Ep. 286 - How To Actually Surrender: The Process w. Sonya

This episode with special process guest Sonya delves deep into powerful topics like arriving at surrender, letting go of outcomes to manifest, and developing trust with the universe. Tune in to hear how she went from “am I doing this right?” to “I am ~doing~ this!” Through her process, she’s gained a deeper understanding of the power of the subconscious and overcame common blocks like overthinking, impatience, and perfectionism. From her very first mini-manifestation to her major life manifestation (arriving very soon!), Sonya's transformation from cynicism about ‘the work’, to curiosity and joy will leave you inspired. No matter what manifestation phase you're in, learning to trust and find magic in the process is one of the most empowering, exciting aspects of this work. Strap in and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and manifestation mastery!

 

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In This Episode We Talk About:

• Why arriving at surrender can be so powerful–and why it’s okay to arrive there in your own time
• How to let go of outcome to manifest
• Developing trust with the universe
• Building a relationship with yourself as well as the work
• Shame, shadow, and insecurity
• How manifestations can present as a challenge
• Sonya’s journey from cynicism to her first authentic manifestation
• How Sonya began to understand the power of the subconscious
• The all-too-common blocks of overthinking, impatience, and perfectionism, and how Sonya transformed those energetics around the work towards curiosity and joy in the work itself
• Why “cracking the code” of your pain, triggers, and core wound is just the very beginning
• How setting boundaries provided a springboard for manifestations
• Sonya’s tips and insights on what worked for her to manifest!

 THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

• Understanding surrender and building trust with the universe (00:08:00)
• Sonya’s journey from cynicism to her first mini-manifestation (00:21:50)
• How consistency and expansion brought in even more (major) manifestations! (00:41:00)

 

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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips 

(with exercises by Jessica Gill)

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
 – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
 – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
 – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
 – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self

With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

 

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