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Borderlines Are Not Capable of Loving You
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People with Borderline Personality Disorder uhtreated or not successfully
treated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPD
do not know how to love or attach to you because they do not know the
"lost self" within BPD. People with BPD have no self from which to relate
to others. People with BPD are not capable of loving you.
They do not know how to receive your love and they are grappling
with the push/pull of the approach/avoidance conflict. Borderlines have
a disorganized attachment style that really means untreated they don't know
how to attach. People with BPD have no object constancy.
treated cannot, will not, do not and have not loved you. People with BPD
do not know how to love or attach to you because they do not know the
"lost self" within BPD. People with BPD have no self from which to relate
to others. People with BPD are not capable of loving you.
They do not know how to receive your love and they are grappling
with the push/pull of the approach/avoidance conflict. Borderlines have
a disorganized attachment style that really means untreated they don't know
how to attach. People with BPD have no object constancy.
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