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Ep. 39: How Attachment Changes

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Part 6 of 6 in the June 2021 series on attachment!

The part you've probably been waiting for: how does attachment change?

 If you haven't caught the previous five episodes in this series on attachment, be sure to check them out.

In this episode, we look at 

  • How important it is to recognize insecure attachment as protective, trusting in the truth that things only change once we stop trying to make them change
  • What was needed at the time- but not received- for each stream of insecure attachment
  • How to meet that need now, creating a possible experience for that experience in attahcment to shift toward security
  • The power of rupture and repair in shift toward secure attachment

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Ep. 39: How Attachment Changes

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