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Jenna and Aaron share 7 unhelpful beliefs people have (they themselves used to have) about sharing pain with your spouse. Stay tuned for an episode on the helpful beliefs!
Here is a review of those 7 unhelpful beliefs:
- Tell them everything I’m thinking
- Reveal to them how they hurt me
- Get them to see how they failed me
- I can resolve my hurt by hearing an apology/admission of guilt
- This is urgent. Don’t go to bed angry (two sleepy dysregulated people are horrible communicators)
- The goal of conflict is to eliminate future pain or to become pain free
- It’s a one and done. If we can have this convo long enough we will fix it once and for all
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