
252. What Happens When You Try To Change Your Spouse? And How Does That Impact Intimacy?
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Ok so your first reaction from our title is probably something like "what is wrong with trying to help your spouse make some positive changes?" Well.. nothing if it is something they want to change, but often times spouses try to shape or form their husband or wife into what "they" want, or what "they" think the perfect spouse should be like.
The truth is we are all unique individuals with different strengths, weaknesses and perspectives about life.
There is nothing wrong with trying to help each other improve and become better people, but when it is done through threats, guilt, nagging or other methods, it can cause significant damage to the relationship.
Rather than trying to change your spouse to fit the perfect mold of what you think they should be, how can you find happiness through their differences?
In this episode, Nick and Amy share their thoughts on what happens when you try to change your spouse, or how you try to change your spouse.
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