251 - Stop Fighting Each Other: Start Fighting for Your Relationship with Rich & Laurie Riedman

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What does it actually take to build a strong, lasting relationship?

In this episode, Boysen sits down with Rich and Laurie Riedman—veterans of the ManKind Project and leaders in couples work for over three decades. Together, they explore the deeper mechanics of relationship growth, conflict, and connection.

At the heart of their work is a powerful idea: a relationship is not just two people—it’s a third entity that must be nurtured, strengthened, and protected.

Rich and Laurie break down:

•  Why many relationships hit a turning point around the 7-year mark 
•  How unconscious patterns from childhood show up in partnership 
•  The concept of the relationship as a “container” for growth 
•  Why conflict isn’t the problem—but how we approach it is 
•  The shift from “me vs. you” to “us vs. the issue” 
•  Practical tools for communication, emotional safety, and repair 

They also share simple daily practices that can transform connection—like eye gazing, intentional touch, gratitude rituals, and recognizing emotional bids for attention.

Whether you’re in a thriving relationship, feeling disconnected, or navigating real challenges, this conversation offers grounded insight and practical tools to deepen intimacy and understanding.

This isn’t about fixing your partner.

It’s about showing up differently—together.

Find them: https://www.acouplesweekend.com/

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