
Ep 45: Q&A - My Partner Still Drinks and is Unsupportive | Alcohol Coaching |
About this episode
In this eye-opening episode, your host Anna Donaghey explores one of the most challenging dynamics faced by those rethinking their relationship with alcohol. A partnership where the other half continues to drink. This heartfelt Q&A session, where Anna shares her personal experiences, offers practical advice on communication and provides insightful strategies to manage emotions such as resentment and frustration. Whether you're struggling to find support from your partner or seeking ways to fortify your resolve, this episode is packed with compassionate guidance to help you on your journey.
Here are the highlights:
05:57 Be clear about any support requirements you have. It’s a time to spell out expectations
08:12 Fear of change after quitting alcohol dominates.
10:28 Navigating relationship changes requires ongoing communication and reassurances.
14:08 Your happiness is in your own hands, not defined by others' behaviors.
15:34 Look for support beyond your partner; a community of people doing what you’re doing. Such a valuable support network of like-minded people
16:45 Up the level of self care you are providing yourself during this time
17:25 Healthy habits and changes influence relationships gradually.
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About the host Anna:
Anna is a certified Alcohol Mindset Coach, trained by Annie Grace of This Naked Mind. Drawing on her own journey out of alcohol addiction, she now helps others explore and control their drinking. With a career spanning 25 years as a Strategist in the Advertising industry, she combines her own lived experiences, with great insight into what makes us tick and what influences us to behave the way we do.
Connect with Anna:
Website: thebeliefscoach.com
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annadonaghey
Instagram: instagram.com/bigdrinkrethink
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