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Full article with all the questions written out:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/
Even more questions to ask yourself:
- What are your goals? Not what do you deserve, but what do you want? Dream big, even if you think it's stuff you'll never actually have.
- What are your main blockages? What's holding you back?
- Are you just asking me for permission to go all-in and make getting laid your number 1 goal?
- Do you have a fear that girls won't like you if they see the real, vulnerable you?
- Do you worry if you have sex with too many girls, the girls will think you're a bad person/not like you?
- Do you worry about what other people will think of you?
- Do you worry you're not good enough to get laid; you're not really a player, you're not equal to Chris/Scotty/me/anyone else?
- Do you worry that having a tonne of sex will ultimately be meaningless - you'll achieve all you want to achieve with girls but will still be unhappy at the end of it?
- Do you worry having too much sex is "disrespectful" to the girls you bang; do you worry about using them for sex? (That doesn't have to be the case - it isn't for me).
- Do you resent women? Are you jealous of them, or think they have it easier than guys, or hate that they get to be the choosers - they can reject you for any reason they want?
- What places are you scared to hit on girls? (Supermarket will give different anxiety vs train station vs a girl sitting down vs a girl walking fast, etc)
- Anything else you worry about, or any fears or "sticking points"?
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