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In this episode, we dive deep into the world of unexpected entrepreneurship with Tom, the man who turned lockdown boredom into a booming business—handcrafting branding spanking paddles (yes, literally).
What started as making kitchen tops quickly pivoted into the pleasure industry, proving that necessity (or maybe just curiosity) is the mother of invention. We talk about his "permitted" relationship with a married woman, the filthy truth about Midlanders and Americans, and whether he really should have just embraced a career in the sex industry outright.
Does sex have to be amazing to make a relationship work?
Bum and boob advice from a man who knows his way around both.
And, of course, the unforgettable moment: "I’m being eaten alive."
Buckle up (or, you know, bend over) for a wild, no-holds-barred conversation about relationships, business, and the fine line between DIY and BDSM.
What started as making kitchen tops quickly pivoted into the pleasure industry, proving that necessity (or maybe just curiosity) is the mother of invention. We talk about his "permitted" relationship with a married woman, the filthy truth about Midlanders and Americans, and whether he really should have just embraced a career in the sex industry outright.
Does sex have to be amazing to make a relationship work?
Bum and boob advice from a man who knows his way around both.
And, of course, the unforgettable moment: "I’m being eaten alive."
Buckle up (or, you know, bend over) for a wild, no-holds-barred conversation about relationships, business, and the fine line between DIY and BDSM.
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