
{BONUS} Helping Kids with Toxic Shame
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A short note from Robyn...
This episode is a recording of a social media post and a post I made in The Club a while back.
Loving someone who is held captive by toxic shame is so so hard. I hope this short episode gives you a little understanding of toxic shame and self-hatred, as well as a few practical ideas about how to be with a child who is stuck in a pit of toxic shame.
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