
Dr. Cheng Qian: Should my child see a therapist?
About this episode
In today’s episode we are joined by Dr. Cheng Qian, Stanford & Harvard trained Clinical Psychologist. We speak about all things difficult behaviors. Specifically Dr. Qian gives useful, effective and simple tips & tricks to deal with your child’s difficult behaviors. Here’s a preview of what we talked about:
- 4:03 - When to seek professional help for tantrums
- 6:47 - What can a parent expect in a therapist’s office
- 10:32 - How do we teach our kids how to comply or listen
- 13:25 - How to deal with a child who won’t clean up their playroom, ever
- 16:51 - How to use praise and rewards in an effective way
- 19:57 - How to deal with biting, hitting, yelling and throwing things depending on your child’s age
- 27:19 - What to do after a child comes out of a tantrum
- 28:39 - How do emotions and emotion regulation skills play into difficult situations
- 33:54 - Once you notice a pattern in your child’s misbehaving, how do you implement change
- 36:41 - Great tips for bedtime
- 42:35 - How to choose a child therapist or psychologist
- 49:40 - What if I’m doing the work, but my child’s tantrums are getting worse
- 51:04 - What is my role as a parent in my child’s tantrums
Find the podcast summary page here.
Join Dr. Qian on Instagram here
How to build a calming corner
Watch this interview on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/bCsG6QW9ZYY
Support the podcast and donate as little as $5/month!
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1255388/suppor
- Join the Reflective Parent Book Club for only $9.99 for the year: https://reflectiveparentclub.circle.so/checkout/reflective-parenting-book-club
- Watch my Tedx Talk on YouTube called The Over-Educated, Emotionally Underprepared Parent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDYJFY_9K9E&t=19s
- Grab our course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent: https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
- Or email me to join the next 8-week training (Starts Oct 12th), to schedule a discovery call for a 1:1 consult for your and your family or to book some leadership training for your workplace [email protected]
Get every episode summarized
Each time Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron publishes, we email you a written briefing from the transcript — the topics, who appeared, and any specific claims, with the ad reads skipped.
Email me new episodesFree for 3 shows. No card needed.
Hosts & guests
No transcript yet
This episode has not been transcribed. Request it and it moves to the front of the queue.
More episodes
More from Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

What if conflict were actually an invitation for intimacy?
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflecting About the New School Year: Expectations, Slowing Down & Sparking Curi...
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflecting on how mental heath care is failing us all
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflections on what we need to teach our kids about conflict (which also applies...
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron