Episode 17 | Body Image Issues Start at Age 5 — What Parents Can Do Right Now

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Episode 17 | Body Image Issues Start at Age 5 — What Parents Can Do Right Now

Here's something that stops parents in their tracks when I say it in clinic: body image concerns can show up as early as age 5. Not 13. Not even 10. Five.

That means by the time most of us think we need to start "the conversation," our kids have already been building a relationship with their bodies for years — shaped by what they hear, what they see, and what happens around food at home.

This episode isn't about fear. It's about getting ahead of it — with science, not pressure.

I'm a pediatrician and dietitian with 30 years of asking questions about how kids relate to food and their bodies. Body image is not a topic I can leave to chance, and I don't think you should either. The good news? The research on prevention is actually really hopeful. Small, consistent shifts in language and environment make a meaningful difference — and you don't need to be a therapist to make them.

In this episode we cover:

• When body image awareness actually starts (the research will surprise you)
• What puts kids at higher risk — and it's not what most people assume
• Specific language shifts to make at the table and in front of the mirror
• How to talk about bodies, food, and movement in ways that build respect, not fear
• The signs that tell you it's time to ask your pediatrician for a referral

Book Recommendation:

Your Body is Awesome by Sigrun Danielsdottir, Illustrated by Bjork Bjarkadottir

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only, not medical advice.