About this episode
Touch is one of our most basic human needs. But many of us have been deprived. How can men outgrowing porn embrace healthy physical touch with each other—and prevent harm? Find out in this panel discussion with Certified Husband Material Coaches Drew Boa, Stephen Thomas, John Kilmer, and Mike Chapman.
You'll learn:
- the importance of safe touch for emotional and sexual development
- cultural differences in physical touch between men around the world
- rules about touch for members of the Husband Material Community
- how to keep yourself and others safe from unwanted touch
- why you need to listen to your body and trust your gut
- what to do if you get a connection erection (aka "broner")
- how to fill your "touch bucket" in a safe, healthy way
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