back in the day, you know, and at one point he's he's traveling around with the carnie show and it's just you know, obviously it's going to be funny. And you just think about all the different things that they were doing and it's just found it fascinating, but also like there's a sense of con artist with some of that stuff. Why get that, right? If you're a magician, if you're a showman, is part of that that you're trying to con the audience. And maybe that's not the right word, but yeah, there's some of that, I think. Marion Stiles got married in 1958. They had two daughters, Donna and Kathy. Kathy was born with the same genetic condition as her father.

9:58When not traveling, Stiles and his family lived in Gibsonton, Florida, where thousands of carnival performers lived during the offseason. The Tampa Bay Times reported on Gibsonton in 1992 in this rural community in southern Hillsboro County, people willingly share their landscape with lions, tigers, bears, elephants, llamas. And what is reported to be the nation's only pack of domesticated wolves. The residents practice high-wire acts in their backyards. They store carnival rides on the side streets. Wow, just a whole community of carnies. Yeah. Not shockingly that it's named Gibsonton. Of course, you know, that was not lost on me. A local historian dated the founding of Gibsonton back to 1924 when two carnival cook house operators first wintered in the

11:01area. They built a structure with the restaurant inside and a few cabins. And then year after year, more carnival workers started spending their winters there. So I'm assuming we're talking about your great, great grandfather and maybe one of his friends or something maybe started this all up. Many in the community of Gibsonton knew and respected Stiles. They considered him a smart businessman who went from working as a performer to owning his own carnival show. He would lend people money when they needed it. However, people noticed that he was often disagreeable and drank to excess. I bet he was really disagreeable after he drank too much. I would imagine so. You know, in my experience, a lot of times alcohol intensifies your personality. Let's say

12:02some people who are happy go lucky, they can be happy drums. People who are kind of nasty and sour, they get even more nasty and sour. Now it can go the other way too. You can have a great person who drinks alcohol and then their demeanor kind of goes south. But it was said that Grady dealt with alcoholism and was extremely abusive to his family. His daughter Kathy later told the Tampa Bay Times they don't know my father. A lot of them didn't know how he was capable of jumping out of his wheelchair. He kept his abuse very quiet, very behind closed doors. And I'm sure that's true for a lot of people who are abusive. I mean, is that something that you're going to advertise? No, I don't think that's something that they're going to put out there. I think most would try to keep that behind closed doors because they don't want to look bad or

13:05they don't want to get in trouble. On top of that, he also has this reputation as a performer, a pretty well-known performer. That's his livelihood. He doesn't want to damage that by being labeled as an abuser. Styles' wife Mary recalled that a few years into their marriage, alcohol abuse made him a different person. Who doubt about it? Alcohol can change a person's personality. Yeah, I mean, even for casual drinkers. But for people who have a real problem with alcohol and addiction, it can be rough. It can be. Styles' condition affected the growth of his legs. So he often used the wheelchair out in public. Other times, he used his hands and arms to move around. Because of this, he developed significant upper body strength. That when combined with this temper and alcohol abuse made him a danger to others. Super strength in his upper body.

14:09Yeah, I mean, have you ever seen someone who either only has the use of their arms, whether it's peddling a non-motorized wheelchair or I have seen some people who almost walk on their hands, they can develop a lot of strength because you're using those muscles all the time. Absolutely. Yeah, I've seen that. To the point, sometimes they have this upper body that looks like a bodybuilder almost and then their legs are just, you know, obviously not as developed. Yeah, because they can't use them. Styles hid his family members, choked them with his hands, rammed into them with his wheelchair or would headbutt them and anger. Pretty violent. Yeah, I mean, I don't think there's any doubt about it. This was a very volatile individual and I think it was magnified, right, by his drinking. His wife Mary divorced him

15:10in 1973. She married Harry Glenn Newman Jr., a man with dwarfism who performed at carnivals under the title Smallest Man in the World. Well, so she went on to the smallest man in the world, you know, so she stayed within the community though. Well, and I just wonder if that was probably pretty common, right? I got the feeling from the research that, you know, this was a community that really kind of stuck together. And so maybe for most of them, that's where the dating pool kind of started and ended. Where how small he was. I don't know. I'm sure we could figure that out on Google or something like that. If you want to stop the show and get into it. But if you're billing yourself as the smallest man in the world, I'm assuming you're pretty diminutive. Yeah. And I can also explain what that word means after the show.

16:11Thanks. The two had one child together. Harry Glenn Newman III. Harry Newman would go on to perform at carnivals, calling himself the human blockhead and hammering nails into his nostrils as part of his act. Okay. Yeah. Now, I understand, you know, it's grady, right? He has a genetic condition. I understand being very, very tiny and billing yourself based off of that. What I don't understand is how some of these performers get to the point where they can actually do the act. Like how do you start to practice sword swallow? You know, how do you start to practice nailing things into your nostrils or the person that swallows a light bulb? Well, you see growing up as kids, me included, we used to do some really dumb shit. And that's how you figure out what

17:16you can and can do. But we were told you're never going to mount anything. You keep that up. And so we changed where maybe somebody that was playing with nails and hammer and to their head already doing it. They're like, I'm not going to stop. I think I can't amount to something. And there you have it. They just, they already knew they could do it. So they just turned into making money. I got you. Yeah. I got you. After the divorce, Styles took his daughters and moved to Pittsburgh where he married his second wife, Barbara. They had one son together, Grady Styles III, who was born with that same genetic condition. Okay. Styles eventually incorporated his son and his daughter, Kathy into his act and they toured together as the lobster family. What are how far you go for this act? Like, do you, like, where red outfits do you, like, do they like bring fish up on the stage and yeah, I don't know. I think the,

18:22the crux of the act was the genetic condition, right? The hands. Yeah. I don't know what they were doing with the hands or, you know, I'm not sure if fish was involved or, you know, if you're going to relate yourself to a lobster, you know, like at the end of the show was sort of like a big pod on the stage. I doubt it because I don't know who would care about that. I'm just thinking. And that's where we always get in trouble. That's true. You know, my wife and I have had a thrive market membership for quite a while now. And we have no plans to give it up. There's a lot to love about thrive market, but a couple of things we really love is the convenience of getting items delivered and being able to filter by dietary preference for the entire family. Thrive market is a membership-based grocery service where you can shop from wherever you are. Simply just hop on their app. The membership breaks down to just five

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20:24Yeah, because once you've seen them, why would you pay to see them? Yeah. In September 1978, styles as daughter Donna, who at that point was 15 ran away with her 18-year-old boyfriend, Jacqueline, for six days. According to the Pittsburgh Post Gazette, styles hired a PI to find her and worked three days in a carnival in Ohio to pay the fee. They returned to Pittsburgh and announced they were going to get married because Donna was pregnant, which turned out not to be true, but probably trying to sell it to dad like, hey, I love them and we're going to have to be together because I got a baby. Right. We're going to have to get married on September 27th, 1978, the day before the wedding, Donna, her stepmother and Jack went shopping for Donna's wedding dress. When they returned, styles was sitting in the living room. Donna and her stepmother went outside to retrieve his wheelchair and styles called Jack inside. For a private talk, Donna heard

21:28two gunshots, Jack then walked out of the house and muttered he shot me before falling to the ground. And he died in Donna's arms. I mean, think about it. You think you're just going to go in and have a conversation with your future father-in-law, which is a pretty routine thing to do right before you get married. Yeah. I mean, we, we, and when I say we, just generally, there's that thing about dads, you know, taking the future son-in-law out on a walk and, you know, into their basement where they had their guns. I like to lay all mine out, clean them, you know, before we, while we're having the talk now. But yeah, you're right. I mean, hey, treat or ride, take care of my daughter, things like that. I'm sure dads all around the, the world have had that talk at one point or another. I mean, I took my son-in-law right by the woodchipper while I was running. Yeah, I made that very

22:33clear. Sure, that wasn't scary at all. And you had Fargo playing in the background. Exactly. Donna explained to police that her dad wasn't happy about the marriage and only consented to it after she and Jack ran away together. When giving his statement, style said he heard talking the street. The Jack was saying nasty things about Donna. So obviously, Gibbs, we talk a lot about murder, you know, on this podcast. But I mean, what are the reasons here? You know, great. He's not happy about this wedding. And then apparently, he's saying that he heard that this kid was saying, quote, nasty things about his daughter. Well, which any dad would not be happy about, right? Talking about my daughter saying nasty things about her, but am I gonna kill you? Right. You're gonna shoot somebody and kill him over that. Styles's murder trial started in February 1979. The prosecution argued the murder was premeditated while the defense argued

23:39that love and compassion drove styles to kill his daughter's fiancee. The jury heard that styles admitted to a detective that he shot Jack because he had no alternative. Donna testified that she was with her dad when he purchased the gun he used to kill Jack Lane. When styles bought the pistol, he jokingly said he was going to use it on Jack. Well, see, you can say jokingly, right? But if you're sitting in that courtroom, you're hearing premeditation. Yeah. And I mean, there's technically you can joke about anything, but obviously there are things you should not joke about. And one of those is when you're buying a gun that you're buying it to use it on somebody. That is just not something you should joke about. And how do you say you didn't have any other option but to kill them? Well, let's face it, Grady's in a tough spot here, right? It's not up for debate on whether or not he pulled the trigger. That part's not in question. So he has to,

24:45along with his defense team, craft a narrative as to why. Donna conceded at trial that Grady bought the gun before she and Jack decided to marry. She also testified that he eventually consented to the marriage and she disliked living with her father because he made her babysit constantly and didn't let her out enough. Prosecution witnesses testified that styles threatened to kill Jack several times and that he purchased the gun to carry out his plans because he didn't want Jack to marry Donna. The fence attorney Anthony DeCelo emphasized the love and compassion styles had for his children and that he obtained a court order to assume custody of three children from a previous one. Okay, so he loved all his kids. Yeah, and that could be true, but I don't know what that has to do with him murdering Jack. I mean, yeah, you love your daughter. You love her so

25:50much that you feel like you have to kill this guy. She wants to marry just so that she doesn't marry him. I guess what it shows me is what few options maybe they had as far as putting together a defense, right? They were kind of up against it. Pretty limited. ADA, Robert Paul, vinkler told the jury in closing arguments that police predicted styles would receive a sympathy verdict because of his condition and because he suffered from kidney disease and infosima from smoking 60 cigarettes a day. Well, that's a lot of cigarettes. I can't remember how many cigarettes are in a pack. 20. 20. So three packs a day. Three packs a day is not good. I mean, actually, no cigarettes a day or good, but three packs is a lot. I just kind of visualizing like the carny world back then. I just felt like maybe there's a lot of cigarettes going on.

26:54Well, we're also talking about the 70s, right? Smoking was much more accepted. Oh, yeah. In the 1970s, I can remember being at McDonald's, trying to eat my happy meal while my parents were smoking at the table, taking a cigarette out of their mouth while they took a bite. Yes. On February 22nd, 1979, Grady Styles was found guilty of third degree murder. On April 30th of that year, he was sentenced to 15 years probation because no state institution at that time could care for an inmate with his condition. I just wonder what type of care they would need to be able to perform to take him into the jail. Yeah, none of the research really elaborated on that. But, you know, let's go back third degree murder and then a sentence of 15 years probation.

27:54He shot and killed a guy and is not going to do time. Basically, we're going to send you back to your home. My Gibson, though. Yeah. And we're keeping eye on you. Keep your nose clean. I mean, that's basically what they told him. Yeah. I mean, it's insulting to Jack's family. Oh, absolutely. You'd be furious. Oh, yeah. If somebody killed a family member and they got probation. In 1989, Styles remarried Mary Teresa after he divorced his second wife. He promised Mary he was done drinking. But according to Mary, two weeks later, he was back to the same old Grady. Shocking. Is it? No. I mean, there are some people who change. Oh, of course. Yeah. But there are some people who never change. They tell you they're going to change. They may change for a short period of time. I think I'm really happy when people do change to have an addiction.

28:58Like, oh, yeah, sure. But am I am I ever going to be shocked when someone that has that says they're going to change, but can't really change? It's just anymore. I'm just not shocked by it. Because I know addictions are so strong. Oh, they just they grip you. They take hold of you. Styles and his family continued going out on the road. They had a ten and one performance with other side show performers and animals, but Styles was the main attraction. The LA Times reported that styles would be drunk on stage and would lunge at the audience to scare them, which probably add it to the show in some way. Yeah, exactly. Like, oh, my gosh. Did you see the lobster guy? Lunging at all of us. Meanwhile, this is a man who killed an 18-year-old guy. Right. Shot him dead. Behind the scenes, style continued abusing his family.

30:00Mary later reported that style sexually abused her, tried to smother her with a pillow, and one morning woke her up with a butcher knife to her throat. She quoted him as saying, one of these days, I'm going to kill you and your family before he dropped the knife and crawled away. Did you just say crawl? Yes, he crawled away. Okay. I mean, he could not walk very well, right? He had to use a wheelchair, but I just want to kind of visualize this. If you're Mary, you've got this guy who labels himself as lobster boy, lobster man, whatever it is, a knife in between his two digits. I guess you would call them. Call. Yeah, he's threatening you, telling you he's going to kill you and your family, and then he drops the knife, and he just crawls away. I mean, scary stuff.

31:04You know, the problem I have with this guy is that he talks about how he loves his family, very compassionate about his family. Loves his family, but then he does this stuff. He abuses them. He says terrible things like one of these days, I'm going to kill you all, but yeah, you're supposed to love them all. It's confusing. You know, a thoughtfully built wardrobe comes down to pieces that mix well. And last, that's where Quinn shines. Premium fabrics considered design and everyday essentials that feel effortless to wear, independent, even as the seasons change. My wife absolutely adores. They're lightweight cashmere sweaters. I'm more of a flow knit performance type of guy, but they have everything I need, lightweight joggers, shorts, tops, but they also have coats, European, Jersey, linen. Quinn's works directly with top factories and cuts out the

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33:09Wyant, who allegedly had gangtons. I'm thinking $1,500 is not a lot of money, but maybe in the carny world, you know, that buys you a lot. Yeah, I don't know how much carnival workers make. I have no idea. But regardless, right? $1,500 is not a lot of money when you compare it to someone's life. It just it just isn't on the night of November 29, 1992. Styles was watching TV inside his home. After hearing three knocks on the window, Mary and her son slipped out under the guise of visiting relatives nearby. They hit man, entered the home and shot styles twice in the head. When they called the police, the family claimed they heard gunshots and saw a man running away from the scene because of inconsistencies in their statements, though, Harry Newman was brought in for a polygraph, which he failed. He then gave a full confession and said it was a contract killing

34:15orchestrated by his mother. He didn't wait very long to start tossing people underneath the bus. No, I think he, he caved, right? Pretty quickly. The motive was that styles was physically abusive and Mary feared that he was going to kill them. And I think some of that fear was justified, right? He actually told her, I'm going to kill you. I'm going to kill your kids. Police also charged a man named Dennis Cowell with conspiracy to commit first degree murder. Cowell received a portion of the money and helped Christopher Wyatt buy a gun. He led the police to the weapon, which was buried in the woods. So we said $1,500, but he wasn't even getting the whole $1,500. He had to split that with another guy. And they had to buy a gun. Oh, yeah. So some of the money had to go towards buying a gun. Would you do it for a couple hundred bucks? Shocking, right? That people would even, number one, entertain killing anyone that wasn't in self-defense.

35:19Right. I can understand if you're going to kill me, if you're going to try to kill me, I'm going to have to defend myself. But if you come to me and say, Hey, I need you to take care of somebody for me. First of all, the show is over. Our friendship is over. And I'm calling the police just like that, just like that. So don't, don't try. In June, 1993, a judge ruled that Mary Styles and Harry Newman could argue self-defense because of the physical abuse they endured. This marked the first time a Florida judge allowed battered woman syndrome as a defense in a murder for higher case. Well, I think she had a based on what I know seems like she had a good cause to use that as her defense. Yeah. And you know, this term battered woman syndrome, it was kind of coined in the late 70s. It's when it started. Today, it's not a formal diagnosis

36:20in the, you know, the DSM. But the phrase is still used in the fields of psychology, therapy, and law. But this was the phrase that was used in the original newspaper reporting from the 90s. Mary's attorney Arnold Levine said at the time is quoted by the Tampa Bay Times. When you view the life situation that these people had, they were justified in doing what they did. And one of the things that struck me about this case, right, you had grady styles who shot and killed someone. Right. And I think pretty fair to say got away with it. They only convicted them of third degree, but then 15 years probation. Only probation. Yeah. So, I mean, to me, that's getting away with murder. But then he's murdered. And now the perpetrators behind his murder are on that same path, right? How do they justify what they did? And what is a

37:24court going to decide? Prosecutors said styles physical disabilities called this defense into question. Stiles's family said his physical disabilities did not prevent him from harming them. His daughter Kathy recalled how her father once broke her jaw and almost caused her to miscarry. She also described how she had to perform when her father was too drunk. And that when he drank, he would threaten to kill them. I mean, we know he didn't have an issue coming out of his wheelchair. There were a few comments made that he would get really upset and he would stand up out of his wheelchair and lunge and lunge and maybe later on in life, you know, that it wasn't the same. But I did watch some things about, you know, grady styles, junior. And it was said that he had like real strength in his hand. Yeah. He could use his hands to inflict damage upon people. And he

38:29did just use them against his family. Super strong. Yeah, he was strong. Kathy told the Tampa Bay Times before the trial started. If anybody had to die, he deserved to. He was a very mean and vicious person. I mean, this is his daughter. Yeah. Can you imagine your daughter saying something like that about you? I can't imagine breaking my daughter's jaw. No. So, you know, from that standpoint, maybe it's warranted. You know, I do think he was a ruthless guy. Vicious. Yeah, of course. I mean, there's several people in his family that have said that and this is a guy that killed somebody because he didn't want to hack the marry his daughter. But did he deserve to die? And see, I think that's going to be, you know, the big question for the court. The three defendants went to trial on July 19th, 1993. All were charged with first degree murder and conspiracy.

39:32Prosecutors argued that although Mary Styles and Harry Newman pleaded not guilty, they acknowledged their part in the murder when they were questioned by police. By the time of trial, Mary claimed she didn't remember these statements. Her attorney noted that her memory was affected by PTSD. Christopher Wyant had also pleaded not guilty and declined to talk to police. His attorney planned to argue he intended to commit robbery, not murder. On July 21st, a judge declared a mistrial after a detective testified that one of the suspects took a lie detector test, which is inadmissible in court. Christopher Wyant's retrial started on January 18th, 1994. The jury heard that in the first murder plan, Styles was supposed to be shot in a fake robbery after he left his regular bar in Gibsonton. When that didn't work, Wyant had to go to plan beat, which was killing Styles in his home. But the defense urged jurors to pay attention to discrepancies and witness

40:40testimony. On January 19th, Christopher Wyant was found guilty of second degree murder and conspiracy. On February 22nd, he was sentenced to 27 years in prison. On May 19th, a complex Dennis cow pleaded guilty to accessory after the fact and was sentenced to three and a half years in prison. And just think about that accessory after the fact, he gets three and a half years. Grady Styles shot and killed a man and got probation. What back to his house? Now, I know obviously we're talking quite a few years difference, but it definitely shows you how things changed over time. Oh, yeah. Jury selection for Mary Styles's retrial was completed on July 11th, 1994. The defense acknowledged that Mary paid $1,500 to have her husband killed, but they argued that she resorted the violence after suffering years of abuse. Defense attorney Arnold Levine told

41:45the jury because of the cumulative years of abuse. Mary Styles believed she was an imminent fear of harm or death. She had no alternative, but to participate in this unthinkable act. Levine said about Grady Styles, he had no legs. He had stumps. But in spite of these deformities, he was a powerful, powerful person. He would pop off the wheelchair onto his fingers, scoot across an area, and in a drunken state, beat on someone. So his disability wasn't going to stop him from doing anything. It sounds like. Well, it certainly didn't stop him apparently from being physically abusive. I mean, that's quite a visual that this defense attorney is painting. Imagine this guy hopping off of the chair and kind of propelling himself on by his fingers. And then like jumping up on somebody and

42:50beating on them and he had to be super strong. It'd be able to pull that off. The jury also heard about Styles' prior murder conviction, showing his propensity for violence. The defense recounted that in October 1992, the family returned to Gibsonston after months of touring. Styles' violent streak worsened and Mary gave her son Harry $1,500 to go out and find someone to kill him. He hired Christopher Wyatt. And that's interesting, right? They are not the defenses and trying to say that this didn't happen. They're agreeing that it happens exactly as it did. I think what they're hanging their hat on is why it happened. Yeah, exactly. The prosecution argued that Mary planned the murder for several weeks. Outside court, Mary described how alcohol changed Styles. She recalled that he would use his hands to twist her breasts

43:51and poke her eyes. She said, per the Tampa Bay Times, he'd wake up at eight. He was sweet. He'd start drinking about 10. By the time he came out of his bedroom about one, he was somebody different. Check on hide. Yeah, sounds like it. But can we also think about what this day is like? Get up at eight. You're in your bedroom. You start drinking at 10. You don't come out of your bedroom until one. And by that time, maybe you're plastered. It's kind of a strange day. And for me at least, it's not how I want my day to go. I think for most people, that would be a weird start of your day. I mean, I get it. You know, he's went through a few things with his genetic condition. And I'm sure life wasn't always easy. No, no, I'm sure it wasn't. He also probably worked maybe some strange hours because of the kind of carnival life. Mary said she didn't want to leave

44:52him because of her children. And she knew they wouldn't have anywhere to hide from him. Christopher Bryant testified that Harry Newman approached him in October 1992 to take care of a problem with my stepfather. He was paid $1,500 to kill grady styles. And his wife, Mary, wanted the job done quickly. So again, there's no disputing any of this by the defense, by the testimony of the defendants. They're being honest. They're laying it all out there. Well, and I think, you know, he's saying my mom wants it done quickly because she's tired of being on the other end of the abuse. The receiving end. Yeah. Why it testified that Harry Newman told him the murder has got to happen tonight. My mom wants it done tonight. During the trial, the judge made a surprising ruling that Mary could not use battered spouse syndrome as a defense. Unless she got on the stand and confessed. But the next day, the judge reversed his ruling, declaring

45:57that Mary had the right to remain silent if she chose to. And I could only think that, you know, maybe the judge over the night contemplated on this and the legality of it and they changed their mind. Yeah. Harry Glenn Newman, Jr. Mary's ex-husband was the first defense witness. He recalled going to Stiles's home in Pennsylvania in 1975 to visit two of Mary's children. Stiles pulled a gun on him, then circus performer Paul Fishball, known as the fat man walked in and pointed a shotgun at Newman. They managed to escape unharmed. So you got the lobster guy pulling the gun holding a gun. The fat man's got a shotgun. Fat man's got a shotgun in the shortest man in the world. Smallest man in the world is somehow able to get away. I mean, that must have been quite a sight to be honest with you. The visual alone is, I don't want to say humorous because it's a very

47:04dangerous situation, but you have three carnies. Yeah. Two of which are pointing a gun at another. Well, he probably just ducked out of the way. Yeah, which might have not been that hard for him. I don't know. Despite the judge's reversal of his decision, Mary Stiles got on the witness stand. She testified that she divorced Stiles in 1973 after he knocked her down, tore off her pantyhose, and attempted to rip out her IUD. She also testified that their honeymoon phase after she remarried him lasted only two weeks. Well, I'm just going to go back to what you said, that, and one point he knocked her down and attempted to rip out the IUD. I mean, think about brutal that is, especially knowing the condition he had. Yeah, but this is before she divorces him for the first time. Yeah. I know. Now, he must have really sweet talked her into him being a changed

48:11man for her to come back to him. And according to her, that lasted for about two weeks, and then it went back down hill again, back to the old, the old way he was. Mary testified. He kept telling me that one of these days he was going to kill me. I just couldn't take the beatings no more and the fear days before his death. Stiles threatened her with a butcher knife to the throat. Two weeks before he was killed, she told her son, Harry, that something had to be done. She had $1,500 saved up. Mary couldn't recall telling Harry took higher. Christopher Wyatt. Mary testified. I've just blocked it out. It was so terrible. It was better to forget it. Her attorney Arnold Levine noted that Mary had a vision of leaving the money in an envelope a week before the murder. He said, she's struggling to remember exactly what her role was in the murder, but she does acknowledge

49:14having a role in it. And that was kind of my point, right? It's not like these people are saying, hey, we didn't do this. They're admitting that they did it. Now, what their role exactly was, okay, maybe that's a little fuzzy. During cross examination, Mary said Stiles had not threatened her the night of the murder. And she wasn't an imminent danger that night, but he kept saying, I'm going to kill you, but the timing's just not right. Every day I knew it was getting closer and closer. Unless you're in that situation, you probably can't feel what that is like. Or what it would do to you, what toll it would take on you. Yeah, I mean, just the emotional abuse of that. Yeah, my thought though is that this admission that she wasn't an imminent danger that night, that could be huge for a jury. It could be, yeah. Judge William Fuente took over in the middle of

50:15the trial because the original judge was diagnosed with tuberculosis. Judge Fuente temporarily dismissed the jury. So he could listen to arguments over whether he should allow experts to testify that Mary was a battered woman who killed in self-defense. The prosecution argued that no other court in the country recognized self-defense and a murder for highercase. Mary had no proof she was an imminent danger at the time she plotted the murder. The defense asked the judge to let the jurors make up their own mind on whether Mary was an imminent danger. The judge decided the defense could not use battered woman syndrome as a legal defense. Then later said he would reconsider and make another ruling. Yeah, I'm guessing it must have been a really tough time, you know, to be one of the first courts to allow this type of defense. Yeah, I think that had been used as a defense

51:21before, but it sounds like it hadn't been used in a murder for higher plot before. And I think the judge is having doubts about it, right? He's struggling with it. Well, as did the previous judge, Kathy Berry testified that her father woke up most mornings and immediately started drinking. She said, he was like Satan himself, very cruel and cold-hearted and sadistic. She recounted an incident where her father hit her when she was seven months pregnant and she had to get an emergency c-section. I think that's when he broke her jaw. I wouldn't doubt it. Donna Miles also testified about how her father shot her fiance. Donna told the jury that she begged her mom to leave her father. Mary appeared very rundown, nervous and scared in the weeks, leading up to Styles' death. The following day, the judge ruled that the defense would be permitted to use the battered

52:22spouse defense, which would allow expert testimony. And it's a huge ruling, right? Whether or not this defense can be used. Yeah, because it's one, obviously for Mary, but it's going to set the stage for future cases. Well, I could create a precedent. Yeah. But, you know, for this trial, okay, now we're going to have experts come in. It's going to change the whole tenor of the trial. Clinical psychologist Sidney Marin testified that Mary viewed herself as passive, feminine, inferior, controlled by others and nurturing. In one psychological test, Mary was shown a drawing of a woman alone on a bridge and was asked to create a storyline. Mary said the man and woman had a fight and he was looking for her, but she hoped he didn't find her. According to Marin, her response revealed that she was a woman whose fear of her husband's violence

53:22shadowed her entire outlook online. Now, I understand how you could come to that determination, but I could also understand how someone might be able to craft a story because they know what they need. They need these clinical psychologists to stand up for them and say, hey, this woman was in fear for her life. I'm not saying that's what happened. I'm saying I could see a scenario. Sure, because you know what outcome you're trying to achieve. Yes. Clinical sociologist Marty testified that styles as abuse of pets was a bad sign and cited research suggesting people who abuse animals often abuse people. Mary told Lauren that her husband threw a kitten from a moving vehicle and often punched the family dog. Okay, just a mean guy. You know, one way to get the jury maybe to view this guy as even a bigger scumbag, bring animals into it. Yeah.

54:28You've already painted him as an abuser of the family and now you're saying that he also abused the pets. Lauren said Mary was caught in a trap of abuse. Styles would lash out, apologize, and then build up to another explosion. She described Mary's battered woman syndrome as much more severe than most cases I've seen. And I think that cycle is probably not that unusual for abusers. No, you know, they lash out and then they apologize. They say, oh, I'm never going to do it again. And then it builds back up and then they do it again. I mean, there's people listening right now that are shaking their head. Yep. Been there, seen that, been through it. Yeah. I know what you guys are saying, which is sad, but unfortunately, very true. Betty Tanner, a director of the International Independent Showman's Association, testified that the showman's club,

55:31Grady Styles, his regular bar, didn't serve alcohol before 1 p.m. On Sundays, which contradicted the defense's claim. The styles began drinking early that morning at the club. And I thought that was a little strange because I thought they said he woke up and was drinking in the bedroom, but maybe that was just most days he did that. Yeah. And this day they said he went to the club. I don't know. In closing arguments, the prosecution portrayed Mary as a calculating wife who raised money to pay for murder. She wanted styles that so she couldn't inherit his side show acts and other assets. I don't really believe that though. I think that would end up being a benefit of the murder, but well, I understand why they're making that claim. This was a premeditated murder for hire. That part is not in dispute. What is in dispute is whether or not she did it

56:35because she was in fear for her life. She thought this man who she said was abusing her was going to kill her. Defense attorney Arnold Levine argued that because of the cumulative toll of violence, Mary had the right to kill her husband. Even if he didn't abuse her on the day of his death, he said, battered wife syndrome doesn't come from a day. It comes from a hundred days, a thousand days. Yeah, I mean, it's definitely a buildup of all that. On July 27th, 1994, Mary Styles was found guilty of manslaughter with a firearm and conspiracy to commit murder. Kathy Berry spoke to the Tampa Bay times after her mother was taken to jail to await sentencing. She said, styles ruined our lines when we were younger. He's ruining our lives when we're older. My mother protects her own life

57:35and her family's life. And she gets justice. When is the hurt going to stop for my family? The time spoke to Mary the day after the verdict. She emphasized that she had no other choice, saying, am I supposed to lay down and die? Then they would have said, oh, domestic violence. Let me tell you, it would have happened. It was just a matter of time. Yeah, I think she's right. She said she hadn't expected to be acquitted, but she was surprised by the judge's decision, the senator to jail. She assumed she would be allowed to remain on house arrest as she had for months leading up to the trial. And probably thinking about how when her husband killed someone, future son-in-law, you know, he was on probation for 15 years. And there was no abuse involved in that one. Right. Opening arguments in Harry Newman's trial started on August 3rd, 1994. The fence attorney Peter Katania compared Harry to a prisoner

58:42who had no choice, but to kill his captor. He and his mother belief styles would eventually kill them. He also told the jury that new men who was 20 had the intellectual and emotional maturity of a 13 year old saying, this man's view of the world is not like yours or mine. It's very narrow. Mary gave virtually the same identical testimony at her son's trial, chronicling years of abuse. Inflicted by her husband, a defense psychologist testified that Harry had the capacity of a 10 or 11 year old. Harry started his testimony by describing the good times. They had with styles after the wedding in 1989, but this only lasted a few days. He said, the first two weeks we were all together, and it was good, like a family should be, something like you would see in a storybook. Then styles started drinking again. Styles repeatedly threatened that he had killed before,

59:44and he would do it again when the time was right. He even listed the order in which he planned to kill them and threatened to track them down and kill them if they ever tried to lead. Harry lived in constant fear for his mother. Any attempts he made to intercede when styles was abusing her only made things worse. I think this is an important point to make, if true, because you might ask the question, but she was so scared of him. Why didn't she just leave? That question does come up in many cases, but as we've learned over the years, it's not always quite that simple. If this person is saying, hey, if you leave me, that's not going to change anything. I'm going to track you down. I'm still going to kill you. Where is she going to go? Where is she going to stay? What about all the kids? What would that mean as a mom to her if she would leave her kids behind

1:00:49in a bad situation, but she runs off for her to be safe? And leaves them there to be abused. Yeah, I get what you're saying. Harry admitted to meeting Christopher Wyant and paying him to take care of styles. Harry said he didn't know and didn't care what Wyant had planned. The only thing I knew was that I needed help to get out of there. On August 9th, 1994, Harry Newman was found guilty of first degree murder and conspiracy. His family was stunned that Harry was found guilty of the most serious charge out of all three of the defendants. He didn't even pull the trigger. And he wasn't the mastermind behind the whole thing. He was kind of, if you look at it, the intermediary. Yeah, the middleman. On August 29th, 1994, Mary Styles was sentenced to 12 years in prison with five years probation. She told the court she would serve her time,

1:01:52securing the knowledge that grady styles could no longer harm her or her children. She said, my husband was going to kill the family. I believe it from the bottom of my heart. I believe that it was just a matter of time. I'm sorry, but my family is safe now. Mary received concurrent sentences for manslaughter and conspiracy to commit first degree murder. She had already served almost two years in jail or under house arrest. Her defense attorney estimated that she would end up serving no more than a third of the remaining 10 years and could be out of prison and as little as a year and a half. So he's saying, what, 10 years, but she may do three, three and a half, but she's already done almost two. Right. Like she was coming through the trial. Yeah. Judge William Fuente told Mary that he freed a lot before reaching his decision saying, you've led an abused life. No question. You were the victim of violence and physical abuse for many years.

1:02:56I can't tell you how much I've concerned myself about it. He briefly referred to his own experience with domestic violence before announcing his sentencing decision. Outside court, he said his father-in-law shot and killed his mother-in-law eight years prior. And that experience helped him better understand Mary's situation. On October 14, 1994, Harry Newman was sentenced to life in prison without parole for at least 25 years. According to Florida Department of Corrections records, Mary was released from prison in December 2000. Christopher Wyant was released in August 2009. Harry Newman died in prison in March 2014. Life in prison, man. Seems extreme for this situation. Yeah. And I think that's what we need to talk about in our wrap up for sure. In 2014, Grady Styles III spoke to the Huffington Post about his father. He said, I'm not a fan of my

1:03:59dad as a person. My father was racist and abusive. When I cried, he was like, I'll give you a reason to cry. He also claimed the murder didn't play out exactly how it was reported in court. He said what actually happened was my mother and my dad had gotten in another fight as usual. And my mother had made the comment that something needed to be done. My brother had overheard that and went to the neighbor kid and told him that something had to be done. My brother thought that meant scaring him or beating my dad up or something to make him realize that he was going to lose his family. A little while later, my dad was shot. Grady Styles III also expressed one thing he wished he could say to his dad. Thank you for showing me who not to be. And maybe you can appreciate who I became because of that. You were a drunken bastard, but you were my dad. I mean, think about that statement. I mean, he's saying a lot right there.

1:04:59Yes. I don't think there's any doubt, Gibbs. Grady Styles Jr. was a terrible human being. Yeah. He was extremely abusive. He shot and killed an 18 year old boy because he didn't like him because he didn't want him to marry his daughter. But as we wrap this episode up, I'm so conflicted. On the one hand, it does seem as though there was premeditation. This was a murder for hire. So by those facts alone, Mary was kind of the mastermind behind the whole thing. She got her son involved to then paid money to somebody else to kill Grady. But then on the flip side, I do believe that he was extremely abusive. I do believe that, you know, Mary and even the kids were fearful of him. For sure. So I don't know. I would not have wanted to be on the jury

1:06:09for this case. I just feel for everybody in this, right? Of the people that were abused. Well, nobody won. Right. Nobody won in this case. You could say, well, you know, they're no longer being abused by Grady. Yeah. But their mother had to go to jail, right? Harry went to jail and died in jail. Yeah, man. So there's no doubt it affected the family negatively. Sure. I just wonder how much of this was, you know, kind of letter of the law versus understanding that Mary was being abused, but thinking, okay, she wasn't an imminent danger. She wasn't being abused at the time. He was killed. Yeah. Because I think that would have been probably much easier for a jury to say, well, yeah, that was self-defense. He was abusing

1:07:09her at that moment. She got a gun or a knife or whatever it was. Yeah. And that might have worked out a lot differently. I just wonder how much the premeditation and the kind of murder for hire went into it. But I just, I mean, do you sit and wait for that to happen? It just seems, I'm not trying to champion the fact that you should murder somebody. I'm just saying to sit there and wait for what you know is going to come and hope that you can defend yourself at that moment versus I'm not going to sit. I'm going to take matters into my own hands. Yeah. Now, I think if you're the prosecution, you're probably arguing that here's all the things you could have done. Right. You could have called the police. You could have taken your kids and left. And I'm sure they probably did, you know, outline all of those different things. But like we said, some of those things, they're not black and white. They're not as easy as they seem. But it's part of what makes

1:08:11this case so fascinating. That's it for our episode on Grady Styles Jr. We got a voicemail. You want to check that out? Yes, here it. Hi, I can give you, I've listened to you guys for years, seen, give you here. I had to take a break a few years ago because the case that you guys covered that was about a child. I don't even remember the name because I tried to put it out of my mind. But I love true crime and I love you guys and podcasts. I don't want to give my name because I am listening to things from, you know, several years ago, I think it's 2024. And I live in Indianapolis and I work with someone who lives in the home of her bomb myster or bomb myster. And I have become fascinated with that case. And I don't know yet if you guys, if you guys did episode on that, but I'm looking forward to it if you have. Thank you for the podcast. You

1:09:13do a great job. Keep your own time ticket. All right, thanks for the voicemail. We definitely did do an episode on her bomb myster. It was a crazy story to be sure, but it was way back. I want to say it was very early on, maybe 2017ish. Maybe. Yeah. It was very early on in the podcast. For sure. It was. Yeah. Did I just see a story not too long ago? Maybe I can the last year, year and a half that they actually went out to that property and started digging again. Yeah. I think there's been stuff in the news somewhat recently, but I don't know, you know, what else has come out about it. We also had some mailbag. Joe Mose sent us his new CD. Maddie sent us in some cool Roswell alien keychains and David Cullsick sent us his new true crime book called 1926 Murder in America. Wow. Thank you guys. Apparently 1926 was one of the deadliest years of all of them.

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