
About this episode
Jiu-Jitsu obsession is powerful—it can make you great, but it can also wreck your health, family, and future if you don’t control it. In this episode, I(@thejoshmckinney) break down why “balance” is a lie, the dark side of obsession, and the 5 hacks that keep you training hard without destroying everything else. If you’ve ever felt like Jiu-Jitsu is taking over your life, this is the survival guide you need.
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0:00 – Intro
0:28 – Why balance is a lie
2:30 – The dark side of obsession
6:24 – Lie #1: Balance is a place
9:09 – Lie #2: Obsession is evil
14:30 – Lie #3: You can have it all
23:00 – How obsession shows up on the mats
30:16 – How it affects family & life
34:02 – 5 Hacks for balance
37:12 – Hack #1: Guardrails
41:18 – Hack #2: Drive in the right direction
46:13 – Hack #3: Choose the right passengers
53:28 – Hack #4: Pre-plan your stops
57:46 – Hack #5: Keep driving
59:52 – Why we struggle to enjoy success
1:02:00 – The 3 steps to suck less at balance
1:16:24 – Final thoughts
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