
About this episode
We talk about romantic breakups all the time—but what about friendship breakups? The ones that leave you spiraling, questioning your entire personality, and re-reading old texts like a detective? This week, Sarah & Frankie dive into the messy reality of friendships after 25—the slow fades, the sudden betrayals, and the awkward ‘we’re basically just mutuals now’ phase.
But first—Frankie has discovered a new kink: getting kidnapped (not literally—calm down). He and Sarah keep finding themselves abducted by strangers and thrown into wild nights they never planned for.
Then, we get into the real stuff:
Why friendship breakups hurt more than romantic ones
How to tell if a friendship is fading or just evolving
When to fight for it vs. let it go
The one friend breakup we’ll never get over
And why making new friends after 25 feels like applying for a job
Grab your emotional baggage and let's talk about it!
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