
About this episode
Hey, y’all! It’s just me today, coming to you live with some thoughts straight from the heart. The holiday season is here, and I want to share something that’s been a lifelong lesson: letting go of trying to change others and focusing on what we can control. Inspired by Mel Robbins’ new book Let Them, I reflect on the struggles and beauty of learning to let people be who they are—and letting ourselves be who we’re meant to be.I get honest with you about personal stories of addiction, heartbreak, and setting boundaries, and why this time of year can be especially hard for so many. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to fix anyone else. You just have to take care of you. Let’s chat about finding joy in the chaos, leaning into your God-given purpose, and making this holiday season—and the year ahead—one filled with peace and hope.
Episode Highlights:
[01:15] Why the holidays often bring family challenges.
[03:00] Mel Robbins’ Let Them: A powerful tool for letting go.
[05:10] Setting boundaries as a child: A personal story about my father’s alcoholism.
[08:30] Lessons from addiction and recovery: Why change must come from within.
[11:00] How to focus on your own spiritual well-being and transformation.
[13:15] Embracing your uniqueness and imagination to live your purpose.
[15:00] Final thoughts: Loving others without losing yourself.
Special Thanks:
Links and Resources:
Presented by ADF Media
Episode Highlights:
[01:15] Why the holidays often bring family challenges.
[03:00] Mel Robbins’ Let Them: A powerful tool for letting go.
[05:10] Setting boundaries as a child: A personal story about my father’s alcoholism.
[08:30] Lessons from addiction and recovery: Why change must come from within.
[11:00] How to focus on your own spiritual well-being and transformation.
[13:15] Embracing your uniqueness and imagination to live your purpose.
[15:00] Final thoughts: Loving others without losing yourself.
Special Thanks:
- Beachy Beach Real Estate: Call 850-233-4351
- Kittie Stewart, Dream Team Lending: Email Kittie.Stewart@edgehomefinance
- Bay Tax: Email [email protected] | Phone (720) 310-0084
Links and Resources:
- Mel Robbins' Let Them: Learn More
- 12-Step Recovery Resources: Explore Support
- Upcoming Events:
- Vision Board Workshop at Beachy Beach Real Estate: January 10th (time TBD)
- Speaking Event on January 16th in Destin—details coming soon!
Presented by ADF Media
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