Ep 158: When Connection isn't Safe- Oppositional Series Part 3
About this episode
If offering safety and connection is the antidote to oppositional behavior, what do you do if connection isn’t experienced as safe or regulating by your child?
In this episode you’ll learn:
- How connection and protection can get tied together
- How to keep offering connection, even when it’s consistently rejected by your child
- The science behind why YOU need to be receiving connection - and how you can do that even if you don’t have a lot of extra time or supportive people in your life
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Regulated Does Not Equal Calm {Ep 31}
- Match The Energy, NOT The Dysregulation {Ep 155}
- Free Resources - robyngobbel.com/freeresources
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppostitional3
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