31: Is It the Goal… Or Your Timeline?

You say you want to play volleyball in college.

But what if the real thing stressing you out isn’t the goal… it’s the timeline you attached to it?

In this episode, Susan unpacks one of the biggest hidden pressures in recruiting: the belief that it should have happened by now. For the Class of 2026 and 2027 especially, watching other athletes commit can create a quiet panic — even when you’re doing everything “right.”

Susan breaks down the two biggest sources of recruiting frustration: timelines and expectations. She explains why timing is often just a guess, why attaching your confidence to a date creates unnecessary pressure, and how to shift your focus back to what you can actually control.

She also dives into a deeper question: are your expectations rooted in desire… or fear? Because the difference between those two changes everything.

If recruiting has started to feel heavy, uncertain, or discouraging, this episode will help you reset. You only need one aligned yes. And your time is coming — even if it’s not on the schedule you imagined.

Chapters

00:00 – The ultimate goal: you only need one aligned “yes”

01:30 – Why recruiting feels frustrating (Classes of ’26 & ’27)

02:30 – The Timeline Trap: why timing creates pressure

05:30 – What you can control vs. what you can’t

07:00 – Expectations layered onto the goal

08:30 – Desire vs. fear: where your expectations come from

11:30 – Are you limiting yourself to one specific outcome?

13:30 – Division, location, academics — what really matters?

16:15 – What happens when you drop the timeline

18:30 – The “drops in the bucket” mindset

22:00 – The Celebration Game: building confidence through small wins

23:30 – “Your time is coming — and it’s always on time”

25:00 – Recruiting is more than strategy

27:30 – Final reflection: timelines, expectations, and choosing from desire

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