Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame Heals

Part 3 of a 3 part series on toxic shame discusses how toxic shame heals and gives parents a map for how to be with kids who experience toxic shame.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• There is no technique or tool to heal shame
• What toxic shame really needs in order to heal
• The role of memory reconsolidation in healing toxic shame
• Why holding the truth for our kids matters

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Previous Podcast Episodes:
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 1
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 2 (includes a F R E E download)
What Our Kids Really Need (and Us, Too): Moments of Healing

Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame3

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