
About this episode
At some point, many of us reach a moment when our beliefs no longer fit the reality we're living. In this episode, Justin and Abi open up about their personal journeys through deconstruction—what it looked like, what it cost, and how it ultimately deepened their faith.
They unpack why questioning your faith isn't rebellion—it's often a necessary part of maturing spiritually. Whether sparked by suffering, disillusionment, or simply the invitation to grow, deconstruction invites us to reassess what we believe and why. But it's not just about tearing things down—it's about making space for love, humility, and a more authentic connection with God.
This conversation covers everything from the emotional upheaval of spiritual uncertainty to the gift of discovering God is bigger—and kinder—than we imagined. If you've ever felt like you don't belong in the faith circles you once called home, or like asking questions makes you dangerous, this episode will help you feel seen.
Deconstruction doesn't mean losing faith. Sometimes it's the most radical act of trust.
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