24. The Fence They Couldn’t Get Over

Condemnation comes easily when we quietly assume we earned where we stand.

In this episode, John explores two truths that change everything about how we see other people: we do not know their full story — and we do not know their future.

Drawing on Psalm 103 and the classic film Angels with Dirty Faces, John tells the story of two boys who run from the police. One clears a fence. One doesn’t. That single moment sends their lives in opposite directions. Years later, one is a priest. One is a criminal.

How much of what we call character was shaped by circumstances we did not choose?

You’ll discover:
- Why condemnation assumes too much
- What Psalm 103 means when it says “we are dust”
- How curiosity disarms contempt
- Why only God sees the whole arc of a life
- How to bless someone you’re tempted to judge

John closes by inviting you to bring to mind the person you’re most tempted to hold in contempt — and to pray for them instead.

Because there is now no condemnation.

📚 Today's Resources:
Angels with Dirty Faces starring James Cagney and Pat O'Brien
Tim Keller — reflection on the film in The Reason for God

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