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同一句話從情人和父母口中講出來, 可能會帶給你截然不同的感受. 當情人說天氣冷要多加一件衣服, 你可能覺得很窩心, 換成是父母講你可能會覺得很囉唆或很煩.
其實差別不是在如何講這句話, 而是你對他們產生了甚麼連結? 當你和一個人連結的是快樂, 不管對方說甚麼都覺得一切美好. 相反地如果連結痛苦, 不管對方講得多正確, 有時就是不想買單.
關係的改變, 就從連結開始. 要有意識地察覺, 給予的連結是快樂或是痛苦, 一旦潛意識的人設定位改變時, 關係也會涮間改變喔.
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