
About this episode
Andrew and Sarah met on a dating app. Their first date was just supposed to be coffee, but it lasted nine glorious hours. They talked nonstop across four San Francisco neighborhoods.
But by 2 a.m., Sarah had an admission to make. She told Andrew, who is Asian-American, that his “race might be an issue.” Andrew was shocked. The kicker? Sarah is also Asian-American.
Today, we hear both sides of this story — and find out where Sarah and Andrew are now.
Featured stories:
- “When a Dating Dare Leads to Months of Soul Searching,” Andrew Lee
- “Manic Pixie Real Girl,” Jerico Mandybur
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