
About this episode
Ever been tongue-tied in a meeting, or simply wanted to project more credibility? Don’t let self-doubt silence you. Learn concrete communication strategies so you can speak with authority and be seen as the influential leader that you want to be.
Here’s what you’ll find in this episode, for those who like the Cliff Notes:
- How to stop rambling and get to the point (stop, pause and say “my point is this” )
- Be succinct (use fewer words to make your point or use quantifiable tips “I’ve got 3 things to discuss today)
- Be likable (show interest in others, find common ground, be present and listen, smile)
- Be assertive (speak with conviction - as a statement, not a question, use a strong handshake when meeting in person)
- Be aware (read the room, notice how people are responding, adjust as needed and ask more questions of the audience to gain more engagement).
Some resources for you:
Want to speak with confidence and get 3 tips to command any room? I’ve got a free workshop on Zoom: Oct 15 from 12-1 PT / 3-4 ET. Sign up here: https://karenlaos.com/become-a-confident-communicator-free-workshop/
When women come together, magical things happen. If you’re looking for connection and community, join us on a free Zoom call: Oct 27 from 8-9am PT/11-12 ET to talk about what gets in the way of asking for what we want. It’s a safe and supportive place where we share resources and encourage one another. You can sign up here: https://karenlaos.ac-page.com/conversation-connection
Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world’s most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Powerful Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator.
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