303: How To Leave Your Comfort Zone With Confidence!

0:00All righty friends, welcome back to another episode of whoo whoo once day I am your host Renee I bring the real to the whoo whoo I bring concepts ideas real life insights struggles time frames yeah all that and I have a great one today I'm gonna go really fast into it because I'm still in it I guess you would call it I had a very very eye opening meditation this morning I'm gonna tell you the whole backstory it's a little personal but I feel like that's what we do here right we do the personal we do the real we do the truth because if I'm going through it I know somebody else is and we don't go through struggles we don't go through doubts we don't go through fears without it having a gift a use a way that we can use it to help somebody we can always choose to make it useful you know we don't have to always stay in this doubt

1:04in this fear it's we can choose to make it something magical and useful for somebody else we can grow we can learn and we can do all the things okay so backstory I haven't done a podcast because usually when I'm in a growth stage or a shifting stage I tend to retreat I tend to go quiet and I tend to let go of the outer kind of stimuli and I go within to really feel what's happening in my body so I am a Scorpio I am a six line I am a projector all the things usually I call it my Phoenix era where I explode and then I rebirth and it happens very very often surprisingly throughout my life and so I'm always going to the next evolution I'm always I call it like changing chapters and with that my character Renee goes through these big shifts these big changes and it

2:07takes a lot out of me because it's terrifying I'm not going to lie these shifts I'm not just like shedding my skin and then stepping into the new version easy trusting with confidence no it's terrifying I'm leaving my comfort zone I'm leaving everything that I know to step into the complete unknown so I'm not going to lie and say yeah I change and shift and switch chapters like a champ no I do it very very slowly and it takes a lot out of me and where I have to not only practice what I preach I have to lean into it hard I have to lean into everything that I tell you to do to think to look out in different ways I do all of that and so these past two to three weeks have been very very I'm going to say taxing I don't really know a better word but taxing on my body it's taxing on my trust my faith in myself and my guides and something bigger although I'm still in that

3:14freak the fuck out stage I have been reminded of how beautiful and perfect everything is there is a big plan even when it's scary even when you're stepping off the ledge even when you're letting go of your comfort zone there is always something right there to catch you I can say that with 100% certainty as you guys know I've talked about it before I think it was I don't know timeframes anymore because it happens so freaking fast but I think it was last summer I shut down everything okay I decided that I was going to go all in on my speaking on my podcast on my content and just really let go of the control of me having to have only one way that I can succeed and I stepped into a bigger serving way and so I haven't really been kind of selling anything marketing anything talking about anything I've strictly just been here on the podcast doing my meek weekly nudges and I've been writing my books that's kind of just all I've been doing and although I've been kind

4:19of quiet it hasn't really affected me in any way that I'm like oh my gosh I feel like I'm behind or anything like that so the past two weeks out of nowhere nowhere with quotation marks I can feel something churning okay the past two weeks I'm like okay I can feel that new identity coming I can feel my skin shedding I can feel this new level and so when I say my new level or next level what I feel in my body is I am being called to speak I am being called to hold groups to hold communities and I have been doing it in subtle ways I have our monthly woo woo live call and we've done two already they feel amazing I absolutely love them if you would like to join they are free they are every second Wednesday of the month they're done on zoom I will put the link in the show notes you can join that so that has been my first kind of step back into holding rooms holding space for multiple people because I do pick up a lot of energy and so I come in I do

5:24a little talk and then we just kind of let the room flow I've been doing my website where I've been putting more speaking opportunities out and having forms to wear holy shit people can hire me and stuff like that so I've been easing into it putting the seeds out putting the seeds out at no big deal I've just been following what feels good and the past two weeks I've gotten so many opportunities which yes I mean hello that's great right we love this I'm not genuinely saying like sending sales emails or anything like that yet people are finding me they're reaching out to me asking me you know hey am I still doing this hey do I do this hey what are your things for this and so it's no coincidence because you guys know I don't believe in that shit isn't it that I got invitations or opportunities requests for different kinds of things so there was a lot of one-on-one requests I had multiple people that were asking if I still offer one-on-one things and

6:26although I technically don't I kind of leaned into it because I'm also kind of in that surrender experiment where I was like all right you know if it's coming I'm not going to hold on to it too tight but I'm just gonna throw it out there so I had three people reach out for one-on-one things that I just wasn't really prepared for because I don't do it anymore and then I had two people reach out for a group thing now you guys know I treat everything as a sign as a lesson as a way to grow and I have this weird thing in my personality where I am one foot in like experiencing what's happening I'm getting excited I'm like oh my gosh people want to work with me this is amazing I'm doing the pricing and the sales and you know calling and doing all the stuff that you have to do in your in a business but then I have my other half that's sitting back and observing all the ins and out I'm noticing you know what's coming in well that's weird okay

7:27and that's how it came in and well how did this person get to know me and what is my mind doing what is my body doing and I'm kind of taking notes of the experience while I'm living it and what I took away was one everybody came from referral which bless that's how my four-line working perfectly the mechanism is working I'm a projector everybody was inviting me I wasn't pushing myself on anybody else so I can see things working pretty clearly but then here's where it gets funky okay I started to get very excited and attached to it so my husband's really busy my son is really busy everybody that I know is very busy and I'm not I'm very slow right now I'm very intentional right now and so the excitement of oh yeah it's go time I've been preparing I'm doing all these things it's go time let's fucking go and I got really excited almost like I felt

8:27like I was suffocating the opportunities and I'm gonna get fucking real with you guys like this is real talk inside scoop of Brunei and so every opportunity and I know you guys do this if you're business owners like you send me in voice you send the excitement and you're like all right I'm in and then it doesn't work out and you're like wait a minute what's going on here or I would get the invite and then I wouldn't want to do it it didn't feel right to me so I was like hesitant to do it and I said it doesn't feel good in my body like I'm I'm getting anxiety over this I don't like it or the other one I was super excited and I was offered what is that opera optimistic optimistic about it and I was starting to notice that certain opportunities weren't feeling good to me and others were and I can clearly see okay okay this is the rebirth era this is the thing and I started to get in my head a little bit because I said hey you know

9:28this is me talking to myself or my guides whoever I said you know why would you bring me these opportunities or why would you bring me these things and then take them away I was kind of upset and I'm being so drama right now they did not take them away take them away means I didn't get a response the same day okay that's how drama this is this is how our minds work and so none of the opportunities went away they just weren't happening on my timeline where I was like yes you mean you reach out let's book it now let's do it now right that's my excitement that's my willpower that's like yeah it's fucking go time and so I started to get a little I don't know if it was angry or kind of like losing my trust muscle I guess where I was like okay so you bring me all of these opportunities yet you take them away from me what gives here and so I went into meditation with that thought that intention and I'm gonna read it to you because I legit just came out of meditation I'm gonna read you the whole thing because it's fucking juicy so I haven't read it back

10:29I went into meditation and then it's kind of like automatic writing where I just kind of channel out and write unimpeded I do not stop and this is what came through and it was very very eye opening and it resonated in my body so I kind of want to make the episode after if that makes sense I'm gonna read you what my guides told me or what was happening in my meditation and then I'm gonna go ahead and kind of break it down into the lesson that I took away from it okay so stay with me here I hope it makes sense and I hope you can see how normal it is to talk to your guides if you have not learned anything from me I hope that is the one takeaway that you have a relationship with your guides with your team angels whoever you want to call it higher self true self soul whatever you have a relationship you have the answers inside of you it just takes patience to listen it takes the courage to ask and to hold and stay there until you get the answer so many times we have a question or we want guidance or we feel confused and we don't know what to do but we don't sit long enough

11:32because we're so tempted by the outside world of putting it in chat gbt or asking a friend or getting something that's like real and tangible but I'm telling you if you hold it and you sit with it you really do have the answers I can tell you that without a doubt in my mind so I hope that me reading just how quick this came through and how messy and imperfect it is you can search yourself and your guides okay so I said calling in guides Athena you need you guys know I do this I would like to unpack the situation what would you like me to know and I was referring to what what gives your bitches why are you taking away my opportunities this is what came through release the expectation it's like you're holding slash grasping to everyone you get like a lifeline it's suffocating it let it breathe more will come right now you are learning to release the expectations and relax into things the grasping energy is what is distorting the frequency

12:34you are not broken or left behind you are not less or more because of the opportunities it is just frequency you are either a match and then like an arrow draws it in or you're not draws it out it's very simple you are a match or you are not it's not personal you are also recalibrating rebirthing right now there's the old version that is grasping to the small we are leading you into the big with your experiences we want you to feel the difference in your body you can't convince the mind of something different you have to give it to the body to experience so each time an experience comes to you in form in quotation marks you are taking that into your body and feeling the resonance you can instantly feel it is not a fit anymore and then you expand your field expands so all while you are doing right now is tasting the energy and getting familiar with the new

13:35frequency baby steps it's like you have to convince your mind it doesn't belong there anymore it will never leave the comfort zone willingly so it needs to feel the uncomfort over and over again to allow the growth to happen it has to taste the new so it can see oh this is where I belong now and then I got the vision of that quote that we have all seen it came to a point where staying was more painful than leaving I mean it says trust let go of grasping let go of the expectations evolve expand explore you will see it all makes sense by giving you the direct experience you take it into your body you take action on it and that's how you feel whether it's a yes or a no embodiment just means body how does the stuff you think believe talk about feel in your body that's what you're learning now after they ended I can feel the energy kind of stop I was like man I get this now they are giving me these opportunities not to play the sick twisted game of like here it

14:40is catch the bacon kind of thing not dangling a carrot they're saying hey we're showing you that it is no longer a fit that my mind is holding on to that previous version of me because that's all it knows right one-on-one coaching one-on-one things is my safety that's where I thrive that's all I know it's easy for me and when I think of speaking or going on bigger things are working with bigger rooms and bigger energy field I get scared I get insecure or whatever the word is I have doubt about it and what I took away was an embodiment first era and I've been talking about this for a while now that we are shifting into an embodiment not intellectual we are no longer going to be an intellectual species it's just not going to happen the way AI is and the way the information is going we do not have an information problem that's that's what we've learned right we always thought we needed to learn more we needed certifications we need more answers we needed

15:41the step-by-step and we clearly can see that that is not it because now you have access to literally everything we all do and it's not like anybody is doing anything different it's a it's a belief thing it's an embodiment thing so we are going into embodiment and when that process happens what we do is we take things into our body first not the mind when we are moving forward when we are making a decision to move forward whether that's leaving your job whether that's starting a new job whether that's following your passions whatever the thing is we are going to have to experience in our body first not the mind in the way that we used to be we would make a decision let's say you want to start a business you're in a corporate career and you want to go start a macro may building macro may weaving business and so what do you do you go to chat GPT you get all your information step-by-step on how to start a macro may business and you get all the information and then you do all of that

16:49and then you take it into your body right that's when you're like oh shit I did it and now you can feel the scaryness the heaviest because now it's time to quit right it's time to quit your job it's time to go all in on your macro may business and your body is so hesitant you're so fearful that you don't take action that's usually the steps that we go in now right I have the idea I research and then I act not anymore now we are going to go into action how does this feel when I move towards it if I get the idea I want to start a macro may business and you start doing the things by going to buy the material to do your first macro may you can see whether it's a resonant yes or a resonant no in your body it's not going to start with the mind it's not going to start with a 10 step bulleted list it is going to start with action and that's what they are showing me because I can read dude I have read I have learned and I have researched where I'm headed I can see it in my astrology I can see it in my human design you can too right we all enjoy reading all of

17:53these amazing things about ourselves and sure it sounds great yeah Renee you're here to be a global stage leader communities and more the better and your gift is communication and presenting things yeah it sounds fucking great but when it comes it don't feel as great when I read it when I read it it's easy but when I get an opportunity to go speak to 10 people I'm like oh shit because when we read about ourselves it comes in and it leaves just as quick it's kind of like when you read something and then like two seconds later you're like what the fuck did I just read I do this all the time because I watch every week I watch like an astrology show and I can't tell you what what the astrology I have to watch it like four different times because it does it it comes in so fast and then it leaves and that's the era we're leaving we are leaving this oh more information more information we're not going to do anything with it nope now we are bringing it into our bodies and so every time these opportunities were coming to me I was able to see the

18:58difference because I'm known for a while like I kept saying slash feeling I'm like I'm not I'm not into the one on one anymore I haven't been for a long time that's why I closed it I I couldn't do it anymore my body just kept saying no and people would reach out like hey can I have your perspective on this um hey do you want to meet for this and can I ask you some questions and I would not be available for it I'm like dude it just does not feel good in my body right now and although my mind is screaming like hey what are you doing these are opportunities why are you shutting down opportunities you're telling the universe no and my body is like calm and being selective and saying no it doesn't feel right and I'm gonna trust what feels right in my body one on one has been done for a while I could tell you that but to my mind that was the comfort zone I refuse to leave so what do my guides do because their geniuses they sent me opportunities for groups and they say okay we're gonna we're gonna give it to you because you have to remember your guides are pretty freaking smart and they're kind of minor sassy I like to call it like that so

20:00they sent me both at the same time and they were like chew on this one biznatch see how you'll like it so they gave me one on one and then they gave me groups and they said okay go ahead and chew on that for a while how does that feel in your body and immediately the one on one said no my body was like constricted it was like just it didn't feel right and when I got the groups I was excited I was looking forward to it I was like oh my gosh this feels terrifying I'll be but it feels right and so to convince my mind to get on board with my next level my next season it had to feel the difference between the one on one and the group so it's a no coincidence that all of those experiences happened at one time embodiment matters that is where we are going and they are not gonna just shove you off the freaking cliff we know this so take a look at situations that are coming up in your life and see how they feel not how they look not how they sound because that

21:03was me right oh my gosh this is easy I can just do one on one and it's easy it's what I know it's already there I already have the routine I know what to do and I can easily do that but it didn't feel right and although groups were coming in I don't have any basis for that I haven't done a lot I mean I have but not in this sense but it felt right it felt exciting so take the decisions or the pool that you're feeling and put it in your body first go take action on it I know I'm talking to a lot of people right now that are in that in between of leaving a different stage and going into a next one start taking action don't just sit there and research it and intellectual it to death don't do that we are leaving that generation we are leaving that era so when you go and see that take it into your body go take action on it just like I did I got the opportunities and I immediately acted on it I reached out back to her and I said hey how many people are you thinking

22:03this is what it could look like I was shitting the whole time and I also took action when somebody reached out for one on one there I was like okay what are you looking for and I was able to see in real time okay this feels right in my body and this doesn't because I've been preaching this from the day I've started if I don't feel right it ain't right and right now we are bleeding into that shift where it has to feel right we are no longer in the sheds in the house in the wise in the maybe no we're in the full on embodiment era and all embodiment means is how does it feel in your body take it into your body ditch the mind go into your body when you take action when you say it out loud when you go move towards it what does it feel like does it feel exciting and terrifying and oh my gosh or does it feel like an instant now that's where we are headed so the next time you get all of these seemingly out of nowhere opportunities or ideas or pulls or nudges

23:08is start taking action field them let them into your body play around with scenarios go do the things and then let it show you where the next step is because through my doing that I was able to clearly see where I am leaving and where I am going you