Facing Reality: The Emotional Resistance to Hard Truths

0:00Quick heads up. I do full chart readings at iamestrologyreading.com if you want to go deeper. All right, let's get to it. Why is it? Why do people struggle with the hard truth? Telling and receiving when it comes to receiving it, they don't they don't want to hear where what they may have dropped the ball at. You know, nobody wants to hear anything bad about themselves. You know, no matter what you can then search your own situation, whether it be romantic relationship or relationship with the homies, you know, whoever telling the truth, it may be hard because you don't, it could be many reasons. One reason that I see, you don't, you know how this person would respond.

1:03They may wait, wait, wait, wait. You left out a word. Respond. How? Well, I'm looking for one word. You don't know how this person will respond. Mr. Fuck your feelings. There's a, what did you say? Oh, yeah, there's a reason why I went to you, Mr. Fuck your feelings. We're thinking, do you hear Mr. Fuck your feelings up here trying to talk, talk about this stuff with King gloves on. Mentor up here talking with white gloves on. What you talking about? He ain't got no white gloves on. He's, he got, he got some finger, the fingertip glove. What you talking about? He, you know, he don't want to feel the emotional side of himself. All right. All right. Let's start this over. Paul and Mr. Mentor, the true Mr. Mentor.

2:09Why do people struggle with being told the truth and telling the truth? Their emotions. That's it. That's all you got. I'm like, you had to say it. Look, he's been called out. So he didn't say, look, I'm just going with the emotions. That's it. I've been called out. No. No, he was trying to give this old studio sass. I know what he really want to say, man. Come on. Well, don't think he's, just do the pinkies instead. He was talking with the pinkies. No, man. They, they, they, they, they're too involved with the emotions. Don't fret. Oh, they, they're, they're too, too, too, too much bonding with the emotions going on. And, and that'll stop, that'll stop

3:13anything from happening. And at the end of the day, it is, fuck your feelings for real, man. So, so you saying people don't tell people the truth that when telling the truth, we gauge how we think if somebody else will be able to emotionally handle it. Yeah. Yeah, man. And, and that's, that's an issue with society too. And a refugee brought this up earlier, um, able to, to respond in a healthy way. Instead of just flying off the end of what they emotions and shit. Gotta put that, that, that, that, that part of you, those emotions to the side and, and respond in a healthy manner logically and shit. Yeah, I understand. It may hurt your feelings, but you got to get over that shit, man.

4:16Get over that shit. I mean, it's, you want to grow? This is a way of growing. You want to, you want to look yourself in the mirror? This is a way that, this, this is looking in the mirror, facing that hard truth or telling somebody else that hard truth, being that person's mirror. Hey, man, that was a mic drop. You might as well tell people how you get on out of here, man. And, you know how? Hey, so that being said, you all the stars are shy like one. Hmm. We think you're going to put a bow on this on, uh, number one. I just want to say this. I want to encourage everybody that has listened to this podcast. Even if you got to start writing it now, write down your thoughts.

5:16And then gradually work yourself to where you can start looking into the actual mirror itself. What is that actual mirror? Stay tuned for the next episode and we'll get into it. Hmm. So you want to bring it back to the old mate? Well, since we talking about man and the mirror, you know, looking in the mirror, I just ended like this. When it comes to being able to look in the mirror, I like the two words that my co-host brought up knowing and acceptance. And although I know we are born in this matrix as humans to have relationships with people, I mean, you know, if a baby comes in the world and does not touch the love that baby will die.

6:22So we do need people. But I think we get tricked to needing people more than ourselves. And we got to realize, yes, this journey is a journey that we take with other people. We always got to remember it's a solo journey. You got to be able to, it's your soul's trip. Your soul's on this trip. And you can't even look your soul in the eye, eye to eye. It's all this is this trip. So with that being said, you know, you and your soul need to have a conversation. If you like these daily horoscopes and want one personalized for you, same style, three minutes about your chart, you can book a first impression reading at iamestrologyreadings.com for $25 and I'll record it. Drop it right here on the V.

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