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BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You
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BPD hoovers are about the borderline - not you. People with Borderline Personality
do not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual only
thinking about themselves and their wants and needs. In BPD Hoovers Borderlines
lie, make false promises, and effectively gaslight you. BPD Hoovers trigger
the codependent's sense of I can fix what I did wrong and get a do-over. People
with Codependency self-abandon themselves and minimize their own pain so quickly
when a borderline hoovers. Hoovers are not only for the borderline but they are
also extremely manipulative. Engaging a Borderline hoover promises you only a
recycled repeat of getting wounded more and all over again.
do not consider your needs or feelings when they hoover. They are as usual only
thinking about themselves and their wants and needs. In BPD Hoovers Borderlines
lie, make false promises, and effectively gaslight you. BPD Hoovers trigger
the codependent's sense of I can fix what I did wrong and get a do-over. People
with Codependency self-abandon themselves and minimize their own pain so quickly
when a borderline hoovers. Hoovers are not only for the borderline but they are
also extremely manipulative. Engaging a Borderline hoover promises you only a
recycled repeat of getting wounded more and all over again.
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